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nysian -> Hi from REAL people (12/26/2007 1:41:05 AM)

Hi from a living, breathing, eternally sadistic Dom/ Domme couple. We'd love to hear from anyone who has had success among a sea of men pretending to be women and women pretending to be slaves.

It really shouldn't be so hard for the real people to reach each other through this site and live the collared life. Especially when you're real and really attractive. Any thoughts?



KnOcala -> RE: Hi from REAL people (12/26/2007 5:40:46 AM)

sssh, don't tell anyone but i'm a man playing the part of a man today and everyday.  But don't worry I can handle it.  I slept in a holiday inn last night.



Verdelet -> RE: Hi from REAL people (12/26/2007 10:49:33 AM)

Hello nysian, I've been played by others for their enjoyment. However, I do wonder if this "playing" is a form of testing the waters. Reason being, I was so called tested about a month ago from a guy portraying as a female. He wanted to learn HOW to address girls correctly, thus used me and my techniques to his advantage. Let me tell you I was steamed. Then I had a "female" who I talked to for a year who ended up being a man. He was "slave" supposedly, but used me to learn how a slave would think, feel, and so forth. To most, the life is a mere game and it harms those like us who are real and have been living the life more than 5 years (I'm a 24 year veteran).



peppermint -> RE: Hi from REAL people (12/26/2007 10:50:44 AM)

You are seeking a female slave willing to serve an established couple.  In fact, it will be very hard to find such a person as there must be 20 couples looking for each female slave willing to do poly.  However, the task is not impossible.  I do hope you've given thought to how the slave will fit into your household.  There are many questions you must have the answers for before accepting a 24/7 slave.  Will she be working outside the home?  If she works outside the home how will her money be handled?  If not working outside the home can you afford any medical bills she might have?  Can you supply her with money towards an IRA if she not working and is full time in your home?  What happens in the case of an accidental pregnancy?  How will she be explained to family and vanilla friends?  You need to decide ahead of time what you are really offering that slave. 

Those who are successful in finding that illusive 3rd have said that they consider the search a full time job.  They work at it, looking everywhere for that 3rd.  Online is a great place to start but don't forget to network through your local kink community also. 



AquaticSub -> RE: Hi from REAL people (12/26/2007 1:53:27 PM)

~Fast Reply~

1) It's just hard to find a partner, regardless of if you are BDSM or vanilla or how attractive you find yourself.
2) You are a couple, that dramatically cuts down the number of people interested.

In my experience, it is never easy to find a wonderful partner. You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the prince and all that. Expecting that you should be able to find a partner easily because of your physical appearence, money, BDSM experience, or shoe collection may prove to be a huge turn-off to potential mates. You will also find that some of us avoid those who use the terms "real" and "fake" like the plague. You may also want to consider what *you* offer, as has been mentioned above, you are looking for something that many other people are looking for. The person you are looking for is the position to be as picky as they like and if you can not make the best offer, if you are not the best match, you simply won't be first choice.

Be patient and realize that you are the best for someone. But it will probably take time to find them.



male2shemaid -> RE: Hi from REAL people (12/26/2007 2:06:09 PM)

What was that Carly Simon song?



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Hi from REAL people (12/26/2007 4:31:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: nysian

Hi from a living, breathing, eternally sadistic Dom/ Domme couple. We'd love to hear from anyone who has had success among a sea of men pretending to be women and women pretending to be slaves.

It really shouldn't be so hard for the real people to reach each other through this site and live the collared life. Especially when you're real and really attractive. Any thoughts?

in other words - uglies need not to apply

perhaps you should read my signature - what you may consider to be "REAL" is merely a figment of your own perception.



nysian -> RE: Hi from REAL people (12/27/2007 5:25:08 PM)

I agree. In fact, as someone who writes [and does artwork/photography] professionally about the Subject of BDSM, I often have to think about and debate "REALNESS"

To make it more complicated, I do videogames, Where the "Realness" or devotion of a sub/slave/or devotee has to be able to be measured mathematically.

Of course, that leads to all sorts of other questions. Is a virtual sub who literally takes a bullet but is only available 1 hour a day more "Real" than a virtval sub who plays in the game 6 hours a day, but does not participate in combat?

Moot point if you have never played World of Warcraft.





sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Hi from REAL people (12/28/2007 8:23:17 AM)

i don't do virtual video games ...i prefer hand to hand military combat manuevers



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