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Hisgirlonly -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/13/2007 11:26:05 PM)
i'm 28 and Daddy is 31. He is very Dominant and Daddy like and i love Him [:)]

omgomg -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/15/2007 10:16:17 PM)
As an older subbie, i have no desire to have my Daddy/Dom be any older than myself! i mean...good grief......i need someone who can actually keep up with me...grins After all, i am only 12 y/o [:)] i had a LTR with my Daddy/Dom and he was 4 yrs younger than my drivers license age and it worked soooo nicely! Age of our daddys shouldnt be a huge issue since we are lil girls!

adoracat -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/15/2007 10:31:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: omgomg As an older subbie, i have no desire to have my Daddy/Dom be any older than myself! i mean...good grief......i need someone who can actually keep up with me...grins After all, i am only 12 y/o [:)] i had a LTR with my Daddy/Dom and he was 4 yrs younger than my drivers license age and it worked soooo nicely! Age of our daddys shouldnt be a huge issue since we are lil girls! it depends on your relationship. i am not in little girl mindspace when i am with Daddy...i am absolutely an adult woman. my "spirit", if you will, is not that of an adult, i look at the world with much wonder and astonishment still, i am still shocked as a child would be when people show ugly/evil behavior. but i am nto a child. i think as an adult, i love as an adult, and Daddy doesnt treat me as a child other than in his need/wish to protect and love me...and even then, his love and his lust and his wish to dominate me are as an adult man for an adult woman. even if he does buy me stuffed animals. [:D] kitten, who is well aware she's a bit of a paradox

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/16/2007 8:27:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: omgomg Age of our daddys shouldnt be a huge issue since we are lil girls! not all of us have the mindset of a lil girl with their respected daddies - i know for certain with mine, i'm not treated in that way. so for me, age would be an issue if a younger dom says he's a DaddyDom type especially if he's 10+ junior to my age.

Dominatist -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/17/2007 3:50:32 PM)
Oops

trueshadow -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/23/2007 10:57:17 PM)
No offense but I find the whole 'Mommy/baby' and 'Daddy/Little Girl' a bit creepy. I have no interest in anyone except my peers, and they are not mommies or little girls. Just my opinion, and obviously not my thing. I'd rather get beaten by my fellow adult than my 'mommy'. Sorry.

spanklette -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/23/2007 11:45:13 PM)
Good for you.

angelicslaveMDF -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/24/2007 5:23:27 AM)
i personally have a Daddy/Master who is only 2 years older than i am...i thought myself to always have this attitude that i wanted to have a "Daddy"...i am not quite into an age play as more of just a tender name i call Him, because of what He does to me and for me. i did try to meet with someone who was 23 years older than i...but there were too many differences in general lifestyle that in the end it didnt work out.

DesFIP -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/24/2007 5:40:26 AM)
What you're missing in focusing on the ages is the fact that the people in these relationships don't stay in D/lg space all the time. She may be five when they play, but she still is an adult who wants someone who likes the same music and shares adult interests. If you enjoy going to concerts, ie, then you'll want a partner who is also interested in alt rock concerts. And that will also affect what age range you are interested in.

KnOcala -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/25/2007 4:15:17 AM)
This is a type of relationship that I never really though about but if I was to look for a little girl she would have to be younger but probably in her late 20's or 30's. The age difference wouldn't be a factor except in comfort for both of us. On the flip side, I would feel more comfortable with a dominant female closer to my age or older.

