Maya2001
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Joined: 8/22/2007 From: Woodstock ONT,CANADA Status: offline
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Hello SteelButterfly welcome, I do struggle with words as what to say , first sorry for the loss of your parents, as for your uncle I feel outrage because in my view he is using you for his own benefit, as a family member he should be looking after you, protecting you and your honor and finding his own means to provide for you rather than basically selling you/your body as property to support himself, he does not deserve the beautiful niece that I see pictured here. I would never aid a family member of mine to become a stripper and would do what I could to prevent them from doing so, and for me to live off those earnings in my eyes would be a very vile offence and I would rather starve and be homeless, I am parent, grandparent and aunt to my the means protecter , supporter, nurturer, guide and teacher those years you spent in the dance academy had I been you uncle and found you later I would have first found a career first to provide for you, I would have been trying to guide/steer you into a career in the performing arts where others would look at you and admire you for your talents and will view you as a whole person , not to a bunch of drunks who do not care about the person but view you as body parts, if a career in performing arts was proving to hard to come by I would have tried to pay for schooling instead so you could earn wages in more honorable way, to me a stripper is far below what you spent those years training for, it degrades your talents, devalues who you are, your sexuality and body is a precious gift not to given to masses of men how view you as a peice if meat but to a man you care and respect deeply who will view you in the same light as their queen. . I mean no disrepect to you in fact I feel very saddened to read how your life turned out, but in no way can I agree with your uncle's actions as your guardian
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Lead me not into temptation - I can find the way myself
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