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RumpusParable -> RE: dominating tall mens (12/21/2007 6:57:46 AM)
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I have to mainly agree with what TammyJo said.
The leash, the bondage, the face-slapping... to me, if these are needed to dominate someone then I really have zero control of them. Having to physically punish and guide someone at every turn to get them to submit to me indicates an ongoing power struggle, not a free exchange of power/authority. Some enjoy that, but me, I enjoy a sub/slave that gives themselves over to me, trusts me, actively wants to submit and where disobedience is rare and mainly accidental, and physical methods such as those mentioned above (which I, too, enjoy!) are just ways of having fun and expressing our dynamic... not actually trying to dominate by physical force.
I very much enjoy dominating taller males... most are taller than me, but due to being 6ft tall in my head I prefer them over 6ft or else I feel like I'm bigger than them. I like being the shorty in control of the tally. I tried to write about the why's here but it became too muddled. I just woke up, lol, and it's involved anyhow.
Plus, as TammyJo said, they're handy for getting things off high shelves. :)
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Random moment of off-topic related to the high-shelf thing: I just returned from a visit with family up north and at one point my mother, sister and I were out grocery shopping together. We needed a few of the large containers of ginger ale for a punch my mother was making for her party and they were on the top shelf and way back, all the front ones having been bought...
I'm the tallest at 5'3". My fingers couldn't even graze the bottles.
So I tried stepping up on the lowest part of the shelves (big heavy kind they're using now that there's no risk of falling over or collapsing) and still could reach it... I start looking around for a tall person or a store employee...
... I turn back to see my 5' mother climbing the shelves to that ginger ale the way a 4 year old climbs cupboard drawers. To reach the ginger ale at the very top she needed a little... support from her eldest, me.
Final scene is a chain of short females... the shortest completely off the ground clinging to the side of a set of shelves, reaching for and handing down ginger ale bottles. The tallest, me, standing directly below her and supporting her from falling with my hands above my head bracing them against her butt. The middle-height, my sister, taking the product and placing it in the cart.
It worked dammit. And I was laughing my head off the whole time.
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Back to the thread:
As I said, my interest is in the mental and emotional will to submit and the control/authority that gives me, so I don't have any physical tricks to try and make a tall male submit (though I've lots of fun physical things I like to do with them and methods to highlight or express our dynamic!) so my response on "tricks" will be mentally-focused:
-Be low-to-no drama by nature and practice. Life gives you all sorts of things, how you handle them is key.
-Don't be constantly or by nature a negative person. We all, definitely me included!, have our funks and crabby days but there's a difference between that and being someone who focuses on the negative in life.
-Be comfortable in your dominant nature and just who you are in general. "Being who you are and being it in style!", to paraphrase, goes a long way in most any control or authority matter.
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