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buttplug dilemma - 12/9/2007 11:37:40 AM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		OK, so if I hadnt already told you all my entire life story at some point, Id probably feel a bit different about asking this but oh well...

So my Sir bought me this buttplug, after us FINALLY being able to do anal stuff for the first time in years and god am I happy about that but anyway, so he buys me this buttplug, which is pretty large, it always takes me a while and a whole lot of lube to get it in, but once its in its not really all that uncomfortable. But the problem is, well, its tapered like a regular buttplug is, so when Im working on getting it in, there is this gradual progression and streatching until I can fit the whole thing in, but then theres that sudden drop back to the small part, you know, the part that keeps it from coming back out on its own...ok..anyway, so heres my probelm, after I wear the thing for a bit, and go to take it out, my rear ends gone back to being used the the small part at the end, and theres no gradual tapering back to the huge bulb part, so how do I get it to not be so painful to remove the darn thing...are there plugs out there that dont have this problem? Do I need to go get a smaller plug till I get used to it better? Is there a way to get my ass to streatch easier?

Ok...I know this post is just begging for yall to come tear it apart with your snarky remarks, and go ahead cause truthfully I just love yalls snarky remarks but Im hoping someone will have an actuall answer too...lol

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/9/2007 11:49:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		There are some plugs that aren't so narrow at the bottom but then they often have a hard time staying in on the own. But add a simple rope harness to keep them in and it shouldn't be too bad. Try some of these styles Some of these come in more than one size. I really like the Tantus products but our site is full of fun toys.

http://www.leatherpost.com/static/PR023.html
http://www.leatherpost.com/static/PR020.html
http://www.leatherpost.com/static/PR016.html
http://www.leatherpost.com/static/PR021.html
http://www.leatherpost.com/static/E1123S.html
http://www.leatherpost.com/static/F1423.html The plug in this one is removable.

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/9/2007 2:56:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		As BBB mentioned, it's kind of a "pick your poison" thing... the easier to extract, the easier to fall out when you don't want it to (beware of sneezing!)

One thing that might help you for this plug, is that there are lube applicators that look like old-fashioned oil cans- they have a long nozzle to allow you to put lube exactly where you want it. Using something like this to re-lubricate the neck before removal could help a lot... as you probably know, once you've worn the plug for a while the lube will dry out/rub off/get absorbed, and lube is very important for comfortable butt play.

Now that i've gotten the helpful stuff out of the way, i'm now stuck humming "butt-plug dilemma" to a slightly off-tempo version of "Zoot Suit Riot". It's pretty catchy, but i can't figure out how to finish the chorus

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/9/2007 3:09:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Short, straight dildo and a crotch strap to keep it in? Start with the tapered plug to loosen up, then switch.

cheers

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/9/2007 7:41:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		JT's Stockroom sells Dilator kits. They have plugs that are designed for stretching and start at 1" and go to 2" at 1/4" intervals. They are tapered and then only go down about 1/4 from the max radius to the shaft radius. They work very well in my opinion and are quite enjoyable, though sometimes it is hard to sit down in a normal chair with one. Hope that helps.

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/10/2007 12:56:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		yeah we sell the lube shooters. Man are they awesome... Gets the lube right where I want it without any mess along the way. Dip the tip in the lube canister and pull. In seconds the lube is in the syringe and on it's way to where I need or want it most. Then there is no mess. No slippery hands getting everything else dirty. We sell them in two packs and I think they're $10 or so. I use one for silicone based lube and one for H2O based lube.

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/10/2007 8:01:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		Tanus makes several models that stay in place, but I don't find the drop as severe.  Also, from a different company, which I don't recall the name of, I had gotten a buttplug that claimed to be silicone, but was certainly not the grade I was used to.  It felt hard and unpleasant and wasn't comfortable in, so be careful of the quality of toys.

In any event, I also second the idea of lubing the indented part of the toy a bit before trying to remove it.  Also, try to do it slowly and remember to relax while you are doing it.  Hopefully that will ease the problem.

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/10/2007 7:26:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		We also use an inflatable plug so that it can be deflated before removing it.  There are tons of options.  Just have to pick what works for you.  I am going to have to look for those "lube shooter"  things that were talked about earlier.  Those sound awsome

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/10/2007 8:43:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hmm, this has got new lyrics flowing in my brain as well..

"Butt plug dilemma - DILEMMA!
put another one into your rear...
Butt plug dilemma - DILEMMA!
Have your booty make it disappear!"

...yes, maybe i need better hobbies...

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/11/2007 12:49:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		Lubeshooters are right here... you asked I delivered and I'm not even a bottom, just the community bitch top.

http://www.leatherpost.com/static/PR050.html

And on this page you'll find my current favorite two lubes. The You Won't Believe It's Not Boy Butter is the Boy Butter companie's water based lube, and the water based Gun Oil is amazing. And one of my bosses is swearing by the Swiss Navy lube. This is why we picked them up and started carrying them on the site.

http://www.leatherpost.com/CTGY/NEW

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/11/2007 10:21:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Try a silocone based lube.  Water based ted to dry out very quickly.  I also think it should get better with time. 

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/11/2007 10:35:49 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: petdave

(beware of sneezing!)
I now have a mental image of a butplug flying across the room

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/11/2007 3:34:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: John665623

Try a silocone based lube.  Water based ted to dry out very quickly.  I also think it should get better with time. 


Yes John, Silicone based lube would be a good idea IF the OP were not using a silicone plug. Most of the plugs I recommended and still recommend for one's safety and health are made from silicone. Silicone lube has the potential to break down silicone toys. Same story with silicone toys touching other silicone toys. The different makeups in their composition can allow them to break each other down.

So RECAP, silicone lube is great on everything but silicone toys. WATER BASED lube should be used on SILICONE toys!!!

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/11/2007 7:30:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		When you go to remove your existing plug, I would recommend you try rocking it back and forth just the same as you would for slowly work it in. Another thing I find helpful is to remove the plug before or during orgasm. I know I am a lot more anally flexable while horny and a lot less afterward.

Really what will make this easier (for using your existing plug) is working on your sphincter's elasticity. Odd as this may sound, playing with an even bigger toy that you cant fit can do wonders for your ass. It both gives you a goal and works you a little beyond what your current plug can do.

I'm not really sure where your at size wise but, Tantus's Big flirt is wider at the base but is a little more difficult to keep in (also on clearance at their online store).

If your using water based lube and wearing your plug for an extended period of time you will dry your lube up. I love elbow grease for all things anal. You might try some other lubes and see if they help.

I find inflatable butplugs are great for feeling full but don't stretch your sphincter much.

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/12/2007 1:44:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lube up and relax the sphincter by gently pushing like you're trying to evacuate. You should be able to ease it out with minimal discomfort

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RE: buttplug dilemma - 12/13/2007 11:34:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		BBB, thanks for the info on silicone.  That was very helpful to me.  I dont want to damge any of my nice toys. 

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