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"play" punishment ideas, tasks, etc... - 12/20/2007 2:07:32 AM

bdsandm

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I know you all have seen a post like this before from others. I have been into the bdsm for over 10 years. I am looking for more ideas for punishments during play, also if certain things are forgotten, if a task isn't carried out, just when I feel like having a laugh, or simply I want my submissive to do a random task.

Now, I know a lot of you may come at me and say something like "if you need to punish them, something is wrong" and things such as "a punishment must fit the crime", etc... I know all of these things. Been there, done that, said that. However, I am simply looking for more ideas, and experiences from others. Perhaps off the wall things or just new and exciting ideas.

Last idea I came up with was, having my submissive bound, kneeling in the corner, and having her chew through a credit card.... It took 2 hours but, I rather enjoyed myself...

Ideas like that! play punishment, tasks, etc...

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RE: "play" punishment ideas, tasks, etc... - 12/20/2007 4:29:51 AM

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A couple of fun tasks I've had are as follows:

- My play-partner once frog-tied my legs and bound my arms behind my back. She'd hidden several specific items around the room (I knew what they were) and I had to try and locate and find them all. I was given slots of 5 minutes... if I hadn't found an item in those 5 minutes, I was punished by way of either a crop of a flogger. Once I did locate one of the objects, I had to then reach it (in some cases this was very difficult - like the ones hidden under the couch cushions), and put it in a bowl in the middle of the floor. That game was great fun. :)

- The most recent game we played was also great fun. My hands were bound behind my back again, my ankles tied together with me once again on my knees, and a blindfold applied. There were 5 objects on the floor on one side of the room, and a bowl on the other. I had to locate these 5 items whilst blindfolded, and carry them, one by one, in my mouth, across the room and put them in the bowl. My thighs REALLY started to ache after a surprisingly short amount of time doing this, and it was hard to move quickly with my ankles tied. Once I had got all 5 items in the bowl, my Domme decided she'd actually prefer them back on the other side, instead. I was allowed short rests if my legs were aching too much, but during the breaks I had to choose between 20 strokes with the paddle, or 40 lashes with the flogger, so there was no real rest.

Hope those help in some way? :)

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RE: "play" punishment ideas, tasks, etc... - 12/20/2007 10:35:52 AM

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I like making naked subs hold yoga or pilates poses. Plank pose is a real killer, especially for girls. I have been told by some 'nilla friends that they will use plank as punishment in martial arts classes. Men tend to hate bridge pose. EVERYONE hates Downward Facing Dog. (Google all those poses for pics)

Once a sub is in the pose, you can just watch. It's beautiful eye candy. Or you can try to distract them and punish them if they fail to hold the pose :)

You have to be careful, obviously. Holding poses too long can really hurt a person.

Still, yoga has a lot of play punishment potential. Enjoy!

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RE: "play" punishment ideas, tasks, etc... - 12/20/2007 10:42:10 AM

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One time I had an orgasm w/o permission while hubby was at work and when I confessed, my punishment was to dress in my french maid uniform. I got an OTK spanking and then he videotaped me while I cleaned out the refridgerator on my knees. Red butt, red cheeks...cold nipples.

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RE: "play" punishment ideas, tasks, etc... - 12/20/2007 9:26:11 PM

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Ive thought about being made to sit in a snowbank for like 5 minutes till your ass in numb then when you come back in it would hurt and any slaps flogging would hurt twice as bad

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RE: "play" punishment ideas, tasks, etc... - 12/21/2007 3:03:40 AM

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Hey everyone, thse ideas are great. I especially love the yoga poses!! Anyone else out there have any ideas???

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RE: "play" punishment ideas, tasks, etc... - 12/21/2007 4:43:00 AM

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I'm confused, first you ask for creative play punishments and then you seem to be asking for real ones, such as if a task weren't carried out.

If it's play, then both of you should be having fun. So why look for something she won't like? We can't tell you what she enjoys.

As far as not doing tasks, try something novel. Ask about it. Here it has always come down to miscommunication. Either he asked me to do something that was a clear conflict with my schedule, the early morning email telling me to wear a short skirt and heels on a day I was helping chaperone a school hiking trip comes to mind, or I didn't understand it.

Plus we had a lot of miscommunication in the beginning because he would give me a task while chatting or on the phone, and I need it not mentioned briefly but in a separate email, or at least let me get my planner to write it in.

If I did understand and just blew it off? Then there's more problems there than just not dusting the top of the refridgerator or whatever. That's a clear sign of resentment and anger, major relationship problems. And that needs fixing first. Because if I'm already angry and distancing myself, a punishment just adds to it and brings me closer to the end. I have needs too and if mine aren't met, then I will give up on trying to please him. Because I'm not willing to be used up, drained and tossed aside anymore.

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RE: "play" punishment ideas, tasks, etc... - 12/23/2007 6:28:56 PM

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All understandable! I am here looking for new ideas. I understand the philosphy behind it all. thank everyone for their input, more ideas are helpful!

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