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Collars - 8/17/2005 7:32:43 PM   
Dom4UA


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Status: offline 		On the subject of collars,one potential candidate asked me if I would let her have a permanent collar tattooed on her!Would this be a good or bad idea,what are your thoughts?

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RE: Collars - 8/17/2005 7:35:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, not something I would do right away (I would want a long period of consideration of that).........assume it goes casters up in the relationship...........how do you then uncollar her? White out ain't hardly gonna get the job done I'm thinkin'.


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RE: Collars - 8/17/2005 7:36:09 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		I'd say that's a bad idea. You can't hide it in a professional setting. Get a metal collar soldered on.

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RE: Collars - 8/17/2005 7:38:56 PM   
Kinkypupper


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I do suggest have the slave registered with the slave registry and have her number tattoed on her body
Also I do like the idea of a simple steel colloar perminently afixed to her neck that in case of emergency could be cut off



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RE: Collars - 8/17/2005 8:17:31 PM   
Evilsgirl


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Status: offline 		i am all about getting marked with my Daddy's mark......but i dont know about a collar tattoo.....i agree with the soldered steel.....very nice....Evilsgirl <goes looking for Daddy to show him this>

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RE: Collars - 8/17/2005 8:46:06 PM   
perverseangelic


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ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper

I do suggest have the slave registered with the slave registry and have her number tattoed on her body



I honestly don't get the hype of the slave registry. I think it's much more personal and....possessive to mark one with your individualized mark. That is, if I played the top side, I'd mark that which is mine with something that is also mine. Something that came out of my head, and got put on his/her flesh.



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RE: Collars - 8/17/2005 8:57:03 PM   
Faramir


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ORIGINAL: Dom4UA

On the subject of collars,one potential candidate asked me if I would let her have a permanent collar tattooed on her!Would this be a good or bad idea,what are your thoughts?


Don't be such a pussy, dude!

Get it tattoed on her forehead

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RE: Collars - 8/17/2005 10:01:00 PM   
OscarHargraves


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.........assume it goes casters up in the relationship...........how do you then uncollar her?


I think Mnottertail has hit on the real problem here. How WOULD you uncollar her? Maybe that's exactly what she's thinking too. It would make it almost impossible for you to do a clean seperation. I think it's NOT a good idea.

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RE: Collars - 8/17/2005 10:09:55 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		It's an elaborate heist designed to fool the cash register when you're buying a sixpack or package of Twinkies or something. When the dumass checkout boy tries to scan your beer (or Twinkies), just surreptitiously aim your slave's tattoo over the sensor and watch the computer flip out.

Edited to add: Hey, do I have "heist" in that list of words that violate the "i before e" rule? Lemme go check...

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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

I honestly don't get the hype of the slave registry.



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RE: Collars - 8/17/2005 11:43:22 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		I'd rather have a slave brand tattood on her left thigh high up. If the relationship goes down the gurgler, she can have it modified to be more decorative..

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RE: Collars - 8/18/2005 6:07:27 AM   
greeneyedangel


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Status: offline 		this is just my opinion but i am not sure why a "potential" candidate would even think about having a collar tattooed around her neck. i think she needs to slow down and see how everything progresses first before even considering that.

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RE: Collars - 8/18/2005 6:28:36 AM   
Padriag


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ORIGINAL: greeneyedangel

this is just my opinion but i am not sure why a "potential" candidate would even think about having a collar tattooed around her neck. i think she needs to slow down and see how everything progresses first before even considering that.

Most times I've heard this, its been from someone online living a fantasy, not someone genuinely seeking a real relationship. I can't imagine most women being in the frame of mind to want to have a permanent collar tattooed around their neck from a guy they've only met online. Especially if they've only just met. Just sounds like pure fantasy to me. I would not do so anyway, even if such a person showed up on my doorstep. If things got serious enough for a collar, I'd make it a regular collar for at least 2 years before I would consider a tattoo or brand (most marriages that fail, do so withing the first 2 years). Some prefer to wait as long as 5 years. Rather than worrying about tattooed collars, new couples ought to be worrying about getting to know each other really well, building communication, and getting those skeletons out of the closet.

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RE: Collars - 8/18/2005 6:39:21 AM   
IronBear


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Most times I've heard this, its been from someone online living a fantasy, not someone genuinely seeking a real relationship. I can't imagine most women being in the frame of mind to want to have a permanent collar tattooed around their neck from a guy they've only met online. Especially if they've only just met. Just sounds like pure fantasy to me. I would not do so anyway, even if such a person showed up on my doorstep. If things got serious enough for a collar, I'd make it a regular collar for at least 2 years before I would consider a tattoo or brand (most marriages that fail, do so withing the first 2 years). Some prefer to wait as long as 5 years. Rather than worrying about tattooed collars, new couples ought to be worrying about getting to know each other really well, building communication, and getting those skeletons out of the closet.


