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Help with Profile? - 12/24/2007 11:10:33 AM

TorontoStephie

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I've been tweaking my profile around in hopes of presenting myself to the best of my abilities, but I'd love the help and suggestions of any Dommes out there. I'm always trying to please and better myself so hopefully this will help to make sure I'm not shooting myself in the foot in any way.

Thanks to all in advance.

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RE: Help with Profile? - 12/24/2007 12:38:27 PM

mnottertail

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other than you use the word to when you mean too..........

here is the thing, I think that everybody is going to get the gimmick on the dressup thing, so you can quit talking about that. I see you are going to some kind of school, whats up with that, what you gonna be when you grow up? What do you do when Mistress don't feel like playing dolly with you? It is extremely unclear to me what you are offering a woman who already has means.

I am a man, but that nothwistanding as an honorary Dominatrix, I have always thought that crossdressers would be alot of money ahead to show a picture of them in a suit and tie as well as the frillies, couple reasons for that.......

One, Mistress might need you in a suit and tie for vanilla events that we all have to face, and wants to insure that you take as much care with that wardrobe as you do with your typically garish pantie and bra and dress and bows combinations.

To be perfectly frank, while not a bad profile, it is very sadly one dimensional, and most people (*hell, run of the mill people, doesn't have to be superbadbitchdomina) bore easily with one dimensional.

Another thing since I went this far, am I androgynous looking? I mean for 80-90% of the common folk, that is very subjective, and you might be missing bets or someone you see as perfectly androgynous that doesn't think they are........

Well, ruminate on that much anyway.

Ron(ne)

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RE: Help with Profile? - 12/24/2007 1:18:51 PM

pixelslave

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail
One, Mistress might need you in a suit and tie for vanilla events that we all have to face, and wants to insure that you take as much care with that wardrobe as you do with your typically garish pantie and bra and dress and bows combinations.

Good point Ron(ne)! But what if he has a really pretty evening gown?

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Another thing since I went this far, am I androgynous looking? I mean for 80-90% of the common folk, that is very subjective, and you might be missing bets or someone you see as perfectly androgynous that doesn't think they are........

I was thinking your appearance was more along the lines of a Ferengi Ron(ne). That fits with your interest in flea markets (Ferengi are known bargain hunters) and the way your ears kind of stick out; as mine would if I had a lot less hair on top too! Perhaps if someone donated a wig to the cause, you'd look more "official" in your position of honorary Domme?

BTW, I liked your profile Ron. It shows the flexibility and openess to try things important to their partners of the sort that many on these boards could benefit from. It's truly unfortunate that you live in the middle of nowhere.

- pixel

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RE: Help with Profile? - 12/26/2007 2:29:51 PM

TorontoStephie

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Well I've made a few changes, and will try to take a good vanilla picture soon. How are things looking now?

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RE: Help with Profile? - 12/26/2007 5:26:14 PM

LadyLynx

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personally I like the way your profile looks. a few pics in "normal garb" would be good too.

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RE: Help with Profile? - 12/26/2007 7:32:08 PM

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