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Emotional / Physical Intelligence and the key? to service - 8/19/2005 2:40:49 PM

pup

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I have been a servant for coming up on 14 years now..

I attribute my qualities to a few attributes that work in about every situation. But do not work at all in a bunch of others usually those regarding gimme now, or sex situations etc.

For me to be a servant I use anticipation and empathy.

I do not have to hear or speak to perform my best.. There are so many little things to pay attention to that dont require much other than emotion, understanding of psychology, and sight.

I often remove varying senses to operate more responsively, and I can only imagine the thrill a blind submissive gets at auditorial commands, or a def slave gets from visual.

I base this on emotional and physical IQ, and empathy.

My intelligence allows me to perform and anticipate duties, however, my emotional IQ allows me to translate the nuances and tweaks that fit the psychology and the inputs I receive.

Glances, stares, touches.. the environement, expectations not only have to be thought of, but also have to be sensed, felt, and understood.

The ability and the constant state that I am in sets my body on fire. Even carrys over into general dinner and work.

I need cleansing often for that. And do use meditation and long periods of bondage to reacclimate or reattune that sense.

Those are some of the components that make me a good slave from day to day.

What makes your ability stand forth?

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RE: Emotional / Physical Intelligence and the key? to s... - 8/19/2005 3:48:43 PM

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What makes your ability stand forth?

Well I would just like to say that your post was great, but that those talents would likely suit anyone. A dominant, a boyfriend, a mother, anyone would do well to be aware of themselves and the people around them, to be able to sense and react in such ways.

For me I pride my ability to adapt and be comfortable in all situations, to have a steep learning curve and a talent to put others at ease around me.

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RE: Emotional / Physical Intelligence and the key? to s... - 8/21/2005 7:45:32 AM

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I asked master, and he said my willingness to obey. lol. Well, alright then. I guess that'll have to work. I would also say my general empathy. I can know what master is feeling before he does most of the time.

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RE: Emotional / Physical Intelligence and the key? to s... - 8/22/2005 12:55:55 AM

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with all due respect, does humility enter into the equation. i have found that letting Mistress discover or develop my skills and talents has been rather rewarding.

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RE: Emotional / Physical Intelligence and the key? to s... - 8/22/2005 5:58:52 AM

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i would say along the same lines as the OP, if i caught that right. Tuning in, means i'm tuned in. The look in his eyes, the way he holds his face, the way he is sitting or walking, the way he has his arms. The intensity he has with something. i even try to anticipate his movements in sleep. i usually access alot of factors when it comes to reading him.

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