LeMis -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/25/2007 7:26:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Typcynic I was wondering how many babygirls prefer a much older Daddy Dom compared to someone closer in age? Is the daddy/babygirl dynamic more of a physical (i.e., large age difference) or mental (small age difference) state? Let's see if I can explain. I've noticed that many women who seek a Daddy do not want someone who is old enough to be their father. That would imply a mental state. Assuming the girl is 30 yrs old and she wants to be treated like a 10 yr old, then a 30 yr old guy would be viewed as a Daddy figure even though they were both the same age. In a physical state, the 30 yr old girl would seek out a 50 yr old guy since that would be the age of her true Daddy. Or maybe that type of relationship just gets too creepy for most babygirls which is why some get angry when an older guy bothers to write. For me personally, age isn't an issue although much younger than me might possibly be questionable (but then depending on chemistry, etc... maybe not). To me it's more of someone I can trust to take care of me and know what's best for me (and him), someone I can snuggle up to when I've had a bad dream, or sit on his lap, etc..... It really depends on the persons involved, no cookie cutter answer, sorry. [;)]

sblady -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (12/27/2007 4:14:50 PM)
I wasn't sure I was going to post a comment, but I just have to. I read this post last night and it has not been far from my thoughts. I'm in a Daddy Dom/babygirl relationship!! Yes, I'm 42 years old and you may say, "baby girl my ass" but that's exactly what it is. My Dom is a number of years older (yes, He can keep up ...smile/sigh). The whole "babygirl" thing is just one aspect of our relationship. It mostly comes into play because I can be a whiny brat, which He will allow and tolerate up to a certain point. If I go too far, the "look" or "gentle verbal reminder" (or when all else fails, a good hard pinch will normally get me back on track). So, to comment on the potential "creepiness" of this relationship, I would say it depends on the people involved. I doubt that a guy closer to my age would be willing and able to deal with the whiny brat as diplomatically as my "seasoned" Dom has. The special connection we have is the ability to fulfill each others needs/desire. Take care and have fun...

willing2try1984 -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (1/6/2008 6:15:32 PM)
my daddy is 46 and i am 23. he is my first really daddy dom and i actually prefer it this way. i dont know why i have always wanted him to be older, and i dont know why i want a daddy dom i just do

subantionette -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (1/7/2008 10:09:13 PM)
Currently I am 20 and the man i am planing a D/s releationship with is 17 years older then I am, I dont think of him as my father, just as the amazing man he is.

impishlilhellcat -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (1/7/2008 10:17:43 PM)
My last BDSM relationship was a Daddy/babygirl relationship. Not in the respect as so many others have stated that I act younger than I am, but more of a supportive disciplinarian type of relationship. He was 17 yrs older than myself. I still find myself calling him from time to time for advice and guidance when I'm stuck or lost or wandering. I do tend to gravitate towards older men mostly because they can intellectually keep up with me and stimulate me.

liminalRapture -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (1/11/2008 4:40:41 AM)
Wow--I finally found out how to use the "Hide" button on the message boards. Thanks Kays!

BabyKittyKat -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (1/13/2008 11:23:51 AM)
Well, I don`t prefer to have those dynamics with a much older man, not because it`s getting creepy, but because I`ve had lots of trouble with pedofiles when I was little. I am trully scared of older guys, though I`m into ageplay. But when my partner is close to my age, I don`t get scared. If he is much older than me, I can`t forget the fear for one second even.

daddysblondie -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (1/13/2008 12:38:07 PM)
Daddy is actually 8 years younger than me, and while there are some "generational" differences, they are very minor. To see us in person or to spend time with us, we look and behave as if we are the same age. At the same time, the Daddy/girl dynamic with us is much more about the caring/nurturing aspect than about any kind of age play.

Daydreamer27 -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (5/17/2009 12:15:21 PM)
I am 27 yrs old and always thought that men 10 + older than me I find myself interested in them. I'm not sure as the whole Daddy/little gurl dynamic though.. For me the person just has to be strong, confident, secure, firm and fair if that means that the person has to be older than so be it but posses the same qualities listed as being same age let it be as well.. mmm my 2 cents worth..

janiebelle -> RE: Daddy Dom/babygirl dynamics (5/17/2009 1:21:34 PM)
That's the flip side to this situation. There are plenty of subs out there who prefer men significantly older than ourselves, but have no desire for a DaddyDom. j

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