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Aswad -> RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? (12/24/2007 11:34:44 AM)
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
1. You know a woman is checking you out. She's look at your ass and whispering to her friends. It's probably not unlikely that she may be fantasizing about you.
~wiggle~
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2. Women in a convertible see you on a corner and lean out to whistle at you and tell you that they think you are hot.
Smile and say "thanks." Check her out if she's hot, too.
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3. A very attractive boss seems to enjoy making you get things from the lowest filing cabinet and you catch her staring at you.
If it's obvious, I'd reposition myself and jokingly comment something along the lines of "how's the view?"
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4. Your dentist or doctor seems to linger a little and give commands that seem to be on the edge of normal, seemingly to see you in various positions.
I'd inquire about it. I'm a hassle as a patient. If the doc or dentist likes to look, I've no problem with that, as long as it doesn't get in the way of doing their job. I'd prefer for them not to be shy or covert about it, however. Frankly, it's flattering that they would take an interest. Being seen as a tasty morsel doesn't trouble me one bit.
Someone trying to help themselves to a serving had better ask first, though, or I might bite back.
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Do these, or other similar scenarios, offend you or flatter you?
Generally, I'd see it as flattering, but I'd be uncomfortable about people hiding it.
That makes it so much harder to tell when it's appropriate to reciprocate in this litigacious era.
(A woman can go very far in this regard with no consequences; a man can be fired for saying "hi".)
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Does it make a difference if the women are "HOT" vs. very average?
The only difference is the extent to which I reciprocate.
We're all potential sex objects; it's only natural.
If I minded it, I would wear a hajib...
Health,
al-Aswad.
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