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RCdc -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:36:44 AM)
Hello noneoutthere You can post what you feel but only if its within the TOS. I know that sounds picky, but new posters don;t always know there are terms of service. As for the responses you got, its mainly because people do bemoan about fakes and wannabes and if you checked the search function you will see them. So you can understand why people get a bit testy when it comes to seeing the same over and over. That said, maybe you should just be thankful you weren't compatable with the person and they left. Also, one persons wannabe is someone elses somebody(repost) and as an example, some people see the slash typing as a bit of a online only/pretend player speak - so it might assist you to see why some people find your post ironic and treat it with less consideration. This is simply a possible 'why'. You just learn from what happened and move on and find something better. Be safe the.dark.

Aileen1968 -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:38:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Aileeen wears big girl pants when she plays on the big, bad internets! Damn. I kind of liked diapers. [8\|]

KatyLied -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:41:09 AM)
Lacy, big girl pants, come on.

LadyPact -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:42:32 AM)
See, you should have listened. Now it's too late. Here's a thought...... If you're concerned with the 'cyber-players', go out and do things in real life. It eliminates all of the crap that is made into excuses for why a person says one thing on the screen and whether or not that's who they are in meatlife. Sure, sometimes people poof in the real world, too, but showing up tends to lend some credibility to a person being interested in more than just a cyber diversion. If you want to meet people....... Go out and meet people.

batshalom -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:43:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nooneoutthere It is neg. because of all the neg. crap i have had to deal with. i am allowed to post what and how i feel. Strange that the ones now that i posted here have sent me messages stating they understand. I reanted because a LOL SUB wanted to learn and messaged....me..... i chatted with her and then when it came down to it she ran. It is that kind of games i can't stand and from what i see here being posted well what can i say. ~still trying to be constructive and not cunty~ Think of it like this, no one. If you were viewing other people's profiles, would you choose someone who is overtly and constantly negative or would you rather take your chances with someone who has a more positive outlook? One must always operate under "caveat emptor" but you are bewaring the buyer before they even care to look past your packaging. If you don't like my advice, simply don't take it. I wish you well in your search.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:47:21 AM)
If you are quite through with your little fit, OP, you might realize that you are in the same boat as a hundred others. We all have those that poof. If you take it personally each and every time, you are going to be a miserable and negative person relatively quickly. In real life, I assume you have never had a date not work out, a friend disapear, a contact dry up or anything like that. Kudos to you. This is not that far from real life and I dont kow why everyone gets such a bug up their ass everytime it paralells EVERYWHERE else. People are not obligated to be polite, they are not obligated to stay in contact and they are not obligated to eventually meet offline. Many on here are new and get scared off. This is a lot more intense than they had thought, and when it comes down to it they wanted the fantasy but might not be able to handle the real life. Some are playing games, and when you throw little fits over it, they get exactly what they wanted. They get to watch the show. Some are trolls, scouting for wank material. When someone goes sour, just get over it and move on. A submissive seeing how you react to one poofed contact on here isnt going to be terribly impressed by your abilities to maintian control. And just becasue we are realtime and such doesnt mean we understand or feel bad for you and your rant. I have had people disapear on me. No loss, i they cant be trusted to stick around in the beginning, I have been saved from wasting my time on them later.The 2 I do have realtime are worth all the work it has taken to meet and keep them, and they have put as much effort into it as I do. Keep that in mind, the ones who disappear arent worth it anyway, if they were theyd be matching or exceeding your efforts to make it work. Not disapearing and waiting to see if you come chase them down. DV

subtee -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:47:23 AM)
"cunty" hahahahahaha!!!

lauren0221 -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:49:13 AM)
You have a choice what you focus on. Learn the lesson, and move on. You can become bitter and angry, or you can become wiser. Your choice. There are real people out there. Some really good ones. Spending some time examining why you have not found one yet would probably be a more valuable exercise than whining. P.S. batshalom - have yet to see you be cunty - honest and direct, yes. Cunty, no:)

SilentTigresss -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:51:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nooneoutthere It is neg. because of all the neg. crap i have had to deal with. i am allowed to post what and how i feel. Strange that the ones now that i posted here have sent me messages stating they understand. I reanted because a LOL SUB wanted to learn and messaged....me..... i chatted with her and then when it came down to it she ran. It is that kind of games i can't stand and from what i see here being posted well what can i say. Well, i began posting hmm, i believe yesterday on here. i've had no negative feedback, for which i am thankful for.. and i now may get some lol... but you see, it will be taken with a sense of humor.. try it sometime noone :)

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:55:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nooneoutthere Ok i am going to rant here. i am so sick of the O/ones who like to PLAY at and with the L/S i so am and love and enjoy. Why is it that ppl think o " i am on the puter i can't hurt anyone". talk a good talk and then go blank? If Y/you are out there and REALLY want to learn ASK. If Y/you are out there to mess with ppl then go find another place to muse yourself. NOT here. READ the entire profile READ the Journals. Get to know the ppl Y/you are sending messages to. STOP the d__n games. PLEASE. AS a not to often poster on the boards how can you bitch,For many of us here have many years in the ls..ITS how I live,I say what I mean and mean what I say and if you just so happen to be a pretender then I will know it and treat you accordling..SO until you pay your dues sit back watch and keep your mouth shut particular on subject on which you know little or any..of course this message is purely the views of this ol' MASTER...

