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lighthearted -> RE: Slaves, Submissives & Dirty Girls (12/19/2007 4:48:20 PM)
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"dirty girl" is what I called myself before I entered the realm of bdsm. I didn't know how to categorize the desires I felt...I only knew that what my sex drive and what I was interested wasn't exactly the norm and therefore...dirty.
after meeting my first dom...it became abundantly clear that I was at the very least, submissive. as time has gone on and I've learned more about myself, I've found that at sorts of labels apply to me at any given moment. there are some aspects of myself I consider very slave-like, I can be a total pain slut, I love the objectification of being owned property, but in all of this, I still considered myself to be that dirty girl...it's my interest in sex, the crazy, gotta have it, can't live without it, come here and give it to me thing that makes me feel that way. it doesn't really have anything to do with my interest in D/s and M/s.
the more time I spend on CM the more I realize how unimportant labels are to me...I don't need anyone's permission to call myself what I want to be called, or feel the way I feel. I don't think anyone has the right to tell you what you'll never be, unless they have a crystal ball in very good working order. the point of all this is, that trying to take our personality traits and shoehorn them neatly into a box in order to label that box one thing or another is only for the benefit of the person reading the label. you know what you feel inside...if the person reading the label thinks it's wrong, then maybe they need to do a better job of looking inside.
just my $.02 [:)]
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