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what makes you seek someone here? - 8/20/2005 9:45:34 PM

fastlane

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On Collarme.com?
Do you see a personality you like? Do you see a place you'd rather be? Do you see escape from reality? Do you see sex as the motive? Do you see, what you seek in a potential Dom on C.M.? Do you see education in the lifestyle through someone here?
Do you seek cybersex through someone here?
Do you seek love through someone here? Do you seek lust through someones here?
There are no wrong answers..BTW! I"m just curious?

Cause I need to Jack off and can't find anyone to do it for me here!

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/20/2005 10:14:57 PM

mossy

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Good question.....
i seek a potential Dominant, a relationship with Him, i do see education here, and a bond between the people here. i seek passion, lust, sex, fun, bdsm, love, pain, heat, someone who is serious about enjoying this as much as i do. That has a good heart. i started posting because i wanted to be open about who i was, even if that meant looking like an idiot to some or many. Sincerity shows through, and i know the right person would see.
Yes i have seen some Dominants who post that i like, as well as many others too. i hope this helps.

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/20/2005 10:57:55 PM

junecleaver

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quote:

On Collarme.com?
Do you see a personality you like? Do you see a place you'd rather be? Do you see escape from reality? Do you see sex as the motive? Do you see, what you seek in a potential Dom on C.M.? Do you see education in the lifestyle through someone here?
Do you seek cybersex through someone here?
Do you seek love through someone here? Do you seek lust through someones here?
There are no wrong answers..BTW! I"m just curious?

Cause I need to Jack off and can't find anyone to do it for me here!

I came here to learn. I'm not 'seeking' anything other than knowledge at the moment. If I were looking for a Dom, there are some handsome, intelligent ones with a profile floating around here somewhere.

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/20/2005 11:41:12 PM

sub4hire

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I seek like minded individuals here to learn with and from.
If I were searching for a partner I would'nt be doing it on a BDSM site.
I've been there and done that. BDSM should not be the primary focus of a
relationship. Lust only lasts so long then you need vanilla in common.
I met my dom in a plain old So Cal chat room almost 7 years ago now.
Worked for me so far.

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 1:20:14 AM

KarbonCopy

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I found this site when looking for an actual BDSM community that was regularily visited, had a variety of conversations, and wasnt full of a bunch of wannabe fetishists that think because they like leather they're into the lifestyle.

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 5:13:53 AM

ElektraUkM

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The reason I come here is because I like to read (and occasionally participate in) discussions, and this is a topic I'm interested in

Oh, and for the TETRIS game in another section

~ Elektra

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 6:07:05 AM

LadyofLight

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thats why you have 2 hands...(winks).

I heard the people on the forums were kewl and not cliqueish as some other sites.

I'm not really looking,I just got out of whatever....
b/c, my lil ex-needy-greedy masochistic subbie decided I needed a few scars on my heart and soul to learn from.
So I am still learning what it is that makes me tick/relationships,BDSM.etc...life in general w/ other like-minded people.

If I stumble across a special sub for me,well I might not run.I just might put my hand on my hips and stomp my foot, and sternly say,STAY/SIT.

< Message edited by LadyofLight -- 8/21/2005 6:14:12 AM >

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 6:09:51 AM

JohnWarren

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quote:

ORIGINAL: junecleaver

I came here to learn. I'm not 'seeking' anything other than knowledge at the moment. If I were looking for a Dom, there are some handsome, intelligent ones with a profile floating around here somewhere.

It's nice to know there's a recriprocal out there. I'm mainly here to share and support.

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 9:06:09 AM

RosaB

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I came here to learn more about a variety of aspects of bdsm. And boy has it been one heck of an eye opener. It's also been a great comfort learning that so many dominant women think and feel very similarly to my views about what it is we do. Being somewhat new to practicing certain aspects of this lifestyle and in the past had been made to feel (by quite a few submales), like I was doing something wrong (though I had no intention of changing,) because of things I enjoyed doing with my submissives, coming here has been such a big help in aleviating that feeling. I'm grateful to this site for allowing such an exspansive glimps' into the minds of so many men and women.

