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Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 10:50:29 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		We all continue to read profiles that denote extreme joy over finding their Sir or Master or Ma'am/Mistress and taking a collar. Often times the person is a relative newcomer to the path and a few times the person has spent a year or more on the path.

Thus the the question is, after one year under a Collar, how as it gone? For responses, it would be appreciated how long you were in the lifestyle before taking a collar.

CelticPrince
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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 11:49:05 AM   
SirMichealspeach


Posts: 73
Joined: 1/13/2006
Status: offline 		I Had been in the lifestyle almost a year when I ask Master for Collar. Although He and I had only been together a little over a month,We both knew we were perfect for each other. We just began our 3rd year as Master/ sub and are going to be married the end of this month. I would say it has gone exceptionally well. As all couples do ,We have had ups and downs but never a thought of one of us leaving. We are soul mates both in D/s and Vanilla.

Sir Micheals peach

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 1:20:59 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		He collared me about a month after meeting. He says he knew immediately I was the one. We've been together over four years now and still love each other very much. We enjoy each other's company and ask each other's help and advice.

The dynamic is comes and goes in relation to our stress level. His business is picking up a lot which is wonderful but he doesn't have any time off as a result. So when he's working six or seven days a week, 10 hour days we're lucky to eat one meal together, and play is something dreamed of, not done.

We do what needs doing, for us, for the ums, to keep everything going. And we try to take us time whenever we can, because that's important.

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 4:37:25 PM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		peach,

thanks for your input, yours is one of the good stories we like to hear.

CP

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 4:44:54 PM   
CelticPrince


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Another success story that worked out despite the odds. Thanks for your input.

CP

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 4:47:55 PM   
Gardenista


Posts: 146
Joined: 12/6/2007
Status: offline 		It bears mentioning that my husband and I were married vanilla-style before we delved into a D/s dynamic, which was a little under a year ago.

Some changes here, tweaks there. We tried a few things... like a more structured approach. We threw away the things that didn't work, kept the ones that did, lol.

In retrospect, we began this at probably the worst possible time stress-wise (the sudden death of my baby brother) , so the fact that we made it this far is pretty surprising, lol. It's been one HELL of a shitty year, but here we are, still plugging along.. D/s intact, if a bit changed. =)

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 5:05:01 PM   
wisteriaV


Posts: 438
Joined: 3/17/2005
Status: offline 		I have been in the lifechoice for about eight years now. All of it real time.  Master and I met on CM 3 years ago  this past August and on 12/19 it will be three years real time we have been together. I adore him and we have a good thing going . I have had my permenent collar for about a year now. I wanted to make sure the collar was going to last..I dont see anything changing that in the future at all except adding another girl to our family as we are poly.

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 5:22:17 PM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		This past week made it 4 years since i first served Master ... W/we have been living together for nearly 3.5 years and i was collared to Him 1.5 years ago. W/we've had a lot of other ups and downs ... originally My Domme side had a sub hub, and W/we lived on the other side of Australia on a large property perfect for bdsm (We hosted play parties) ... sub hub decided he wasn't sub ... then he decided he wasn't hub ... lots of emotional angst and strain there ... property prices went berserk ... so in Feb this year Master and i moved across country to set up a new home together ... I tried out a fem sub who wasn't the right one ... through all of this, O/our D/s has got stronger at its core (even if play levels have dropped off) and O/our love and mutual understanding has gone from strength to strength. W/we're planning for old age :-) and as i am 51 ... well, He's only 36 so He'll just have to keep me young!

Maam Jay aka violet[A] (who did most of the talking this time!)

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 6:15:13 PM   
peppermint


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From: Montana
Status: offline 		I'd been hanging around D/s people in chat rooms and forums for several years ( maybe 4) before being in the position to take it real time.  When I accepted Gary's collar I'd been real time for 1 1/2 years, had known him for 1 year and had been living with him for 6 months.  I still say he cheated about the asking and did it at a time when he knew I couldn't refuse.  LOL...but i don't I regret anything about having been collared 1 1/2 years ago. 

We get along very very well.  Yes, we have our little spats on rare occasions but they don't last more than a few minutes.  That's when we realize we need some discussion time.  We enjoy each other's company.  We enjoy being together.  We've learned to respect the other.  Most of all we're friends and companions who just like spending time together.

If i had the choice of doing it all over again, i'd do it again in a heartbeat. 

< Message edited by peppermint -- 12/8/2007 6:55:01 PM >

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 6:19:09 PM   
hisannabelle


Posts: 1992
Joined: 12/3/2006
From: Tallahassee, FL, USA
Status: offline 		greetings celticprince,

my master collared me almost two years ago. after one year, we had learned so much about each other, and things are still going strong.

i was in one previous d/s relationship before that (long distance) for about one year.

respectfully,
annabelle.


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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 7:38:10 PM   
daddyncherry


Posts: 656
Joined: 10/9/2007
Status: offline 		i was collared a year and a month after meeting my Daddy online....less than a year after meeting face to face (10 mos maybe)....and am still collared almost 2 years later.

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 8:00:36 PM   
MasterFireMaam


Posts: 5587
Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline 		My girl had been in the lifestyle 24 years when we met. I am her forth collar (1st husband, 2nd Mistress, 3rd herself, 4th Me). We knew and interacted for a year before she petitioned. she'll have been collared two years in Jan.

slave bruce is in a preliminary collar. he's been in the lifestyle for 5 years. We've known OF each other for several years, but have only been interacting for about six months. I am his first collar.

I have been guilty of giving collars too soon. I hope that I have learned to temper that with my current process.

I have, as of yet, had ANY online relationship turn into a long-term collar.

Master Fire


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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 8:14:38 PM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince
Thus the the question is, after one year under a Collar, how as it gone? For responses, it would be appreciated how long you were in the lifestyle before taking a collar.

CelticPrince



Well..... one with Alandra passed sometime ago... about 19 years ago..... it's not so shabby this passed 19 years... we both were very new to things... in fact... Alandra was the first women I had intercourse with.....

and well Kyra's was brand new to the community but interested for some time when she crossed my path over three years ago.  She has been mine over 2 and half years and well it's been a pretty good run so far... and next saturday I am flying to Denver to meet her and drive her home to stay.  The long distance is finally coming to a close..... no more weekend get-a-ways or spending holdays to be together. 



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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/8/2007 10:12:45 PM   
adoracat


Posts: 1779
Joined: 2/16/2007
Status: offline 		i was collared three years to james before he passed away.  not quite two years to Fallcon before he, too, passed away.

Daddy and i have been together for just over 9 months now, and he gave me a permanent collar in august.

kitten

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/9/2007 2:35:50 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		Gardenista,

Yours is a unique convertion to D/s having both been vanilla first. Thanks for your input and keep you bow to the wind.

CP

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/9/2007 2:39:14 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		wisteriaV,

Grins, well 2 years as a warm up period will almost gaurantee success. Thanks for your input.

CP

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/9/2007 2:42:59 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		MaamJay,

phew, thro all that and still together despite the age difference and all. Yours is a wish story for many.

CP

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/9/2007 2:48:12 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		pepper,

Tis good to hear from you and you have been around more than 4 years, going back to the old CS days. Regards to Gary!

CP aka TM

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/9/2007 2:50:59 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		hisannabelle,

Smiles, still going strong after one year, but with alot of prep time. thanks for your input.

CP

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RE: Collar day plus 1 year - 12/9/2007 2:53:55 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		cherry,

regards to you and daddy, Yours is another story that goes well and suggests that if the time is taken to get to really know the opposite side of the slash, the chances for success go way up.

CP

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