the first poly household i was in a a slave did not work,not for major issues just too many things going on at that time.

the one i am in now is working out wonderfully.the couple i serve are both down to earth easy going people.but when it comes to the D/s dynamic we are strengthening our bonds as Dom,Domme and slave.

it's not easy at first but it works in time.what i found it takes is first the right people involved,open and honest communication and a respect for everyone.

we have no jealousy issues because of our openess.as an example,my Lord is away alot of the time due to where He has to work for now.So,most of my service is to His wife,my Mistress.which has been complicated for me. they both know this now because i took the chance to bring it out in the open that i feel my Mistress is becoming the primary(so to speak) i was afraid my Lord would have a huge issue with this seeing as He is the one who brought us all together.turns out this is acceptable to Him which as alliviated alot of stress for me.

but also in light of that,through open communication,my submission to my Lord needs to be worked on because i know the levels of surrender between my Mistress and my Lord will not be exactly the same but it needs to be just as strong and we will be working on that.

so,keeping open lines of communication and being honest about things i feel is the best way to go about things.

the hardest thing of all that we have run into is this. as their slave i have been able to surrender my body,surrender my soul,but my mind, that's a whole different thing,it's more difficult because i have taken care of myself for far too long and it's time to let that barrier down but it will take time.

i'll say it again,hoensty and communication.