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RE: Using your submissives thoughts - 12/13/2007 12:53:24 AM

robertolapiedra

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ORIGINAL: LittleWench
Is it wank material (for either party)? Is it trying to get to know the sub? Is it trying to find ideas for scenes that will please the sub? Challenge the sub? Is it a mindfuck in trying to make her squirm as she confessions depravity?

Hello LittleWench. I'm in a LTR and I have never asked this, and never asked for a sub diary even.

I do not need wank material, I know my sub (sub fantasies are just that, fantasies!), my sub pleases me not the other way around, there is no contest or competion for the need to "challenge" and in my realty context, mindfucking is not allowed.

You are talking about a kink. Could be very nice for you and very unpleasant for others. It is sometimes called a control technique when the sub wants the dom to do stuff. Doms who think they have control in this practice have not done longterm very much... Just my opinion. RL

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RE: Using your submissives thoughts - 12/13/2007 4:59:37 AM

adoracat

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Daddy asks whats going on in my mind because i tend to not tell him things that are bothering me, or just floating around in there causing trouble. then again...sometimes i come out with things that make him laugh, too.

"what are you thinking?"

how to cook the porkchops, why is the iced tea warm when its been in the icebox all night, is the imp ever going to dress like a human being, how many days till i get to see Daddy again, why cant i skip from today to the 27th or so cause this hurts my heart, where is my bottle of green nail polish, why cant i just push a happy magic button and never have to shave again, what happened to the ring i was looking for, how can i get that lightbulb changed without getting on a stepladder....

it gets noisy in there. ;) the fantasies and other naughty thoughts kinda took to their own room, where its not so noisy.

kitten

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RE: Using your submissives thoughts - 12/13/2007 5:18:56 AM

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my Owner gives me from time to time assignments about my thoughts and feelings about certain things, but i have not been asked to tell the world or write every single dirty detail that enters my head.

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i am the sole property of Johnr. He is the love of my life and the greatest Owner and i will live to serve and, please him only every day of my life.

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RE: Using your submissives thoughts - 12/13/2007 5:47:51 AM

LittleWench

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why cant i just push a happy magic button and never have to shave again

I am SO with you on that one! My Owner and I are new at this, figuring it out as we go along, deciding what does and does not work for us... think I can convince him that him waxing me is a normal every day part of BDSM and that all Dom's enjoy inflicting pain on their subs in such a manner?

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RE: Using your submissives thoughts - 12/13/2007 10:23:59 AM

adoracat

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ORIGINAL: LittleWench

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why cant i just push a happy magic button and never have to shave again

I am SO with you on that one! My Owner and I are new at this, figuring it out as we go along, deciding what does and does not work for us... think I can convince him that him waxing me is a normal every day part of BDSM and that all Dom's enjoy inflicting pain on their subs in such a manner?

*giggling* yeah that might work! i hate shaving my legs....my hands tremble and i nick myself. bleh. and lets not even discuss the damage one can do when trying to do the landscaping around the delicate bits!

frightening it is!!!

kitten, who *sighs* needs to shave her legs....

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RE: Using your submissives thoughts - 12/13/2007 1:43:42 PM

SailingBum

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Greetings,

Providing your Dom with your wishes, and most passionate thoughts should bridge a connection. One is for you and your own self realization. Another is to for them to learn 'you'. They care enough to to explore the internal and process and filter then extend the offer to lead. Go for the ride. Go together beyond one single imagination.

That is my motive for doing it. To bring greater understanding to the relationship. I find it helps open her mind. I supposed it could be wank material if it was a LD relationship or a on line one. I have not had either so I don't know.

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