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RE: psychological methods - 8/16/2005 12:12:45 PM   
LadyAngelika


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heh. very funny guys
hmm.
yes, i like petplay.
i like my sub to act like a puppy-girl.

i'm looking for psychological methods for training.
not as a dog.
first as a female slave...
i will take care to the dog-thing
thanks


All jokes aside, if you are into puppy play, go to your local bookstore and pick up a dog training manual. If it works for K9 bitches, it will work on human ones as well.

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RE: psychological methods - 8/16/2005 12:28:43 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


quote:

ORIGINAL: JekylHyde

heh. very funny guys
hmm.
yes, i like petplay.
i like my sub to act like a puppy-girl.

i'm looking for psychological methods for training.
not as a dog.
first as a female slave...
i will take care to the dog-thing
thanks


All jokes aside, if you are into puppy play, go to your local bookstore and pick up a dog training manual. If it works for K9 bitches, it will work on human ones as well.

- LA


Firstly, you could also see if you can just sit in and watch such groups as "Puppy Preschool" and other puppy/dog traing groups.

Secondly regarding the psychology of training your trik, I wont go there for the simple reason that much of that psychology would be dependent on her psychological profile. I will not get involved in discussing hypertheticals but, if you use your knowledge and combine that with what you learn for puppy training you will have a good starting platform to train her.


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RE: psychological methods - 8/16/2005 3:28:43 PM   
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I have a feeling I will eventually regret asking this question ... but what exactly is a puppy-girl?

It just can't be what it sounds like ... can it?

Not meaning this as judgemental by the way ... just wondering.


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RE: psychological methods - 8/16/2005 3:51:59 PM   
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ummmmmmmmmmm....more or less, yes. Man's best friend.

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RE: psychological methods - 8/16/2005 3:53:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: caitlyn

I have a feeling I will eventually regret asking this question ... but what exactly is a puppy-girl?

It just can't be what it sounds like ... can it?

Not meaning this as judgemental by the way ... just wondering.



I think you will find a puppy girl is one who is required to act much like a well trained puppy, ambulate on her hands and knees, eat from a dog bowl and generally behave in a manner you expect to find your puppy acting including barking. Still I may be way of centre there.


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RE: psychological methods - 8/16/2005 3:58:29 PM   
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Still I may be way of centre there.[/size][/font]



You're showin' some yourself, mate. LOL
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RE: psychological methods - 8/17/2005 2:35:07 AM   
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Thanks saret, I'll keep you in mine for those friends in the US who do have pet problems. I have a handle on things here as the only problem I have with my female Malamute is that she sometines forgets that although she is the top bitch here, my wife is the Alpha female .. I dont let either of them forget I'm the Alpha male heh.......



Heh.

but ......... I totally made that up. Complete BS. 100%. I just thought the idea of a pet shrink was funny.


sorry but your pets aren't going to get any help from me!



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RE: psychological methods - 8/17/2005 2:39:41 AM   
saret


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quote:

ORIGINAL: caitlyn

I have a feeling I will eventually regret asking this question ... but what exactly is a puppy-girl?

It just can't be what it sounds like ... can it?


Hey, people like pony play (dressing and someone up to act like a horse), dogs and cats are another variant.

Its not bestiality if thats what you're thinking.

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RE: psychological methods - 8/17/2005 6:45:49 AM   
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No ... I wasn't thinking anything ... I was just wondering.

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RE: psychological methods - 8/17/2005 6:47:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: caitlyn

I have a feeling I will eventually regret asking this question ... but what exactly is a puppy-girl?

It just can't be what it sounds like ... can it?

Not meaning this as judgemental by the way ... just wondering.



a puppy-girl is a femake slave that acts like a dog. a puppy-girl.
walking on all 4's. barking... etc...

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RE: psychological methods - 8/17/2005 7:15:42 AM   
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Caitlyn, if you want to learn more there is a discussion forum here devoted to the topic.
PuppyGirlCentral
In the photo gallery there are a few pics of puppy girls. Zeuchter and his pet Mirage are an example of taking it all the way, full body make up, etc.


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RE: psychological methods - 8/17/2005 7:41:41 AM   
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Contact 'Iron Bear' on this site. He's a pro and he'll know where to send you.

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RE: psychological methods - 8/17/2005 11:25:19 AM   
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$1000 gift ceritificate to a mall of her choice should work very well for at least a couple of days while she drools over her new shoes..

P.S. If you are calling your lady that without her consent, I'd buy some scrotal protection even while delivering the gift certificate.. M

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RE: psychological methods - 8/17/2005 3:00:28 PM   
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There is no such thing as a human female "bitch". Being "bitchy" is a emotional/mental/physical state some women (probably all) enter under certain circumstances...which may be different for every woman. This is a protective armor for her in dealing with some aspects of life, and "training it out of her" is not in her best interest, even if it is possible.

If You want a woman to stop bitching at You, listen up and attend to the irritation together. It's no different than how You calm an angry man. You can accomplish what You want with active listening and convening a sense of mutual respect. Which might begin with not dismissing her complaint as "bitching".

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RE: psychological methods - 8/18/2005 1:54:53 AM   
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it's too bad that you didn't read the entire thread...
i wrote a few posts back:
"a puppy-girl is a femake slave that acts like a dog. a puppy-girl.
walking on all 4's. barking... etc... "
so there is a bitch. & there is a bitch...

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RE: psychological methods - 8/18/2005 2:02:33 AM   
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It's no different than how You calm an angry man. You can accomplish what You want with active listening and convening a sense of mutual respect.


I can think of a couple of other ways for calming down an angry man. It sort of depends on why he is angry though... <VWEG>

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RE: psychological methods - 8/18/2005 2:56:48 AM   
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quote:

PuppyGirlCentral
In the photo gallery there are a few pics of puppy girls. Zeuchter and his pet Mirage are an example of taking it all the way, full body make up, etc.


I earned my money running a kennel of over 100 hunting dogs when I was in HS. Training a bitch; whether human or animal is the same. A lot of love; a lot of positive reinforcemetn; letting the bitch know you are in charge and that to please you is the only way she will find happiness.

On the flip side is training a stud. Same principles apply.

Some of you might be old enough to remember an old Doris Day movie, The plot revolved around a young girl who had just left her years in a convent school and was supposed to meet her jet setting mother in Rome. Mommy's ship had problems and the young girl found herself in Rome alone. she had no experience with city life and no experience with men. By the time mommy had finally reached her at the hotel on the ship's phone the girl had met a man. she had no idea what men were all about so her mother told her that everything she needed to know was available in a book.
The girl went to the book store and got a copy of "How to train your puppy".

It was hilarious. Everytime the man did something the girl did not think was appropriate, she went to the book and responded with the proper punishment. When he did something that pleased her she gave him the proper reward.

By the time her mother had landed in Rome, the daughter was in control of the relationship and was planning her wedding...lol.

Yes boys and girls...we are all mammals.

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RE: psychological methods - 8/18/2005 11:07:20 AM   
JekylHyde


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ok,
reward for good things & punishment for bad things.
these are the basics.
& of course. a lot of love.

but as i said - these are the basics.
i'm looking for more than just the basics
thanks

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