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DesFIP -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/13/2007 9:50:41 AM)

Masochist does not equal submissive. I'm submissive but not masochistic. I can tolerate some slightly painful sensation play but not much. I orgasm strongly from sensation play that I find enjoyable. I also orgasm strongly in response to him taking total control of me.



trueshadow -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/23/2007 10:47:45 PM)

Yes, of course.  It is the reason I am a slave.  I have a deep need to submit to the Superior Woman. 

I don't think I could find satisfaction including sexual in a vanilla relationship.  Believe me, I've tried!



flowspen -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/23/2007 11:32:51 PM)

I have yet to have an orgasm while enduring pain, i guess it is too hard to focus on such a pleasure even though i love pain.  I feel orgasmic from watching Mistress enjoy inflicting the pain on me though, does that count?



eyesopened -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/24/2007 4:48:08 AM)

And i find that i can endure or sometimes not feel the pain if it is inflicted while i am in orgasm.... but i am not a masochist.



laurell3 -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/24/2007 4:49:31 AM)

I have a hard time having one without it ...but I am a masochist [8D]



DesFIP -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/24/2007 5:45:35 AM)

A woman who orgasms from pain is a masochist. She may or may not be submissive.

Now being a submissive who is a bondage bottom, I have orgasmed without direct stimulation just from bondage.

But I don't orgasm from picking up his dirty socks, or proof reading his business letters, or cooking his dinner and those are a lot more submissive acts.



flowspen -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/24/2007 8:05:30 AM)

Why isn't being a masochist considered to be submissive?  Dont they submit to someone's authority?  I am just interested in knowing because I always thought they were submitting. 



eyesopened -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/24/2007 9:29:36 AM)

It's like pitching or catching.... neither is submitting.  Submission can be definded as yeilding to authority.  S&M doesn't necessarily require Authority just one to throw and the other to catch.  At least that's the way i would define it.  YMMV



julietsierra -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/24/2007 10:51:08 AM)

Does being a submissive or slave improve my sexual pleasure?

Oh YEA!

Considering my entire married life (and before), my first thought when it came to sex was "Is this all there IS?!"

And now, it's beyond anything I've ever experienced before, I'd have to say it SURE DOES!!

Oh ... and yes, I orgasm from pain. I don't know why. I don't CARE why. I just know I do and I am EVER so grateful!!

juliet



sexyred1 -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/24/2007 11:34:52 AM)

It is not possible to answer the question unless you can choose to NOT be a submissive or slave and you can compare sexual pleasure while being a submissive/slave or NOT one.



flowspen -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/24/2007 1:12:35 PM)

Eyes Thank you...



beltainefaerie -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/26/2007 7:16:15 AM)

I have had intense orgasms from pain.  I have had orgasms due to the depth of joy at submitting.  I have had orgasms simply because I was commanded to. And I have had orgasms in lovely vanilla ways too.  All of them fulfill part of my sexuality. 

Having tried to live without submitting, I can say that my entire being shines brighter, including my sexuality, when I am allowed to have the space to enjoy and fulfill my submissiveness.



littleone35 -> RE: Does being a submissive or slave improve your sexual pleasure ? (12/26/2007 2:55:52 PM)

I find my orgasams more intense when i am submitting to MY Master not any others.  Pain does not factor into it, actually if my Master used pain (which thank God he does not) i would be focused more on the pain and not on the pleasure. So i probly would not orgasam.
Just another take on the op's question.

Matt's littleone



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