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RE: should I go back - 12/10/2007 2:40:01 PM

MasterFireMaam

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thank you, you are right he will love me more since i 'm coming back to him, just needed some advice

Ok, what you did was passive aggressive to the hilt. If the above statement is true, he co-dependent beyong belief. These two things might give a clue as to what is and isn't happening in this relationship.

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RE: should I go back - 12/10/2007 11:21:36 PM

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if i were you, and i even contemplated doing anything like you did, and i got asked to return to the relationship, i'd be expecting my behavior to be dealt with in some way or another. why?....

well because any man who let you spit in his face then rub it in like a spiteful little bitch(an example of your disrespectful behavior by not only taking off your collar, but cutting it up and turning around and making sure he saw it on his bed,) knows that there is a whole lot more going on then some emotionally reactive behavior/outburst during an arguement, and that it needs to be dealt with...

if he lets you go back and he doesn't deal with your behavior on some level or another, then i'd be concerned that he isn't 'fit to be a master'.

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valleyslave

2 weeks ago My master and I got into an arguement and when he went to work I took off his collar and cut it up and put it on his bed. He now says he forgives me, should I go back or should I
be expecting to get any punishment?

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RE: should I go back - 12/11/2007 1:44:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

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ORIGINAL: valleyslave

thank you, you are right he will love me more since i 'm coming back to him, just needed some advice

Ok, what you did was passive aggressive to the hilt. If the above statement is true, he co-dependent beyong belief. These two things might give a clue as to what is and isn't happening in this relationship.

Master Fire

And since no one here actually told her he'd love her more, her powers of interpretation are seriously suspect both here and in her relationship. But they seem to be enjoying this angst together.

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RE: should I go back - 12/11/2007 1:50:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

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ORIGINAL: valleyslave

thank you, you are right he will love me more since i 'm coming back to him, just needed some advice

Ok, what you did was passive aggressive to the hilt. If the above statement is true, he co-dependent beyong belief. These two things might give a clue as to what is and isn't happening in this relationship.

Master Fire

And since no one here actually told her he'd love her more, her powers of interpretation are seriously suspect both here and in her relationship. But they seem to be enjoying this angst together.

Having read the OP's other threads, my opinion is... a match made in heaven! The only thing that confuses me is why ask for "advice" when none will be heard?

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RE: should I go back - 12/11/2007 2:06:27 AM

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should I go back or should I be expecting to get any punishment?

While everyone is at it - should I expect sunshine, sleet or a blizzard on Christmas Eve?

Down here its bloody hot sunny with prehaps a swarm of flies

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