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little subbie in a big Vanilla world - 12/14/2007 12:49:54 AM

sweetsubPammy

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howdy to A/all,
my name is pammy. i am a subbie trying to make it in a very vanilla relationship with an awesome army soldier. i am new to CM and i am here to learn. i have read several post already and i am completely interested and captivated. i want to to learn everything, but most of all i want to learn how to be a good subbie to a guy that doesnt really know what BDSM is. i have been reading and found out that i want to be the 1950's wife. so here i am on my quest to learn. any advice is awesomely welcomed and concerns will be read and weighted.
thank Y/yall for takin the time to read this novel about me.
pammy

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RE: little subbie in a big Vanilla world - 12/14/2007 12:55:03 AM

bekaness

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Hello Pammy... I might suggest looking into a Loving Domestic Dominant relationship. A good site is takeninhand.com. It supports more of the Head of Household part that is the cornerstone of a 1950s style relationship. It also supports vanilla relationships. I am not saying this is the only way for you but I found it to be quite eye opening and I am definately only kinky bdsm subbie. Hope this helps!

Rebecca

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RE: little subbie in a big Vanilla world - 12/14/2007 1:01:30 AM

sweetsubPammy

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thankies for the site. alot of other people i talk to have given me the same site and i am currently reading it. it is exactly what i was looking for. thanks so much

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