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ORIGINAL: agoodgirl4Daddy

to kinkiness - i felt angry and sad reading your post.  That situation is one which any Master who cherished his submissive or slave (IMHO) would never have put her.  For me, BDSM is healing, spiritual, exhilirating, and intense. 

For one to be "forced" to submit to non-consensual rape IS RAPE.   i believe that the submissive or slave (and the Dominant) need to have the ability to stop a scene whenever he / she needs to, ESPECIALLY when scening with a new partner.  This is important for physical, emotional, and mental health. 

I call into question your "Master's" ability to care for his you with integrity and honor.  For me BDSM should not traumatize the participants - and Yes, i do believe that consensual rape/torture is something that actually can be a healing, growth-affirming experience (with the right participants..at the right time..for the right reason).  You obviously did not experience that interaction in this way, and if you haven't already, i would suggest you let your "Master" know your thoughts and feelings about being used by the other "Dominant."