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Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 3:47:32 AM   
Constanza


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Status: offline 		Since a little while my Master have trained me in Orgasme Denied. Since he have trained me, i cum when he wants me to and that gives me the ultimed feeling of being a sub.

Does any one else have experience with this and so yes, how does it make you feel?


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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 9:34:22 AM   
CalifChick


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Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline 		Trying to deny me an orgasm would be like trying to stop a freight train with a feather.  So I guess I'm not ultime.

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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 9:37:20 AM   
daddysliloneds


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Joined: 6/28/2006
Status: offline 		those who deny me orgasms are those i don't generally stick around long enough to tell you how it makes me feel.

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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 11:51:06 AM   
peppermint


Posts: 5169
Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		Orgasm Denial should on my hard limits list as it might do me extreme psychological damage. 

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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 3:25:21 PM   
flowspen


Posts: 133
Joined: 5/5/2007
From: Memphis
Status: offline 		Do you enjoy being denied your orgasm?  I have been denied before but never trained to cum on command.  Someone explained to me how that whole process works one time and now mentally I can accept being denied knowing the outcome of it is me focusing on Mistress even better.  When I dabbled with O.D. it was extremely nice..  one day i hope to reach the point where you are and that is to cum on command.

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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 6:13:03 PM   
juliaoceania


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From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		He controls when I have orgasms.

He has me wait sometimes before I am allowed to orgasm, sometimes he makes me hold back, and once or twice he has denied me. Sometimes he uses me for his pleasure without considering my orgasm at all... I am not allowed to masturbate unless I ask permission first, and if that permission is granted he expects me to orgasm... and if something comes up he might make me wait a long time before granting me permission again...

It makes me satisfied when he uses me without a care for whether or not I orgasm, and he knows this... this is especially true if he uses me orally. Since it gives me so much pleasure I do not know what is so "submissive" about it..

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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 6:15:10 PM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: flowspen

Do you enjoy being denied your orgasm?  I have been denied before but never trained to cum on command.  Someone explained to me how that whole process works one time and now mentally I can accept being denied knowing the outcome of it is me focusing on Mistress even better.  When I dabbled with O.D. it was extremely nice..  one day i hope to reach the point where you are and that is to cum on command.


If you mean "cum on command" as in he does not even have to touch me, no he has not trained me to do that, and I do not think this is a goal of his...

On the other hand if you are speaking of orgasming when told to do so, most of the time I am able to hold back or give an orgasm if he allows it.

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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 6:16:26 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Orgasm denial is like an oxymoron to me. Why on earth would I want to be denied the very thing that drives my sexuality? I would never engage with anyone who has this as an interest.

Orgasm teasing, delayed gratification, all that is fun, but denial? No way.

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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 6:35:00 PM   
bdsandm


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Joined: 2/3/2004
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Constanza

Since a little while my Master have trained me in Orgasme Denied. Since he have trained me, i cum when he wants me to and that gives me the ultimed feeling of being a sub.

Does any one else have experience with this and so yes, how does it make you feel?



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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 7:36:47 PM   
Hergirl0824


Posts: 119
Joined: 10/2/2007
Status: offline 		Mistress never denies me an orgasm but does make me beg for them..when permission is granted She encourages me to cum as much as i can..She is currently training me to "cum on command" without physical stimulation and it is a wonderful learning process and i hope to have much success in this...i think patience on both of our parts is the key but i can orgasm quite easily to just the sound of Her voice and She is happy wth my progress.

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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/23/2007 10:36:13 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		For me, if orgasm is denied or delayed to his choice of timing..orgasm is lost..Tempting

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RE: Orgasme Denied - 12/24/2007 5:17:24 AM   
DesFIP


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Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		Control? Keeping me on edge all day waiting for release, very hot.

Denial short term? I stop sleeping and I have enough sleep problems as is.

Denial long term? I turn off and he can't deny me something I don't want.

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RE: Orgasme Denied - 1/5/2008 3:06:34 AM   
whipingherfeet


Posts: 202
Joined: 10/26/2006
Status: offline 		hats off to your master 

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