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Beuford -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 10:45:36 AM)
AMEN!! thanks for you input :)

sexyred1 -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 10:47:09 AM)
Since the above two posts smack of "I have a truer ability to connect" and "D/s is so much more than sex" and I am in a holiday mood, I am not going to go into my usual smackdown mode. Suffice it to say, to both of my respected posters above me, that yes, Virginia, some of us can, do and are perfectly able to experience the heights of intimacy, the essence of connectivity and the pinnacle of nirvana with our partners....all without doing it in public sceneing or even in places like Times Square. And as much as I would love to imagine that no one on earth exists but me and my partner, tragically, they do. But peace and light to you and yours on this lovely holiday season.

sexyred1 -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 10:50:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Beuford There's so much more to it then just sex, I'm glad there are atleast some people that can see that. The level of intamicy comes from the 2 people invlved, not the surroundings. Spare us you holier than thou sentiments. We don't need any lectures from you. Some people here do find this to be sexual connection, primarily. That is called their preferences, just as it was for you to print your little story.

Beuford -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 10:52:37 AM)
No Insult intended to anyone. But I will not be insulted ether by shallow people. May all your dreams come true and happy holidays to all.

sexyred1 -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 10:54:38 AM)
LMAO. Yes, people who find a sexual component vital in BDSM are shallow. People who prefer to keep their BDSM activities behind closed doors are shallow. Good first posts, sparky. You will do well here.

Jeffff -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 10:54:55 AM)
ok.....see ya........:) Jeff

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 10:56:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Beuford Why do you have involment in BD SM? that's better - you ended with a question that had no meaning. my involvement in BDSM revolves on many levels between two dominants. with one, i have a Daddy daughter relationship (solely nonsexual) ...something that was missed while growing up in a military household. though long distance, we have a strong caring and loving D/s relationship. however with another, we are a nilla sundae couple with chocolate twist to our relationship - meaning the kink side to us will be kept behind closed doors. with both relationships, it's not all about the sex ...to us it's dessert after a 7-course dinner.

KatyLied -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 10:57:18 AM)
quote: sparky. You will do well here. Don't worry, if she calls you sparky it means she wants you...

sexyred1 -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 10:59:07 AM)
Right, I am SO hot for him. I want to experience twue intimacy in a public setting and I want to learn that there is more to BDSM than just sex...please teach me not to be shallow anymore!!! [&o]

Aubre -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 10:59:51 AM)
what love is ?

mistoferin -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 11:00:21 AM)
I'm sorry that you saw my posting as some kind of a personal put down to you, it wasn't my intention. I was simply expressing that I can relate to what the OP is saying. It wasn't trying to imply that anyone who can't relate to it is somehow defective. But just because you can't doesn't make it impossible for everyone else and just because they can doesn't make them better, truer or any other "er" either. Lighten up.

Beuford -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 11:00:33 AM)
"LMAO. Yes, people who find a sexual component vital in BDSM are shallow. People who prefer to keep their BDSM activities behind closed doors are shallow. Good first posts, sparky. You will do well here." The only shallow part is not thinking others can enjoy it for differnt reasons.

KatyLied -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 11:02:40 AM)
quote: please teach me not to be shallow anymore!!! No, I don't like bitter people. Go away....

sexyred1 -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 11:05:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin I'm sorry that you saw my posting as some kind of a personal put down to you, it wasn't my intention. I was simply expressing that I can relate to what the OP is saying. It wasn't trying to imply that anyone who can't relate to it is somehow defective. But just because you can't doesn't make it impossible for everyone else and just because they can doesn't make them better, truer or any other "er" either. Lighten up. erin, I think you should know that I would not take what you said personally, I do not think you meant it as such. However, I am not a moron and I don't just read simple words on a screen, I read context. I have said lately that it is not what is said, but how it is said that makes the difference in online speak. And both you and the OP couched your replies in a context that suggested that you both felt lofti-er than the rest of us. If that was not your intent, no problem and even if was, no problem either. I have just as much of a right to interpret a post as you do to write one. I am lightened up, thanks.

sexyred1 -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 11:06:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aubre what love is ? Pardon?

sexyred1 -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 11:08:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: please teach me not to be shallow anymore!!! No, I don't like bitter people. Go away.... I'm not bitter, like Jessica Rabbitt, I have been drawn that way. [sm=preen.gif]

Aubre -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 11:10:01 AM)
Oh, something about this thread made me post that. One of my coworkers had a temp from another country who asked him one time "what love is?"

mistoferin -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 11:10:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 I have said lately that it is not what is said, but how it is said that makes the difference in online speak. And both you and the OP couched your replies in a context that suggested that you both felt lofti-er than the rest of us. If that was your perception and interpretation of what I wrote and it remains so even after I have clarified to you that my intention was not as you perceived it to be, then there is most likely little I can do to change your mind. You will see it as you will but it won't change the fact that I don't feel "lofti-er" than anyone.

sexyred1 -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 11:10:41 AM)
Ok...were you seeking an answer on what love is from me?

KatyLied -> RE: Why do you? (12/21/2007 11:11:11 AM)
quote: I'm not bitter, like Jessica Rabbitt, I have been drawn that way. I like to say "I'm not cold, I just project that way."

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