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Badboy2006 -> No Luck For me. (12/20/2007 2:56:03 PM)

what do  i nned to do to find an honest domme who is looking for an honest guy. There are alot of  fakes in here and every domme has specifications  that seem just weird. Dont women want to get to know there subs  first?  I really am a guy who loves to play and learn but everyone seems  so serious on sites. I know from being in the lifestyle activally for 3 years  dommes don't act like they do on here as compared to real time.  How can i draw honest atten to myself. Not only here but in the communitty?  Thank you sincerly. Mike   Badboy2006



laurell3 -> RE: No Luck For me. (12/20/2007 3:00:15 PM)

I don't mean to be a snarky bitch but spell check and proper use of the english language would be a start.

This comment in your profile "Again no relationships , I just want to have fun. "  Is seriously going to turn off many.  In fact much of your profile reads as  "I ask for someone who knows  what there doing and not looking  for beginners."  Do me and I don't care what you want.   I'm not suggesting you shouldn't be honest about your relationship goals, however, you should know that there aren't as many people out there that are just looking for play partners and there is nothing in your profile to indicate WHO you are other than d/s bdsm or why someone should be interested in you.
 
 




petpete -> RE: No Luck For me. (12/20/2007 3:04:22 PM)

Badboy.. i understand your point and frustration. However you need to have patience. Being upset about something only shows weakness and loss of control about yourself. You could be still young and the world is in front of you. Don't expect things to run your way. You are not alone with feelings of frustration. Make yourself available and attractive for the good people the ones that you wish to attract and not the players that do exist in all walks of life. Patience is something you learn with time...Take care buddy..



Badboy2006 -> RE: No Luck For me. (12/20/2007 3:08:51 PM)

thnak you very  much for the advice   i'll try  again!



LadyHugs -> RE: No Luck For me. (12/20/2007 3:09:04 PM)

Dear Badboy2006, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
If you feel there is no luck for you--then make your own luck.
 
It would start if you change your age from 99.  And, it should not be held against anybody for wanting to be serious about their endeavours as Dominant or submissive--and even Switch.
 
Not everybody wishes to remain on the play ground forever--some wish to go to a much higher level of relationships and not be seen as a playmate to 'do' someone.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 



lockmeupplease -> RE: No Luck For me. (12/20/2007 3:09:59 PM)

Badboy----I checked out your profile and saw that you are just looking to play.  Most people--Domme or not--are looking for more than that in a D/s relationship.  I would recommend getting involved in the Philly community, but if you really just want play might want to consider a professional Domme.



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