Rosa

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 10:20:01 AM

tuttalila

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElektraUkM
Oh, and for the TETRIS game in another section

Wait, there's Tetris? Where? j/k

To answer the original question, mainly education, technique/ideas, and interaction with people who won't judge me negatively because of the specific power dynamics I'm interested in a relationship (although you can feel free to mock my wordiness).
It's a forum that allows me to explore and share this side of my personality with others.

Lila

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 11:25:02 AM

sweetnes33

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I'm very new to this site and this lifestyle.i joined to learn and be around others who i could learn from............. so far so good..everyone i've spoke to so far has been happy to answer any question i have. That in itself has helped me enormously on my travels..

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 1:25:10 PM

kisshou

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On Collarme.com.....

1)Do you see a personality you like?
2)Do you see a place you'd rather be?
3)Do you see escape from reality?
4)Do you see sex as the motive?
5)Do you see, what you seek in a potential Dom on C.M.?
6)Do you see education in the lifestyle through someone here?
7)Do you seek cybersex through someone here?
8)Do you seek love through someone here?
9)Do you seek lust through someones here?

1)yes
2)no
3)yes/sometimes from my reality (not reality in general)
4)yes/sometimes
5)yes, the Owner has a profile :P
6)yes and have learned lots on the forums
7)yes but am not allowed to chat so it is a moot point
8) yes I am always open to love and friendship
9) no, I don't think lust is something you feel through someone else

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 3:04:17 PM

darkinshadows

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I come for the tea and crumpets

Peace and Love

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 3:39:39 PM

Taik

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It's the first place I happened to find that was/is useful. I enjoy reading the forums, and sometimes I find topic's that really get my mind churning. It's also nice to see so many diffrent levels of experince, without any noticable prejudice toward those who have a lack of expereince. It seems to me that these forums have a genuine family feel to them and for the most part everyone is nice and very helpful. Not to mention I really enjoy being able to share my often long winded views with people who are willing to listen.

Taik

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 6:59:05 PM

Mylee

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I've come to learm from people who are wiser and more verseed then I...and if I happen to make a few nice friends while im kickin' 'round the boards, YAAAY!

~my'lee

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 7:00:00 PM

fastlane

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Kisshou...you get a 100% for answering all the questions correctly.

See, me after school for extra credit

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/21/2005 11:14:15 PM

txparanoid

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Um...

...is it alright to say that I joined Collarme because it's a BDSM dating site? And that I'm looking for a date into BDSM?

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/22/2005 12:21:45 PM

NakedOnMyChain

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I only seek the sharing of ideas and information.

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/22/2005 2:41:59 PM

muzz

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i came to this site more to learn then to search for anyone...to finally find a place where there can be such open discussions about the lifestyle is very good for newbies like me LOL...the option of searching for a Dom is just an added bonus.

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RE: what makes you seek someone here? - 8/22/2005 4:04:52 PM

sultryvoice

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I came here to see if there were possibilites for a relationship and for the interest of what others have to say..The boards have given me more information than I could ever get from books or website to website. In just one topic, you get many different answers and statements. This is what gives me more knowledge than the other forms.. Now I'm not saying the sites and books don't, I just get more here..

Ok, now to give fastlane what he is looking for....

Do you see a personality you like? I have found a very few..
Do you see a place you'd rather be? No I don't..
Do you see escape from reality? Not in the slightest...
Do you see sex as the motive? Isn't that in many male/female relationships eventually..
Do you see, what you seek in a potential Dom on C.M.? My profile states a bit of it..
Do you see education in the lifestyle through someone here? It is as I stated in the paragraph above..
Do you seek cybersex through someone here? Heck no....
Do you seek love through someone here? One never knows....
Do you seek lust through someones here? One never knows..

Ok, fastlane, you need to answer your own questions...

Respectfully,
sultry

< Message edited by sultryvoice -- 8/22/2005 4:06:10 PM >

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