Jeffff -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 9:58:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee "cunty" hahahahahaha!!! Great......now I am hungry Jeff

Kirren -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 10:05:51 AM)
Between what I have seen here, and what I saw on the OP's journal, what I do see is some one that has been in love, been used and then been tossed to the side. Not making excuses for them, just saying what I can see. So...OP...its hard to let go, but taking it out on the next person is 1) cutting your nose off to spite your face 2) childish and close minded, which you could well be even at a ripe age of 52 and 3) Damaging noone but yourself. Perhaps, if as suggested you sit back, gain some composure to realize that your lack of self control in judging everyone and lumping any one who may speak to you for a while and then doesnt wish to speak with you any more, could have just cause. Far be it for Me to tell you how to deal with heart ache, anger is part of the process I am told, however, you should in fact be assured as it has been said, that perhaps the person who poofed on you wasnt for you and you should in fact be grateful. And if you exhibited some form of grace and approached that person and said..."hey I really felt like we hit it off...what happened?" HONESTY...and clarity in your speech to them, and not flaming accusations loaded with sarcasm and anger, might get you farther. My grandda used to tell Me that you get more flies with honey than with vinegar. And in reality, and in closing, if you rant to a bunch of people who only see your medicated negativity, perhaps you should check to be sure that you have a thicker skin...so that you can accept what ever they have to say.

astarri -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 10:09:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: batshalom ~still trying to be constructive and not cunty~ HAHA i think this would make a great signature ... To the OP sorry that you have been having a hard time. This is online and you dont know what is going on in this person's life ....good luck to you though

nooneoutthere -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 10:10:36 AM)
Lets See Ma'am i go to 2 munches a month and a member of a dungeon club and was collared untill Nov and have been in the L/S for more than 10 years, between years of research and real time. i also belong to the S.U.N. group ( Submissive Unity Network) which is a national group not just local. So i do go out to meet Ones. i have met several for coffee and at munches that i have met on ALT and CM... It is the online PLAYERS i was ranting about. With due respect Ma'am sunny

nooneoutthere -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 10:18:43 AM)
LOL read my post to the Domme ............i am NOT new!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jeffff -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 10:19:42 AM)
To paraphrase........... people here don't hate the poster....... we hate the post Jeff

spanklette -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 10:36:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nooneoutthere LOL read my post to the Domme ............i am NOT new!!!!!!!!!!!!! I believe he meant new to the boards...but, who cares? You're getting quality responses for all of the nastiness that you've got going on this morning. And, since you aren't new, why is this a shock to you? In the 10 years that you've been exposed to the lifestyle, this is the one thing that sent you over the edge...

topcat -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 11:06:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nooneoutthere Lets See Ma'am i go to 2 munches a month and a member of a dungeon club and was collared untill Nov and have been in the L/S for more than 10 years, between years of research and real time. i also belong to the S.U.N. group ( Submissive Unity Network) which is a national group not just local. So i do go out to meet Ones. i have met several for coffee and at munches that i have met on ALT and CM... It is the online PLAYERS i was ranting about. With due respect Ma'am sunny Sunny- if you'd been doing this for ten years, you wouldn't be having a newbie tantrum, or refering to the L/S (is that an acronym for loser and slave?) or 'the lifestyle' as if it was one great unified scene. This is the kind of post that makes me think that people with some credibiltiy on these boards- like Aileen and Katy, for example (hello pretties! how's the weather up there?)should be able to delete these sort of embarassing posts, as I kindness to the OP. Lawrence

sexyred1 -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 11:18:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nooneoutthere Lets See Ma'am i go to 2 munches a month and a member of a dungeon club and was collared untill Nov and have been in the L/S for more than 10 years, between years of research and real time. i also belong to the S.U.N. group ( Submissive Unity Network) which is a national group not just local. So i do go out to meet Ones. i have met several for coffee and at munches that i have met on ALT and CM... It is the online PLAYERS i was ranting about. With due respect Ma'am sunny Oh, I am just going to keep my bitchy mouth shut, but the irony, oh the irony of the person who is so real screaming about the fakeness of the online players... Oy Vey.

KatyLied -> RE: players and wannabe's (12/17/2007 11:21:43 AM)
quote: (hello pretties! how's the weather up there?) Hi topcat! It's brrr, snowing as I type. The big, slow flakes that don't cause any harm. It's electric blanket, cuddling weather.

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