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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

What percentage would you say your role is in the Dom/sub relationship? Not just sexually, but in making household choices, responsiblities..... Just curious as to how the regular responsibilites are taken care of .

Thanks for reading.

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

Its 100/100 percent whether in reference to responsibility or in consideration of receiving and giving. Each of us is 100% responsible for our relationship and what occurs in it. Choices made consider what would best serve 'us' - not one of us.

We don't look at the fact that 100% of the money comes from one of us any more than we look at 100% of the laundry is done by one of us. We look at it as 100% of what has to be done is done usually by the person best suited, skilled, or best able to do so, but just as often as a team with a common goal. Decisions are based upon the same concept and having the same consideration to a common goal.

Our relationship is complementary not based upon one's needs and another's fulfillment of those needs. There isn't a situation where 100% of the ideas come from one side and 100% of the effort comes from the other. The situation is resolved with 100% effort from both, serving 100% of us.