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RE: Smther my face - 12/17/2007 9:46:40 PM

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Why on earth would she get pissed off? Milady loves it.

I think you're missing something.

You need to read that comment again.

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RE: Smther my face - 12/17/2007 11:52:51 PM

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ok jen i agree that is hot

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RE: Smther my face - 12/18/2007 4:05:58 AM

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I am still missing it. Aside from the misspelling "pisted", what am I not seeing?

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RE: Smther my face - 12/18/2007 5:49:30 AM

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Maybe you should piss her off, on purpose.... then she will want to smother you, she may use a pillow, but Hey!, beggers can't be choosers, right?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
That is all I can say about that!!!!

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RE: Smther my face - 12/18/2007 6:26:10 AM

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How do I get a female to smother my face without her getting pisted off and leaving?

Education is intended here rather than offense, but I am already pissed off just by reading a crude, explicit, grossly selfish sexual demand that is couched in terms that make the woman sound like a thing you can use for your pleasure rather than a person. You sound like a total jerk who just wants to use any random female to get his rocks off, without caring who she is or what she wants. Women really don't like being treated as inanimate objects to meet your needs. Are you surprised that it pisses us off to be treated that way?

There are no shortcuts to getting what you want that don't involve hiring a professional. If you have a specific sexual/fetish desire, you need to keep it in your pants until you have taken the time to get to know a woman and develop a mutual relationship that meets her needs as well as yours. THEN you can bring up what your sexual needs are, and she can bring up what her sexual needs are, and you can negotiate what you will be doing in bed together. But if you can't focus on her and her needs as much as you are focusing on you and your needs, you're doomed.

Coming right out and asking for specific sexual acts in a way that makes it clear that you don't care who will be doing them....ugh, that's incredibly unattractive. It makes you look like an indiscriminate, selfish, horny, rude jerk who thinks of all women as "females" rather than real human beings with wants and needs of their own.

Hear, hear, sister!

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RE: Smther my face - 12/18/2007 8:56:31 AM

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*shrug* Gosh I don't know...I love to smother my boy but then again he's very intelligent, offers lots of lovely, stimulating conversation and is oh so yummy when doing exactly what I want!

I would suggest *highly* that you brush up on your social skills and then go from there!

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RE: Smther my face - 12/18/2007 12:09:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: WickedBDSM

Maybe you should piss her off, on purpose.... then she will want to smother you, she may use a pillow, but Hey!, beggers can't be choosers, right?

lol, absolutely.

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ORIGINAL: slavekal

Why on earth would she get pissed off? Milady loves it.

slavekal:

Smoothering is sensual, true, but it doesn't always have to be. ;P

Smoothering administered cruelly and fueled by the sadism of the Mistress enhances the charge.

< Message edited by MistressDolly -- 12/18/2007 12:14:05 PM >

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RE: Smther my face - 12/18/2007 3:14:49 PM

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Ah. For us, it is usually both.

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RE: Smther my face - 12/18/2007 4:33:28 PM

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I'm not into smothering but, I do love facesitting.

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RE: Smther my face - 12/18/2007 7:51:52 PM

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Ron, I will sit on your face whenever you like!

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Again...this is not something I have ever had a problem getting done for me...

But I think there's something kinda hot about smothering a 5 foot nothing boi...the whole physical power thing and all.

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ORIGINAL: slavekal
Why on earth would she get pissed off? Milady loves it.

So there you go, a simple solution:

Just Be Someone Else.

And then people complain about too many "fakes" in the lifestyle...

Can't win for losin', my smther brther. Can't win for losin'.

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RE: Smther my face - 12/20/2007 10:57:03 AM

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nothering could be sweeter then having a woman sitting on your face. I love it and only met one woman who did not like oral, however often when we were together she would push me in that direction. Only afterwards she had a problem with it. Thought oral sex was dirty. Its something I have to have in a relationship.

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RE: Smther my face - 12/20/2007 11:06:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

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ORIGINAL: damose2007

How do I get a female to smother my face without her getting pisted off and leaving?

Education is intended here rather than offense, but I am already pissed off just by reading a crude, explicit, grossly selfish sexual demand that is couched in terms that make the woman sound like a thing you can use for your pleasure rather than a person. You sound like a total jerk who just wants to use any random female to get his rocks off, without caring who she is or what she wants. Women really don't like being treated as inanimate objects to meet your needs. Are you surprised that it pisses us off to be treated that way?

There are no shortcuts to getting what you want that don't involve hiring a professional. If you have a specific sexual/fetish desire, you need to keep it in your pants until you have taken the time to get to know a woman and develop a mutual relationship that meets her needs as well as yours. THEN you can bring up what your sexual needs are, and she can bring up what her sexual needs are, and you can negotiate what you will be doing in bed together. But if you can't focus on her and her needs as much as you are focusing on you and your needs, you're doomed.

Coming right out and asking for specific sexual acts in a way that makes it clear that you don't care who will be doing them....ugh, that's incredibly unattractive. It makes you look like an indiscriminate, selfish, horny, rude jerk who thinks of all women as "females" rather than real human beings with wants and needs of their own.

I am in absolute agreement with the sentiments expressed here.... how can one have an emotionally intelligent relationship when there is no communication no kindness and no will to please each other?

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