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bdsandm -> Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/23/2007 4:57:52 AM)
I am looking for new humiliation ideas during day to day activities, tasks, during a scene, etc... Also some humiliation in public but only she and I know about. She is a public figure and needs to remain humble in some ways. I have a lot of experience with this topid but, honestly, I am here to simply look for new and exciting ideas. Any help would be great. I have done a search on CM but, nothing great comes up for it. Same old stuff. thanks for the help ahead of time!

NorthernGent -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/23/2007 5:25:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bdsandm I am looking for new humiliation ideas during day to day activities, tasks, during a scene, etc... Also some humiliation in public but only she and I know about. She is a public figure and needs to remain humble in some ways. I have a lot of experience with this topid but, honestly, I am here to simply look for new and exciting ideas. Any help would be great. I have done a search on CM but, nothing great comes up for it. Same old stuff. thanks for the help ahead of time! I have a slightly warped sense of humour, and I like to amuse myself with said tasks, so this man's style may not be everyone's cup of tea: a) Take her out for a meal, have her put a short skirt on so you can see her thighs. Between eating, talk to her, write notes for her...generally get her wet.....once the job is done send her to the toilet to take her knickers off, and bring them to you by handing them to you under the table. Where you go from there is up to you......some more written notes to her etc. Watch out for the hygiene aspect. She may not find this humilating, but she will when you tell her the smell is strong and others in the restaurant will be able to smell - a tad cruel, but humiliation all the same. b) Send her to the sunbed shop, tell her to flirt with the girl behind the counter when she goes in.......she goes on the sunbed and leaves her knickers in the room, on the way out she flirts with the girl behind the counter again, and asks her what days/times she works. Have her go back on a day when the same girl is working - make sure she flirts with her again and asks the girl if she found anything belonging to her in the room......'not consenual for the other girl, but, never mind. I'll have to stop at this point, as I'll ruin my carefully cultivated gentleman image :-)

chellekitty -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/23/2007 7:34:00 AM)
who wears knickers?

NorthernGent -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/23/2007 8:08:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty who wears knickers? Those under my watch.

daddysliloneds -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/23/2007 9:35:11 AM)
what's humiliating to one person is a totally hot turn-on for another, so with that said, and not knowing how she feels or thinks, i have no suggestions for you.

bdsandm -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/23/2007 6:26:13 PM)
Regardless of her idea of humiliation, ANY new ideas would be appreciated!!!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/23/2007 6:34:00 PM)
Well the problem is, all the ideas you'd just say were the same old stuff, nothing great. One of the most intense humiliating experiences involved me asking for a piece of cake. It's not the ACT silly man, it's the internal workings at the time.

bdsandm -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/23/2007 7:33:46 PM)
I wouldnt say :"same old stuff". I want to see peoples imagination. I understand about timing is key! Infact, one of the most humiliating/scarry experiences one of my former submissive had with me was, we were on vacation at a hotel. I had her tied naked to a chair and blindfolded. I left to get a bucket of ice. Just as I was entering the room, someone just happened to be walking by behind me and called out to another friend down the hallway "I'll be right there, I'm going in this room for a little while for some fun". He was talking about another friend staying right across the hall. But, what the guy said plus, the timing, was PERFECT! You should have seen my submissive try to jump and quickly try to move. She knew she was stuck there (with the whole world to see). She thought I was bringing a strange guy in there with me to see her. She struggled so much, she actually fell over on the floor still tied to the chair. It was amazing to watch! Very amusing!!!

LivingInSin -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/23/2007 8:52:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NorthernGent I have a slightly warped sense of humour, and I like to amuse myself with said tasks, so this man's style may not be everyone's cup of tea: a) Take her out for a meal, have her put a short skirt on so you can see her thighs. Between eating, talk to her, write notes for her...generally get her wet.....once the job is done send her to the toilet to take her knickers off, and bring them to you by handing them to you under the table. Where you go from there is up to you......some more written notes to her etc. Watch out for the hygiene aspect. She may not find this humilating, but she will when you tell her the smell is strong and others in the restaurant will be able to smell - a tad cruel, but humiliation all the same. omg.....thats just HOT :)

trueshadow -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/23/2007 10:10:34 PM)
I ran into a woman I knew was a submissive one time in a bar. I told her to go into the ladies room, take off her panties, carry them back to the table, and hand them over to me. It was exhilarating for me and a turn on for her, though I don't think anyone paid attention except the girl she was with.

girlivy -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/24/2007 7:48:13 PM)
Hi! Happy Holidays, hope this helps! http://domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=res&uid=default&category=HUMILIATION&view_records=View+Records

BlackKnight -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/24/2007 8:09:28 PM)
I had a slave wear lingerie while we were on long trips, and I'd do her at rest-stops, and make her expose herself at drive-threws.'

