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NorthernGent -> RE: What makes your happy... (12/22/2007 6:54:03 AM)
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ORIGINAL: OoSMOKEoO
I just recently started seeing someone. And really the only time we have to see each other. Is durning the day in the middle of our busy scedual. So I was just courious. I want some ideas of things that I can have ready for him when he gets here. Things that would completely appease him as soon as he walked in the door. Or just whatever. [:D]
When I walk through the door, I appreciate a calm atmosphere, so running 'round stressed is not an option for me. Furthermore, if you're a good cook, then make use of your skills; the saying "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" holds currency, here. Have some wine on the table to compliment his meal; be prepared to pour his wine and generally be at his service. Making an effort with your appearance should help.
To each their own, but I wouldn't appreciate sexual advances; I'd have plans organised in advance: that's my area to dictate, you dictate the cooking and the wine, and the rest will follow.
As said, each man has his own style, so asking him will help; I wouldn't be too concerned, though, because you can't know everything in the first few months of seeing someone, you have to go through the learning process in order to have everything ship-shape. If you've made an effort for him, he should appreciate it, whether you get it right or not.
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