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Jeffff -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 2:52:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent





Correct. There's no accounting for taste.


Exactly..............lol.........exactly

Jeff



NorthernGent -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 2:55:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I . on the other hand. enjoy a quick wit and a clever phrase.



'Same here, Jeff, but wit and good manners aren't mutually exclusive. Insults, attacks etc were specifically mentioned in the OP - hence the content of my reply.

I take your point though, to each their own.




takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 3:05:17 PM)

i agree, but cleverness and quick wit is not the type of behavior this thread is referring to.



takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 3:10:37 PM)

Thanks Northern Gent. i read Your post after writing mine.



DesFIP -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 5:38:51 PM)

The Man is a great believer in not giving respect to people who haven't earned it. And in not allowing someone to be rude to him, or me, more than once. You all know the old line "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me".

Unfortunately the op has been egregiously rude to a great many people in a very short time span and does not, by his rules, merit any respect from me.

He picked me not because I go around smiling sweetly, lowering eyes to everyone around but because I am highly intelligent, highly judgmental and I saved my submission for someone who deserves it, for the only man I have ever met who comes up to my high standards.

He likes the fact that I don't go around subbing to all and sundry, on or offline, he enjoys being the only one I view as worthwhile. And as I have said innumerable times, his rules prohibit me from submitting to anyone else.

You want people to be polite to you, be polite to them first. But deservedly earning a reputation as an extremely immature person does not grant you immunity from being treated in exactly the same way you treat others. The way to make friends is to be one, something known since King Solomon's time.



CalifChick -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 5:51:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Sometimes i read posts more frequent than not where the subs ridicule, attack, insult, put others down, and are just so ugly and vulgar in what they write to those who do not deserve


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but this particular  thread is only about people that hurt, demean and are cruel, attacking others for no reason.  


Bullshit.  This is just another "I'm subblier than you" thread.  What is this, the third one in a week or so?  Fourth??  Like others, I have to wonder what your Dom thinks of this.

Cali



MzMia -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 5:52:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Do You feel that your subs behavior reflects on You? Sometimes i read posts more frequent than not where the subs ridicule, attack, insult, put others down, and are just so ugly and vulgar in what they write to those who do not deserve it and i was just wondering as a Dominant what is Your opinion about subs that do that? Besides the obvious they are immature and probably lonely and bitter. Would You mind if Your sub acted that way?


 I would not allow my submissive to act like that, especially HERE.
So that would not be an issue, for ME.
[:D]
That said, some Dominant's don't care what their submissives say or do online, but if they do?
I would be interested in a Dominant that could not control his/her submissive's behavior.



camille65 -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 6:00:41 PM)

I find it interesting that some have the attitude that being polite equals being passive in a negative way.



Leatherist -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 6:02:28 PM)

I don't care what your role is. Your partner's behavior reflects on how well you choose one.



lronitulstahp -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 6:10:13 PM)

Assuming that most of us learn basic etiquite and manners prior to realizing our D/s roles...wouldn't a lack of manners(as implied) be a reflection of one's upbringing? Those of us "ownerless" types are just as capable of common courtesy as our collared sisters, and seem to display it quite frequently: having no"One" to hide behind.  But actually, who cares in this medium if people aren't behaving quite like Emily Post?  i wasn't even aware these forums required a "polite-o-meter"  in order to post.....Sorry if i'm rambling, i'm sure that is in poor taste.



Level -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 6:10:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Do You feel that your subs behavior reflects on You? Sometimes i read posts more frequent than not where the subs ridicule, attack, insult, put others down, and are just so ugly and vulgar in what they write to those who do not deserve it and i was just wondering as a Dominant what is Your opinion about subs that do that? Besides the obvious they are immature and probably lonely and bitter. Would You mind if Your sub acted that way?


Oh you mean like how your behavior reflects back on your owner when you comment that you don't see a lot of submission in the subs here or insult someone because their avatar isn't really their lips?

Quite frankly, you do the exact same thing you complain about. You simply do it while attempting to put yourself up on a pillar as better.


Well said.



lronitulstahp -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 6:12:05 PM)

Ugh!!!did i mis-spell etiquette, or just mis-type it???my bad!!!!



ImpGrrl -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 6:47:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: wisteriaV

While I am happily owned, I am soley responsible for my behavior and reprocussions thereof.  Master trusts me to do what I feel and think is acceptable.


Ditto.



Jeffff -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 6:48:42 PM)

With out resorting to insults, sarcasm or anything you find offensive, you may fell free to submitt as you see fit. Allow others the same opportunity. You posed a question, and did not care for the responses. Perhaps there is a viewpoint other than your own, which is equaly valid.

Jeff



AFlyInYourWeb -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 7:32:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Do You feel that your subs behavior reflects on You?



It really has nothing to do with D/s. In any human coupling, the actions of each one reflects upon each other.

It's just one more good reason to really know your partner before they become your partner.



MzMia -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 7:36:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AFlyInYourWeb

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Do You feel that your subs behavior reflects on You?



It really has nothing to do with D/s. In any human coupling, the actions of each one reflects upon each other.

It's just one more good reason to really know your partner before they become your partner.


I agree with this statement, very well said.
My submissive and his/her actions are a reflection of me.
But we are all free to think whatever we want, it is all good.



takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 8:14:11 PM)

Perfect! i was thinking the same thing myself. It's not a submissive thing to have manners and to treat people well. It's a decent thing that most of us practice.



CalifChick -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 8:20:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Sometimes i read posts more frequent than not where the subs ridicule, attack, insult, put others down, and are just so ugly and vulgar


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It's not a submissive thing to have manners and to treat people well. It's a decent thing that most of us practice.



So did you change your mind, or ???  First subs are attacking, etc., more frequent than not, then you switch to most of us treat people well.

Cali



girlygurl -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 8:24:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TotalState

My submissive is an individual, not a mindless robot. 


Hmmm... does this mean because I do feel that I am a direct reflection of my Sir that I'm "mindless" and a "robot" ? 

girly



takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Behavior (12/16/2007 8:24:22 PM)

So Jeff, what You are saying is that anyone can come on here and for no reason insult you, call you names, attact you and try to demean you and make you feel bad when you have done nothing to them and it's ok, because it's their view point? 

For example"

Some one writes a post: i live in dallas and my Master just left. i'm feeling sad. Does anyone have any words of encouragement for me to help me out?

Response:

Get over it! You're a loser. You sound so pathectic. get a life and stop whinning.

That response is ok because it's the poster's point of view and the poster's right to attack another human being who is asking sincerely for help and reaching out?



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