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/24/2007 8:32:21 PM)
Well the first two wouldn't be humiliating for me- uncomfortable because lingerie is generally uncomfortable, and doing sex in awkward places is uncomfortable. The third would be humiliating because I'd be realizing I'd made such a horrible error in judgement by being with someone who got his rocks off with frat boy pranks and pushing other people just trying to do their (often not appealing) jobs to see my body and there may be proof that I chose to go out in public with someone so juvenile.

BlackKnight -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/24/2007 8:41:24 PM)
sounds like you'd like it then.

secretagentgirl -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/24/2007 9:09:32 PM)
Well, here are a few things a guy I was communicating with asked me to do. I won't say whether I did them or not - as you can see they involve a bit of personal risk. 1. I drove to a client for a meeting and he told me to sit in the parking lot, pull my skirt up to my waist, close my eyes, and play with myself to the count of 100 (not allowed to come.) Then I was to go into the meeting. 2. I was working at a retail store for the day (not as an employee - it was just a 1 day contract job.) He told me to go into the ladies room, go in a stall but not lock the door, turn to lean against the back wall with my ass facing the door and play with myself in the back saying "fuck my ass!" outloud - the level of loudness was up to me, but it had to be audible. 3. I had 2 electricians over working on the house. He wanted me to be down on my knees, looking up at them at some point during the day. Also, I had to wear a tight t-shirt with no bra while they were there. He also told me to go into a room in the house and get off using my vibrator while they were there. Again...no comment on participation, but I think he had a wonderfully dirty mind.

bdsandm -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/30/2007 3:28:03 AM)
;)

barefootgal -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/30/2007 5:10:23 AM)
I'm pretty new to the lifestyle, so I don't know if this is what you're looking for but... Pick a word or two that are very vanilla and frequently come up in conversation -- especially in a business setting. Tell her that every time she hears one of those words, no matter where she is, she should picture you and her doing insert details of favorite kinky activity here. Maybe you could also add that if she uses the word outloud, she has to call you and describe (or write down) exactly what went through her mind when she realized she had done it. As others have said, I don't know her or what humilates her, or even if this counts as humiliation. But I imagine it would keep her pretty focused.

NorthernGent -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/30/2007 5:18:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: secretagentgirl 1. I drove to a client for a meeting and he told me to sit in the parking lot, pull my skirt up to my waist, close my eyes, and play with myself to the count of 100 (not allowed to come.) Then I was to go into the meeting. Did he have a plan for the eventuality of you being locked up for indecent exposure? quote: ORIGINAL: secretagentgirl I think he had a wonderfully dirty mind. And wreckless, perhaps.

AnimusRex -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/30/2007 11:08:12 AM)
The more shy a girl is, the easier the tasks; These are tasks I have done, and found them delightful; 1. A remote control vibe, inserted in her, the control in your pocket, then take her out to a restaurant, and while eating, calmly turn it on and off to force her to endure the secret torment at your leisure. 2. Send her to an adult toy store, and have her go in and ask the clerk to see several large dildos, saying her Master wanted her to get a certain one. 3. Taken to a BDSM club, and forced to kneel atop a table, naked except for collar cuffs and leash, to be publically examined, her body commented on by other Dominants. 4. Take her to a beauty salon; have her sit silently with hands folded, while you chat with the stylist about how her hair should be cut, whether it needs color, and so forth. Ignore the odd looks from the other customers, and make it clear to the stylist that you are selecting this for her. Then have it styled per your whim. This works well also at a makeup counter, or dress shop, forcing her to publically acknowlege Your control over her.

OsideGirl -> RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. (12/30/2007 3:21:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlackKnight I had a slave wear lingerie while we were on long trips, and I'd do her at rest-stops, and make her expose herself at drive-threws.' I think that's rude and selfish. You've imposed your kink of some poor person who is just doing their job.

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