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Control & humiliation - 7/7/2004 7:39:41 AM

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What is more humiliating for a submissive female - being forced to strip or being stripped?

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/7/2004 9:02:08 AM

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Depends on the circumstances surrounding either action.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/7/2004 10:50:32 AM

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What is more humiliating for a Dominant, having their submissive strip or be stripped?

Doesn't matter one way or the other. It depends on the situation. I can be working out in the yard and take off my shirt. Hey, my Dom does it so why can't I?
What is that considered?

I think it depends on how comfortable we are with our bodies. Also where we happen to be. Is it a comfortable area?
Myself, I don't care how I get naked as long as I get naked.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/7/2004 12:46:11 PM

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In most cases i think being stripped is more sensual (unless it's rape type play) and being forced to strip is more humiliating but both work for me.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/7/2004 12:54:05 PM

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Taking them off myself.. i still have a little control of that. Him taking them off me... and touching me while He's doing it... no control. Being stripped is like being treated as a child.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/10/2004 3:35:48 PM

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for me personally it's being forced to strip, i actually love it when my clothes are taken off by another, it seems almost romantic to me...kinda like in the movies.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/10/2004 6:12:49 PM

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quote:

i actually love it when my clothes are taken off by another, it seems almost romantic to me...kinda like in the movies.

Midear Looking-

Even when he uses a big sharp knife? and laughs insanely ask you scream? Come to think of it, that is kind of romantic....

Hey- you're from Atlanta! is M. Kirk (big bearish guy) still making the scene down there?

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/11/2004 12:41:02 AM

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quote:

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i actually love it when my clothes are taken off by another,

Even when he uses a big sharp knife?

Especially when a sharp knife is involved. That's not humiliating,
that is foreplay :-)

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/11/2004 2:18:13 AM

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Especially when a sharp knife is involved. That's not humiliating,
that is foreplay :-)

Darling-

and with the right girl, incredibly romantic <ws>

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/11/2004 12:28:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: topcat

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Especially when a sharp knife is involved. That's not humiliating,
that is foreplay :-)

and with the right girl, incredibly romantic <ws>

Your tongue down my throat, your knife at my breast, and your other arm wrapped around the back of my head to keep me there... Within the first 3 minutes of you ever laying a hand on me. The memory still brings a hot smile to me face.

Thank you for trusting me.

FYI for the forums: this was at Paddles, NY and in front of witnesses. I'm always amazed when a man is willing to trust me with his reputation to this extent when he first meets me. It takes as much trust for the top as it does for the bottom.

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(happy to buy more disposable clothes to feel the knife)

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/13/2004 2:32:37 PM

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ummmm yeah sure that would be hot...not big on the knife play or anything but it does sound interesting.

as for the local scene i really wouldn't know, Master and i aren't big on the local scene were just into the private ones.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 7/13/2004 8:55:15 PM

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How is it humiliating at all? Sounds like a lot of fun to me.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 1/13/2007 1:13:52 PM

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being stripped

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RE: Control & humiliation - 1/13/2007 2:54:42 PM

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Forced to strip.....Tempting

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RE: Control & humiliation - 1/13/2007 4:23:10 PM

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Being forced to strip.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 1/13/2007 5:09:57 PM

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Neither. I have no hesitation in stripping for him or in being stripped by him. As long as we are in an appropriate venue for nudity, it does not phase me to walk around nude even in front of complete strangers.

In fact, when he does it, it brings to mind our very first night together and that is a memory we cherish.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 1/13/2007 5:18:50 PM

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Unless we're in public, I am pretty much always naked when in his presence. I am either already naked when he walks in the door, or I walk in and strip before doing anything else. Once, early on, I forgot. He looked at me and asked, rather sharply, "Why are you dressed? Did I change the rules? Did you decide to change the rules on your own? Are you making up new rules as we go along? Did I say something in my sleep that I am not aware of? Are you just disregarding me?" I didn't know whether to cry or laugh my head off....but my clothes were off post haste! (He likes doing that machine-gun fire of questions sometimes, and it's really cute when he does it...but I'm not sure "cute" is what he's going for, lol)

But to answer the question of the OP, I haven't been stripped by him, as I always do it for him. I'd imagine if he did it, it would be really erotic to me and not humiliating at all...unless of course he was saying really humiliating things to me while stripping me.

(I just noticed we're answering a 2 1/2 year old thread!)

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RE: Control & humiliation - 1/14/2007 4:10:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

(I just noticed we're answering a 2 1/2 year old thread!)

Yeah, I noticed that too. But, its all good. :)

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RE: Control & humiliation - 1/14/2007 4:42:19 AM

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Neither.

Me neither too.

I think of "humiliating" as something hurtful ... being told to strip or being stripped isn't going to hurt my feelings, provided whoever is doing it has that right, of course.

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RE: Control & humiliation - 1/14/2007 4:43:34 AM

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This would be humiliating:

"For God's sake, put some clothes on!"