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loveandhonesty -> How about to find the right partner? (8/18/2005 2:42:29 PM)
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Dear Strong Lady’s
I.m Silvester a tall male, 44 years old from the Netherlands with submissive feelings.
Reading the post on the messageboards was a pleasant expierence.
Lots of warm friendly, people are discussing about B.D.DS.M. (the lifestyle).
I like to share some thoughts about this topic: How about to find the right parther?
My true believe: BE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY!
Everybody has to carry his own luggage no one is perfect.
The mind is a wonderfull instrument to fullfill all fantasies, but also a burden because searching for the right partner/soulmate can course a lot of pain, sadness and all the other negative feelings.
I found out that the main issue for me is to love yourself before you commit and not look for a partner who can give you a short relief from the difficulties in life.
Its easy to say: I live the lifestyle 24/7 and i’m only foccussed on my dominant partner.
Is this a “real life”? Not for me you can find the right partner, but is there the vibe the electricity? B.D.S.M. is wonderful when you are connected and respect each other feelings.
It’s powerful, intense, makes you vunerable.
I believe when you are ready for the right partner that you will find her.
Its sad to read that people are not always honest in there mails, why respond if you know already that its not the right match for you?
I wonder why so much negativity about someones profile. Its important to make a good impression, but not everybody has an high IQ or is a wizard with words.
Respect each other don’t criticize. Honesty, truth, are far more important then a wrong sentence.
We are all people and do make mistakes.
I do apologize for my bad sentences, this is written from the heart.
BE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY!
Sincerely, Silvester
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