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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 6:18:14 PM

ksub4u

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Hi, OP and welcome to the boards. A suggestion: read through the forum. There's a *lot* of very good information on here and tons more if you want to search a term for past postings. Search the internet and, while you have to take everything with a grain of salt, the picture will become more clear to you the more information you digest. While reading certainly isn't a substitute for real life experience, it's a very good start.

Also - I've found that a couple of the Doms I've connected with the best are the ones that *I* contacted - not vice versa. I took the time and read through profiles, saving the ones I enjoyed to my favorites, then sent emails to those. You'd be amazed at the positive responses I've gotten. Turn this thing around a bit in your mind - you're looking, just like they are. Do the homework and you just may find what you're looking for.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 6:20:15 PM

girlygurl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Griswold

quote:

ORIGINAL: womyn

Obviously the people who look at my profile do NOT read through it. I get so many obnoxious people calling themselves dom (mes) that seem to think I'm a slave and can order me around!

I am a SUBMISSIVE NOT a slave....yet! Why, WHY are people so disrespectful?!

They're Democrats.

(It's not their fault).

Oh, now that's just wrong Griswold! I'll go a head and put myself out on a limb.... i'm really scared but I'm gonna do it

......... I'm a submissive and a Democrat and damn proud of it

girly

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 6:23:08 PM

Sinergy

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Griswold

They're Democrats.

(It's not their fault).

Exactly.

Everybody knows that to be a child molesting member of the Congressional office for missing and exploited children, anti-extra marital affair philandering preacher, toe-tapping anti-homosexual congressman, it is vital that one be a member of the Republican party.

Sinergy

p.s. As Matt Taibbi calls them, the Gay Old Party.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 8:04:10 PM

sexyred1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

as to the movie club...i volunteer my hot tub, and i think the first pic should be that one where Elisabeth Taylor is used by her gay uncle to seduce and procure young boys for him...and the mental break down she has because of it.....

what was that one called?

Suddenly, Last Summer by Tennesse Williams. Awesome choice! Did you say hot tub? In Maui?? Oh, I am so there.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 8:06:12 PM

sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: girlygurl

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Oh fiddlefuck, another newbie posting about whywhywhywhywhywhywhy is the internet so bad and horrible to meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

OP, get a clue, this is ONLINE, it is kink site, people are going to do what they want, regardless of what you tell them in your profile. You are on post 3, good. Keep posting and hanging out on collarme and hopefully you will get the hang of it, if not, join the waaa waaa club.

I just love "fiddlefuck" SR!!! I still think it sounds like candy.

Learning from each other and becoming better human beings? Well, except for SR she's already as hot and full of knowledge as she could possibly be. hubba hubba baby!

girly

well, gee thanks, girly, but I, too, am a work in progress and never stop learning. the day I do, I will be ashes in some Lalique vase on a mantel somewhere.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 8:12:20 PM

MissSCD

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If you have problems with this, wait until the real challenges come from us. I cannot figure out what has happened to submissives lately. Glad I have a slave who behaves.
Good luck.

Regards, MissSCD

quote:

ORIGINAL: womyn

Obviously the people who look at my profile do NOT read through it. I get so many obnoxious people calling themselves dom (mes) that seem to think I'm a slave and can order me around!

I am a SUBMISSIVE NOT a slave....yet! Why, WHY are people so disrespectful?!

(in reply to womyn)

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 8:15:03 PM

YourhandMyAss

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It's an online meduim, nobody HAS to show respect. It's nice when people do, but it's not manditory and online people can act and be anyway they wish.

quote:

ORIGINAL: womyn

I am a SUBMISSIVE NOT a slave....yet! Why, WHY are people so disrespectful?!

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 8:18:05 PM

adoracat

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quote:

ORIGINAL: womyn

Grief! LOL

actually, life as usual on the boards. goes right along with some dominants are goobs who have no idea how to talk to a human being, some submissives are astonished that dominants act like *gasp* goobs because OMGWTFBBQ they're humans first.

at least some of them are. some of them seem to have been made of algae hit by lightening that crawled out of the swamp and attained two-legged status.

find the block button
embrace the block button
love the block button

kitten, who is silly tonight

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 8:28:29 PM

ItalianSMistress

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I think we need a new section on these forums where everyone can post their whiny rants about how dominants are all so obnoxious, there is no real slaves out there anymore, how all the submissive women aren't really submissive, how annoying it is for the slaves and subs to post in the "Ask a Master" section, how everyone is picking on them because they are young, how everyone is ignoring them because they are old, how male dominants just want sex, how female dominants just want money, how pro female dominants are just silly whores, how nobody uses the real true Old Guard definitions of the labels that they thought up one night on the can, how crappy Collarme.com is, how crappy the people on Collarme.com are for being snarky, how all the fake submissives are posing as meta-mega-ultra-slaves, how everyone on Collarme.com is a fake, how all the dominants are wannabes, how much it sucks to be fat, how much it sucks to be skinny, and how hot dogs come in packages of 6 and hotdog buns come in packages of 8.

