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MissSCD -> Finally at peace with myself! (12/10/2007 9:30:17 AM)

This year has been one of growth for me personally.  When I came to this site, I had a lot of anger to deal with in one way or another.
Thanks to a few people here that have stood with me and my slave, I feel like I am coming together as a full Mistress now.
The one thing I had to do is forgive myself for the dumb things I have done.  We all are human and should not judge folks for what they do.
I was very guilty of judging others in the past.  I hope that I will be a better person by working on my anger and turning it into peace.
Sorry if I ever offended anyone here.  That was not the intent of my being.  My intent was to merely warn folks of the dangers out there, but sometimes we have to find out for ourselves just who we are.
You all have a wonderful day.
What about you?  What are you going to do to work on your inner struggles in the lifestyle?  It is a hard thing to do.
 
Regards, MissSCD



domiguy -> RE: Finally at peace with myself! (12/10/2007 9:38:32 AM)

HmmmmmI once felt the way that you do today.

However, today I am working on changing my "peace" into anger.
I judge people based upon their actions...It works.

If I ever offended anyone, it was my intent.

What about the children?  Fuck'em....Unless they show some sort of a potential and promise of growing up to become a hottie.

Have  a shitty Christmas. 



agirl -> RE: Finally at peace with myself! (12/10/2007 10:01:44 AM)

Seriously, nothing.

The lifestyle hasn't got anything to do with the things that I'm not terribly at peace with. It's just *me* stuff. I've personal ideas of the things that I consider would help me a better person all round, but absolutely nothing to do with D/s itself.

agirl







MissSCD -> RE: Finally at peace with myself! (12/10/2007 10:11:02 AM)

agirl:

I am glad you have it figured out.  A lot of folks have problems overcoming their original beliefs verses the acticities that we engage in.
That was the inner struggle I was referring to developing.   The struggle within to be in this thing we are in is a constant reevaluation of values and self esteem.

Regards, MissSCD

quote:

ORIGINAL: agirl

Seriously, nothing.

The lifestyle hasn't got anything to do with the things that I'm not terribly at peace with. It's just *me* stuff. I've personal ideas of the things that I consider would help me a better person all round, but absolutely nothing to do with D/s itself.

agirl








agirl -> RE: Finally at peace with myself! (12/10/2007 10:41:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSCD

agirl:

I am glad you have it figured out.  A lot of folks have problems overcoming their original beliefs verses the acticities that we engage in.
That was the inner struggle I was referring to developing.   The struggle within to be in this thing we are in is a constant reevaluation of values and self esteem.

Regards, MissSCD

quote:

ORIGINAL: agirl

Seriously, nothing.

The lifestyle hasn't got anything to do with the things that I'm not terribly at peace with. It's just *me* stuff. I've personal ideas of the things that I consider would help me a better person all round, but absolutely nothing to do with D/s itself.

agirl





I hope my post didn't seem flippant, because it wasn't.

I sincerely haven't had any internal struggles with this. Relationship struggles; absolutely ,but I had those in other relationships. I've had far more angst in other areas of my life which makes this pale, really.

I don't view myself as *in* anything other than a relationship with all that it entails. It hasn't  caused me any great concern beyond that.

I'm glad you've found some peace within yourself with your personal demons.

agirl














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