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Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 11:55:25 AM

takenbyjohnr07

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When i first joined withpin the first ten days i received roughly about 700 replies to my original ad. They came from Dominants, Domme's, sub's every form of D/s walk of life you can think of.

Each and everyone of them saying how refreshing it was to read a profile from someone who sounded so real, so kind and down to earth. The letters would sometime include how awful the women were on here and how long and hard they searched. Then here comes me and they have finally found the woman of their dreams.

The letters are sincere one after another until you find out that they are as phony and as low down as a person can possibly get. What's up with that?

My apologies go out to all the gracious Dominants that wrote me using manners and respect. This post is not directed at any of You. There are many wonderful men and women on this site. snd i have had the pleasure of actually meeting some of them so i know it's true.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 12:02:29 PM

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Does this make sense? Does it matter? It happens to virtually every woman that joins.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 12:02:55 PM

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What exactly is the point of this posting?

Is it an advertisement for your profile to attract people to write to you?

No offense, but I read your profile and it is short and plain and in no way indicates how kind, real or down to earth you are.

I find your post to be rather like a cry for attention which is so interesting, since you seem to be SO happy with the love of your life.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 12:05:42 PM

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Yeah, it happens to all new women. I call it the "fresh meat" syndrome.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 12:12:15 PM

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Just like in real life there is a percentage of people both gender and role that will say/write anything to anyone to get what they think they may want. Just like in real life people will be dismissive of things that they are not and/or not important to them and this can go into denial proportions.

It is called life. People will suck up to anyone if they want something from them. For the ones who end up in the perpetual looking for it is often about trying to give the other what they think they want to read and not about communicating what they are about, want and how they think they fit with you.

It is just not a coincidence that people on a site or anywhere else who try to build themselves up by tearing others down are probably not worth the time of day to begin with.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 12:19:21 PM

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I wonder how this would be taken if I had wrote what sexyred1 did.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 12:24:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

What exactly is the point of this posting?

Is it an advertisement for your profile to attract people to write to you?

No offense, but I read your profile and it is short and plain and in no way indicates how kind, real or down to earth you are.

I find your post to be rather like a cry for attention which is so interesting, since you seem to be SO happy with the love of your life.

Not just this one.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 12:26:51 PM

takenbyjohnr07

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If that was the profie i used to attract peole, My user name would not be takenbyJohn. Logically, this profile is a different one than i originally started out with so i didn't expect anyone not to be able to figure that out. So naturlly i would not expect a post like that from you.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 12:28:33 PM

CalifChick

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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

If that was the profie i used to attract peole, My user name would not be takenbyJohn. Logically, this profile is a different one than i originally started out with so i didn't expect anyone not to be able to figure that out. So naturlly i would not expect a post like that from you.

Naturlly some of us are too stoooopid to think there is any logic involved.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 12:29:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I wonder how this would be taken if I had wrote what sexyred1 did.

I don't understand what you mean.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 1:14:18 PM

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The letters are sincere one after another until you find out that they are as phony and as low down as a person can possibly get. What's up with that?

it has been this slave's experience that at this very site and various others amongst the Interweb, there exists certain folk that some affectionately refer to as Sadists and Masochists.

their sadism and masochism are NOT exclusive to face-to-face, quasi or fully sexual, physical, pre-negotiated play or scenes. it is sometimes expressed in this forum and the CM mail function through the use of insults, heart-wrenching sob stories, feigned interest, flattery, attention-seeking, ridicule, financial scams, etc.

some folk like a little, or a lot of, humiliation and degredation throughout their day. it takes them to their safe happy place. if you aren't interested in interacting with them, don't respond.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 1:24:01 PM

sambamanslilgirl

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uh huh and what makes you think you're the only person who receives compliments from others?

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 3:30:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

If that was the profie i used to attract peole, My user name would not be takenbyJohn. Logically, this profile is a different one than i originally started out with so i didn't expect anyone not to be able to figure that out. So naturlly i would not expect a post like that from you.

What? There's nothing "logical" or even comprehensible about this post. Are you saying you were referring to a different profile in your OP?

There are alot of wankers on these sites, people will say anything to get sex sometimes, it's not personal, it has nothing to do with your greatness or lack thereof. Don't fall for roses when the person bringing them is a troll. Use your head, block and move on.

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RE: Does this make any sense to anyone - 12/17/2007 3:43:56 PM

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They were all written by me. Mwahahahaha. I am so devilishly clever sometimes, I even manage to frighen myself with my depravity.

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