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kinkypuppy2 -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/23/2007 2:12:51 PM)

Sounds like you need to find a different "Dom"



backseatbebe -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/23/2007 2:38:18 PM)

id just like to point out a real professional massuist (sp?) doesnt give happy endings
so please you probably have just as much "professional" training as the girl that gave the massage
so dont think less of your skills, because her true skill is really prositution



MasterGarghoul -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/23/2007 7:04:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

Apparently this already was a poly relationship,
which you knew, and you had settled for,




? "Settled for?"




ksub4u -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/23/2007 8:21:19 PM)

I find one of the sexier things about a Dom is his self-control and the fact that I can rely on it when necessary.  I'd be very hurt if he did what yours did.  I do wonder .. how does one accidentally discover someone had a happy ending?  



OldBastardly1 -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/24/2007 5:23:37 AM)

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–verb (used with object)



1.
to appoint, fix, or resolve definitely and conclusively; agree upon (as time, price, or conditions).  





17.
to decide, arrange, or agree (often fol. by on or upon): to settle on a plan of action.
 

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DesFIP -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/24/2007 5:53:13 AM)

If he had pulled a muscle and seen a massage therapist, that's one thing. He chose to get a 30 second 'massage' and a hand job from a prostitute.

Do you want to be with someone who does this? Someone with no self control? Or someone who equates you with a prostitute?

You deserve to be treated as a person of value, because you are.



sunshinemiss -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/24/2007 8:12:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sabella

Sounds to me like this is your pickle :) See this thread. He may be completely unaware of how much you giving him a massage means to you. To him it was probably just a massage with trimmings. Explaining this may not change his view on massages from other people, but hopefully you won't hear about them anymore.


I was thinking that too - this is her pickle.  lol



breatheasone -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/24/2007 9:40:11 AM)

quote:

Many times people tend to equate being special to a person with a particular activity... "I am special to him because we do this together." When the person does that thing with someone else, it makes them question whether they are special or not.

Yep...... I can really relate to this.



sunshinemiss -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/24/2007 8:26:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterGarghoul

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

Apparently this already was a poly relationship,
which you knew, and you had settled for,




? "Settled for?"




I think the point Old Bastardly wasn't the WORD settle, it was the INSULT that came with it.  ahem.



OldBastardly1 -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/24/2007 9:05:37 PM)

ya think? LMFHAO



CuriousLord -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/25/2007 1:04:26 AM)

You'd have to ask him his reasonings.. there are too many possiblities to spectulate blindly upon.  If he won't discuss them, try to forget him.  If you feel cheated on, you certainly need to talk.



cankles -> RE: Please help me understand... (12/25/2007 1:58:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ksub4u

I find one of the sexier things about a Dom is his self-control and the fact that I can rely on it when necessary.  I'd be very hurt if he did what yours did.  I do wonder .. how does one accidentally discover someone had a happy ending?  


Yeah, maybe I missed where this was explained, but it seems pretty important and I'm surprised nobody's asking why he would even TELL YOU he paid for a handy mere hours before seeing you. Either he wasn't cognizant of your feelings and didn't anticipate why it would be inappropriate (which means he's a dick) or he was aware, which means he's REALLY a dick.



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