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Introducing the Bland - 12/21/2007 2:48:48 AM

unknownunhappy

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Hello All,

I am a boy with no name other than the one(s) You provide. I am an unhappily married 33-year old sub-curious boy who needs to discover once and for all who and what I am, and so I return to this site not to play games but to learn from all of You how I should live my life.

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RE: Introducing the Bland - 12/21/2007 8:18:40 AM

peppermint

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No one can tell you how to live your life. That is your choice. Whether you are happy or sad is also your choice. A wise man once told me that if i depend on another to make me happy, i will be very disappointed. He said i had to decide for myself what would make me happy. To make my happiness dependent on another was not going to work.

If you are unhappy then it's YOUR decision on how to change YOUR life to make yourself happy. Sitting around with a "poor me" attitude will get you nowhere.

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RE: Introducing the Bland - 12/21/2007 8:45:38 AM

DesFIP

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I have to assume from that intro that this is your first excursion after porn. You really couldn't write a worse opening.

Dommes really aren't interested in people who describe themselves as lowly worms. They want vibrant, exciting, happy relationships and you can't have such with a person who isn't happy and passionate about their life.

You do best to be a happy, strong person who wishes to be with someone else who is also happy and strong. The only difference is that you choose to bow to her wishes. Imagine you're a CEO, would you hire an exec asst who couldn't be assertive? Who needed hand holding all the time? Or would you prefer a competent, strong person who saw what needed to be done, and then did it, and did all of this with your best interests in mind?

I suggest you rethink things if you're looking for a successful time making friends.

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