This brings back memories of the old MSN Gor Chat/RP rooms. A slave would beg a collar one night and the next she was (with a different nic) begging collars from a variety of Masters in different rooms.... I'd bet that the same mentality surfaces here in the cyber areas. There is no way I could ever these days look at a collar untill I had been face to face with the person a dozen times over a reasonable time frame..

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RE: Collars - 8/18/2005 10:26:39 PM   
SadistDave


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Status: offline 		I have a customer with a collar tattoo on her neck. Looks great on a 23 year old hardbody.

I can't imagine what that tattoo will look like in 40 years though; encircling her neck and distorted by drooping wattle...

Doesn't sound to inviting to me...

-SD-

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RE: Collars - 8/19/2005 2:14:35 AM   
IronBear


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I can't imagine what that tattoo will look like in 40 years though; encircling her neck and distorted by drooping wattle...


Say What???????????

Watcha mean drooping wattle??? Everyone knows that subs and slaves dont age. They are all delightful graceful, exquisit, creatures like the subs and slaves (female variety. Sorry guys) here.

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RE: Collars - 8/21/2005 5:44:47 PM   
anopheles


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Padriag


quote:

ORIGINAL: greeneyedangel

this is just my opinion but i am not sure why a "potential" candidate would even think about having a collar tattooed around her neck. i think she needs to slow down and see how everything progresses first before even considering that.

Most times I've heard this, its been from someone online living a fantasy, not someone genuinely seeking a real relationship. I can't imagine most women being in the frame of mind to want to have a permanent collar tattooed around their neck from a guy they've only met online. Especially if they've only just met. Just sounds like pure fantasy to me. I would not do so anyway, even if such a person showed up on my doorstep. If things got serious enough for a collar, I'd make it a regular collar for at least 2 years before I would consider a tattoo or brand (most marriages that fail, do so withing the first 2 years). Some prefer to wait as long as 5 years. Rather than worrying about tattooed collars, new couples ought to be worrying about getting to know each other really well, building communication, and getting those skeletons out of the closet.


I'm in agreement here. A neck tattoo collar seems as scary to me as tatooing someone else's name on your body. Call me superstitious, but it seems like bad luck. In truth, with the right amount of communication in trust, unless the collar holds a strong part of your ritual and practice, you may find that you don't even want it. The only reason I physically collared Luvdragon is because her collar really makes her look really HOT. The pledge of submission, she took care of on her own, with or without the collar, and I personally don't need it to reinforce that bond.

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RE: Collars - 8/21/2005 6:33:14 PM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		a tatoo is a tatoo... but a tatoo with a significant meaning is a different thing all together. With a tatoo having a signficant meaning to represent the ownership.... I would think that the very fact that you question on if it is a good idea or not... reflects strongly that it is not a good idea. for in the end... all our opinions are of no importance. All that matters is that the two of you have to be comfortalbe that for the rest of her life... she will have a collar tatoo'd on her. there can be no doubts for you either of you. As a side note... My one girl has cross swords cut into her thigh... cross swords is a mark of my ownership.. it is permanant.. her and I have been together over 15 years. When I did it... I never had to ask anyone if it was a good idea or not... I only need to look into myself and my girl. There was no doubt about it. last week I cut a rose design (rose is her sysmbol) into her back. covers most of her back. Again no doubt's from either of us. When one is taking steps to mark someone that are of a permenant nature... doubts are not baggage one should be carrying in my opinion.

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RE: Collars - 8/21/2005 7:35:49 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Sounds to me like she just wants a tattoo around her neck...not so significantly a collar?
If she wanted a tattoo anywhere else, would you let her?
If she want's you to collar her, buy her a collar. If she wants a Tattoo around her neck...just let her know that it's gonna hurt a wee bit! Why not put it on her ankle instead? Just a suggestion.

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RE: Collars - 8/21/2005 7:52:10 PM   
perverseangelic


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ORIGINAL: fastlane

Sounds to me like she just wants a tattoo around her neck...not so significantly a collar?
If she wanted a tattoo anywhere else, would you let her?
If she want's you to collar her, buy her a collar. If she wants a Tattoo around her neck...just let her know that it's gonna hurt a wee bit! Why not put it on her ankle instead? Just a suggestion.


If you're trying to avoid pain, don't do the ankles. I am a fairly heavy masochist and my ankle tattoos very nearly made me pass out.

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RE: Collars - 8/22/2005 1:49:36 PM   
krazysubbiekat


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Status: offline 		Ankle tattoos hurt! (Says the resident panislut! <G>) So do bracelets, shoulderblades, etc, anywhere where there isn't a layer of fat to protect the bone. i have never known anyone who had a collar but i can imagine that it would hurt really bad as well for the same reason.

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