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Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 1:14:04 AM   
sammiebabygirl


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Status: offline 		their pets/subs/slaves, etc. with other Dominants? Is it totally individual or is it more gender based?
 
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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 1:57:12 AM   
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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 2:07:33 AM   
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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 2:15:14 AM   
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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 4:44:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		Master failed sharing in Dom  101 as far as sexual contact goes. He has given another Dom permission to  flog me or use another form of play however, but Master knew the other guy for a number  of years first.

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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 5:01:47 AM   
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their pets/subs/slaves, etc. with other Dominants? Is it totally individual or is it more gender based?
 
jen


When it comes to sexual sharing, I would certainly say Male Dominants.
I rarely see Female Dominats that say they share their submissives sexually.
I say make a poll!  

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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 5:06:07 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		It seems completely individual to me. And it also depends greatly on what you consider sharing.
Sexual sharing and sharing for just S&M are diferent. I know quite a few that will share for one, and not the other.
Personally, no one touches my boys but me, no matter what the context.

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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 5:37:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, could you tell us what you mean by "sharing" on this one?  That way we can chime in with our own preferences some!

In general, though, I'd say it's individual.

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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 6:01:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

their pets/subs/slaves, etc. with other Dominants? Is it totally individual or is it more gender based?
 
jen


When it comes to sexual sharing, I would certainly say Male Dominants.
I rarely see Female Dominats that say they share their submissives sexually.
I say make a poll!  


The poll would not be accurate   simply because there  are more male doms than female, and a far greater number of the females are pro so do not engage in sexual activity because of legal rammifications  so a poll would produce very  skewed results since those factors would be hard to eliminate, it also would depend on the partners they are meeting as consent would play a role, some geopgraphical areas may have higher levels of consent than others, example dom/mes in bible belt areas may have lower consent ratios than doms living states that have large metropolitan areas.  you would almost have to handpick dom/mes to ensure a equal mix to achieve the most accurate  statistics


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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 6:05:51 AM   
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their pets/subs/slaves, etc. with other Dominants? Is it totally individual or is it more gender based?
 
jen

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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 6:19:56 AM   
sammiebabygirl


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Status: offline 		OK. I will rephrase the question.
 
I am talking about sharing sexually. More specifically, if your pet/sub/slave, etc. was bisexual, would you share him or her with a Dominant to fulfill that need, if that is what he or she desired?
 
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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 6:22:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

OK. I will rephrase the question.
 
I am talking about sharing sexually. More specifically, if your pet/sub/slave, etc. was bisexual, would you share him or her with a Dominant to fulfill that need, if that is what he or she desired?
 
jen

I still say it's an individual choice and not gender based.

I have known some female dominants in real life who enjoyed sharing their property sexually; and I have known some male dominants in real life who enjoyed sharing their property sexually.

It all depends on those involved; individuals.

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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 8:14:29 AM   
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mine don't share which is good because i would never share them with another


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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 8:26:04 AM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		I also flunked shareing way back in kindergarden ... so I do not share my property sexually.  I have allowed  them to experience " single tail" or some other play that I was not experienced in ..at the hands of another Dominant ..but only if I was there and knew the other Dominant well.

My takeing on a bisexual submissive would not work for this reason as he would be frustrated in that area .

I think it is a very individual choice.

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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 8:29:51 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I've shared a few subs with other Dominant females. I don't see anything wrong with it.


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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 8:31:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		I dont think shareing is wrong ... just not for me .. Im selfish

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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 8:37:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think its compleatly individual, and not really based on gender or orientation. My daddy and I both share with others. but I think its a personal choice, nothing else. I know plenty of others just like us who dont share....shrugs. I think we're just horndogs.

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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 8:37:32 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

OK. I will rephrase the question.
 
I am talking about sharing sexually. More specifically, if your pet/sub/slave, etc. was bisexual, would you share him or her with a Dominant to fulfill that need, if that is what he or she desired?
 
jen


i would think that if an s-type were bisexual and they wanted to be able to have sex with the opposite gender of their Dominant (not all do...bisexual doesn't automatically mean that they want to have a poly or open relationship) they would make sure they were with a compatible Dominant, ie, one that wanted them to have sex with somoene of the opposite gender ("doesn't mind" can get hairy....and in my not so humble opinion is only partially compatable)...so sharing is a non-issue...the "who" and the "when" might be an issue...but the "if" and "will" is not....the same goes for monosexual s-types who just want to be able to have sex with more than one person, it is a compatiblity issue....it is not about the Dominant not being able to fulfill the s-type anymore than a Dominant having more than one s-type is about the s-type not being able to fulfill the Dominant...

chelle

edited to add: oh yea, and more sustinctly - it is individual...


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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 8:59:18 AM   
deeddlit


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Status: offline 		I am with others on this one...I think it is a very individual decision.

For me it is situational...sometimes I am in a very sharing mood...other times I am not.  There are those I love to share with and there are those I would not share my thoughts with let alone my most precious possessions.

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RE: Who do you think is more likely to share... - 12/16/2007 9:22:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's also going to be skewed by the fact that so many male subs are frequently under chastity.

But in general, individual. One person might lend you their car and another won't. I don't see any gender bias here.

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