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darchChylde -> RE: Male versus female subs - different approach ? (12/12/2007 1:37:38 PM)
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much has been said of men focusing on bodyparts, and i will not deny it; whenever i meet, nay see, a woman i focus on whatever physical attribute stands out to me and i will often imagine what they might look like sans clothes... then i move on and focus on the eyes (if it's someone i'm actually speaking to) and talk, even listen to them while trying to keep certain thoughts to myself and not act predicated on merely the physical
that being said, i could go through my email and and run the numbers; but at a guesstimate, 95 percent of the emails i recieve from women mentions my hair... sometimes it is all the email is about
I know this sounds weird
But your hair is gorgeous o_o *jealous* It's prettier than mine! LolSorry!! ^_^
the above is the entirety of a single unsolicited email (minus only her username) from one dominant woman, i'm not complaining at all as i am definitely a HAIR QUEEN (albeit a generally masculine one) and can never hear enough about my hair; i mere wanted to show tht this is quite common of the emails i recieve from women
but, to those who complain that submissive men tend to focus on a body part or on the physical, remember; it has long been the accepted theory that men are generally wired to be visual creatures in much the same way that women generally wired to be emotional... saying that, go ahead and seek the rare exceptions; but please do not look down on the many men who are merely following their true natures
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