Then, at the very least, I won't have to waste time clicking on the threads in the hopes of something interesting to read.

AMEN!!!

That is the best thing I have ever read in My life, LOL

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 9:24:10 PM

domiguy

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I am Jack's complete lack of surprise.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 9:42:46 PM

domiguy

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Why are all of the subs fat? Now there is a question that I have never seen posed.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 10:06:10 PM

PlayfulGoddess

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

To the OP......you might as well lighten up....cept for me...and maybe Ron....everyone else here is fake

Jeff

<is NOT fake (pats boobies...NOPE NOT FAKE AT ALL!)

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 10:10:35 PM

PlayfulGoddess

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I think we need a new section on these forums where everyone can post their whiny rants about how dominants are all so obnoxious, there is no real slaves out there anymore, how all the submissive women aren't really submissive, how annoying it is for the slaves and subs to post in the "Ask a Master" section, how everyone is picking on them because they are young, how everyone is ignoring them because they are old, how male dominants just want sex, how female dominants just want money, how pro female dominants are just silly whores, how nobody uses the real true Old Guard definitions of the labels that they thought up one night on the can, how crappy Collarme.com is, how crappy the people on Collarme.com are for being snarky, how all the fake submissives are posing as meta-mega-ultra-slaves, how everyone on Collarme.com is a fake, how all the dominants are wannabes, how much it sucks to be fat, how much it sucks to be skinny, and how hot dogs come in packages of 6 and hotdog buns come in packages of 8.

Then, at the very least, I won't have to waste time clicking on the threads in the hopes of something interesting to read.

Dayum, that hot dog thing still ticks me off! LOL

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/19/2007 10:17:06 PM

MadamI

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dear womyn, all I asked for was domestic servants and I get offered up entire life savings and indeed entire lives to dispense with! as Another Domme has said, most of these are not real, they are fantasising and W/we can't stop them. Sometimes I respond by saying ok, if you're ready to make this total sacrifice, how about you begin by sending Me a pair of size 7 thigh high black latex stiletto heel boots? that usually shuts them up. No boots have arrived yet.

(*Anyone who DOES want to impress Me, SEND THE BOOTS they don't make them in My country

)
Cheer s \
MadamI

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/20/2007 4:53:11 AM

Dnomyar

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PlayfullGoddess it is easy for you to pat your own boobies and say that. Well OP welcome to the club. You have been flamed and roasted and have not been given any good advice. So now you are wise beyond your years. If you have learned anything it is Why the fuck did I post this.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/20/2007 4:57:53 AM

Sexynmentalinkc

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ksub4u

Also - I've found that a couple of the Doms I've connected with the best are the ones that *I* contacted - not vice versa. I took the time and read through profiles, saving the ones I enjoyed to my favorites, then sent emails to those. You'd be amazed at the positive responses I've gotten. Turn this thing around a bit in your mind - you're looking, just like they are. Do the homework and you just may find what you're looking for.

It would be soooo nice if others thought (and acted) as you did. I think it would save a lot of time and frustration for many people. I have talked with s/s's that basically thought, "I'll just sit back and wait for him to find me and...."

What's *that* all about?!

Like you said, for the people that are looking - get out and look. Make the first move. Don't worry about how you'll appear by doing so. I know, for me, I'm never gonna know if someone has interest if they don't step up and 'wave the flag' in some way.

*tips his hat*

- Mr. S

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/20/2007 5:01:56 AM

SlaveTiffany

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Honestly, I'd have to say that even if you didn't mean to be offensive womyn, you have been. I am a slave and I'm damn proud of the fact, but that doesn't mean complete strangers may order me about. No one has the RIGHT to order anyone around. All in all, I'd say that you simply...mispoke isn't right....it didn't come out the way you ment it sounds pretty good, but still. There is nothing wrong with being a slave but the first impression I got from your original post was that you're better than me because you're submissive and I'm a slave. Perhaps you should proofread your post before you send them to make sure they say what you mean them to. (can't count how many times I've screwed up a post by one word and it changed the entire meaning. It happens.)

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/20/2007 5:03:43 AM

mnottertail

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Doesn't anyone ever just have a night at home alone and fondle their genitals anymore?

I am afraid this whole world has passed me by, I hardly recognize it anymore.

Ron

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/20/2007 5:28:11 AM

Dnomyar

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sexynmentalinkc. I tried waving my flag around and got arrested for indecent exposure. The judge took one look and threw the case out for lack of evidence.

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RE: What's with all the pushy doms???!! - 12/20/2007 5:29:06 AM

lauren0221

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We can schedule one of those nights too, Ron. But what would we call it?

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