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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 12/25/2007 9:19:27 PM

KnightofMists

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Hello I am new here.....Does anyone really meet on here?

Yes... They meet and more.

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 12/25/2007 9:21:26 PM

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Sometimes.

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 12/25/2007 10:02:23 PM

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Sometimes

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 12/26/2007 12:49:27 AM

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No, I just secretly stalk in the shadows.

And to be serious:

Yes- patience.

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 12/26/2007 4:52:48 AM

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Absolutely. Unless, for some reason, you don't want to. (married, really a different sex, really 300 lbs more than stated, etc....)

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 12/26/2007 5:29:20 AM

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Sometimes it seems as though it relates to the old saying, "you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince".

The more selective you are the more you have to weed through altough you may eventually be more satisfied with the outcome.

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 12/26/2007 5:31:04 AM

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Yes; I am meeting him for the first time tomorrow.
We have emailed and talked a great deal by phone over the last few days.
I think it is better to meet sooner rather than later as emails and texts can drag on and on and on and cretae a fantasy which just doesn't have a reality.
There again friendships which , for obvious reasons, remain on line, are fine and not the less, but just very different. Distance and life circumstances often mean that we are prevented from meeting and/or being with a partner for months if not years.

I'm nervous, excited, but I feel he is fascinated by ME and interested in me as a person as well as any possible dynamic that might ensue.

Wish me luck..........

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 12/26/2007 11:35:20 AM

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I've met and interaacted with several people who are on here-both sub and Doms.

You just have to get off the computer and make it happen.

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 1/15/2008 3:42:44 PM

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I've met quite a few from this and another site some nice, some flakes, some wonderful but just not quite the right match for me, but I've absolutely met quite a number of subs/slaves/switches in the last year plus. Even an occasional Dom gone South, lol.

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 1/15/2008 4:45:23 PM

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i met my Owner on here. We will be moving in together in the next few months and soon after we will have a collaring ceremony and then a wedding. So my answer is yes. :)

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 1/15/2008 5:03:38 PM

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am looking for no strings sex parters

yeah....umm...good luck with that, although i have to say i admire your honesty. It definately beats the profiles that state how much they want a serious D/s relationship when in actuality, a nice booty call is much more desired, and sought.

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 4/1/2008 2:57:31 AM

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I haven't met anyone from this site specifically.
I did recently meet someone from facebook and we've started a relationship... still want to see if she is kinky or kink-compatible if you can say that, she loves trying new things though so probably things will be ok..

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 4/1/2008 3:37:51 AM

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Hello I am new here.....Does anyone really meet on here?

i concur .... have never met another ON said boards, yet have had met and greets resulting from inital introductions brought forth due to the common ground of Cm.
It is a free website, not pixy dust ....... all relative really ....... take it in stride!!!!!!!

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 4/1/2008 3:53:44 AM

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The 2 closest people I met on here, I met in real. The others are mostly on the other side of the world sadly.
If I connect to some one, will never hesitate to meet them if possible.

From other boards (not BDSM) I meet peopel too. To me..friends are friends..no matter where I met them

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 4/1/2008 3:58:27 AM

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(responding to the first page of messages and the OP)

Sometimes,

The problem is your signal to noise ratio here is not good....Meaning that there's a lot of chaff to separate the few good kernels of wheat from.

I usually ask that people meet me at a munch, and even if their profile says they are a 'master' with 10years of experience, they cannot bring themselves to come to a public meeting where they would actually meet other like-minded people. I've had people back out during the same chat where I've agreed to meet them, at a location they've specified (in public). They then attempted to change the location to a less public one (it's not as far for you to drive-bah)
A lot of people on collarme are just playing games, bored housewives, husbands looking for some wank material while the wife isn't looking, etc. Other people looking for a quick sex hookup where they can justify being a prick to the other person (I"m a "master/mistress"!)
That being said, there ARE also 'real' people, who go to munches or other lifestyle related events, actually have real experience, and are actually looking for other people in the lifestyle to share their kinks with, or even have a relationship with. I often find out that these people (if they are local) are people I already know..

My suggestion, is if you really want to meet 'real' people, do some searches and find a munch near you, and try going to it, instead. Perhaps you could invite nearby Collarme members to meet you there, as well. There are still 'problem children' at munches, but by going to a public meeting, you've automatically screened out a lot of 'noise' .

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 4/1/2008 4:04:50 AM

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(Quick answer to the OP without reading the full thread)

I have met several people from CM. It hasn't worked out with any of them, but all those meetings ended amicably and one has become a good friend.

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 4/1/2008 4:29:39 AM

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Hello I am new here.....Does anyone really meet on here?

No.

Any other questions?

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 4/1/2008 4:53:49 AM

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As the resident stats person, I would perhaps pose this question:
Of the people who visit the site who WANT to meet someone, what % actually find someone they feel compatible with for their specific needs?

I've met three. Two were exactly who and what they said they were, and one was completely different from the persona he portrays online. None of them met my needs, but 2 of them are still friends that I keep in touch with.

When I was earnestly looking to meet someone, it was very easy to line up "dates" here. But mostly I haven't been using CM as a match site, so I can't say I've actually tried very hard and failed. Judging from the response around here to submissive females, I would imagine I could be meeting dominant males every weekend if I was inclined to actually put some effort into it.

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 4/1/2008 9:31:29 AM

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I've met two who live in my area, so far. And, I've only been here for what, six weeks.

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RE: Does anyone really meet on here? - 4/1/2008 9:40:13 AM

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i met my Master here.. technically

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