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fastlane -> what makes you (8/20/2005 11:43:59 PM)

Really want to piss of your Master? In other words, what makes you angry and revenge sets in?

Not like you all are like that, but, curuous Doms want to know?



KarbonCopy -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 1:19:08 AM)

I know my "Sprite" phaze kicks in when I feel neglected.

Somehow, I always think that its going to get me the attention I crave. Of course I get attention alright, but Its not the attention that I seek.

As for Mistress? she hates this, and we've talked about it, if I'm feeling like I need attention, and i'm not getting it, then I am to almost tell her, and to not be bratty about it (not that she wants me to completely stop being a brat).




ElektraUkM -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 5:17:25 AM)

Like KarbonCopy, it's not having enough input from him that really makes me want to piss him off. But I know pissing him off is pretty futile, and doesn't get me a good reaction, so I don't do it. The only answer, long-term, is finding someone who wants the same level of interaction as I do.

~ Elektra




fourpeas -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 5:58:16 AM)

I'm with both of these subs.

What makes me want to make my Dom angry... ? I usually don't want to make him angry. I am a bit more vindictive and want to make him UPSET or SAD.

I usually do this by being a martyr, which is really not the greatest thing in the world and I'm trying not to do it. Really trying.



Sirsubby -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 7:29:51 AM)

Its when this slave cannot speak to her Master directly when she has something to discuss. She feels like pushing Him and be a total brat, but she knows better not to push too far.

Sir's subby



Mercnbeth -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 7:32:43 AM)

quote:

Really want to piss of your Master? In other words, what makes you angry and revenge sets in?


Whatever it is, remember it when you're asked the next question; "Why my Master released me..."

But in reading the responses they indicate a dom/sub relationship not Master/slave. That being the case these games are appropriate. Have Fun!



kyakitten -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 8:10:42 AM)

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quietlilone -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 8:15:52 AM)

I would have to agree with the majority of the posts here. Lack of communication or being ignored would definately put me in a bad mood. I don't think I would actually plan something out to piss him/her off, but perhaps unintentionally my body language, and service would reflect this anger.



KarbonCopy -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 9:41:35 AM)

Yea, you'd think that we'd make the connection faster that, being a brat gets us "punnished" and not punnished you know?

But sometimes it feels like the only way that our Dom/mes will pay attention to us, they'd have no choice,
*mischevious grin*



ElektraUkM -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 9:50:31 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

But in reading the responses they indicate a dom/sub relationship not Master/slave. That being the case these games are appropriate. Have Fun!


I think all the responses so far have said 'yes' to feeling an emotional response (anger?) from not getting enough interaction/feedback/whatever, but 'no' to actually doing something about that emotional response. Do you not agree?

Or is it that you feel that the hallmark of a slave is in not having that initial emotional response at all?

Just curious of your thoughts on this, as I am not sure whether you've misread the fact that all (?)respondents said they wouldn't act on those feelings, i.e. 'play games'.

~ Elektra



ElektraUkM -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 9:53:26 AM)

OK, I wrote my previous post before KarbonCopy came back and wrote this [&:]

quote:

ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

But sometimes it feels like the only way that our Dom/mes will pay attention to us, they'd have no choice,
*mischevious grin*



But they do have a choice, don't they? Ignore you a bit more. I don't really believe that 'playing games' gets you anywhere in the long run (unless that's part of the agreed dynamic).

~ Elektra




KarbonCopy -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 10:00:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ElektraUkM

OK, I wrote my previous post before KarbonCopy came back and wrote this [&:]

quote:

ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

But sometimes it feels like the only way that our Dom/mes will pay attention to us, they'd have no choice,
*mischevious grin*



But they do have a choice, don't they? Ignore you a bit more. I don't really believe that 'playing games' gets you anywhere in the long run (unless that's part of the agreed dynamic).

~ Elektra




Well yea, but. . . . thats not how it all works in my head lol.

But what do you expect from a 19 year old submissive.



batty24546 -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 12:42:35 PM)

I've been told sometimes im worse then a dog. If you don't walk me every day i can be a real pain in your ass.



kisshou -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 12:56:32 PM)

I never want to piss him off, ever. If I feel anger I talk to him about it and he addresses the problem. I have never wanted revenge for anything from anybody, I am not much of a hater. I am more inclined to feel sorrow rather than anger.



junecleaver -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 3:30:16 PM)

Immaturity.

And being wrong which again is rooted in immaturity. Yay for growing and learning though.



LaMspeach -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 5:36:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

Really want to piss of your Master? In other words, what makes you angry and revenge sets in?

Not like you all are like that, but, curuous Doms want to know?


Why would anyone want to be in a D/s or M/s relationship if they felt the need to piss the one they belonged to off or seek revenge? that doesn't make sense to me.

I belong to my owner, my job is to make sure he is pleased. If i feel i need more attention or he has hurt me in some way, i communicate my feelings. He then decided what shall be done about it.

Communication and trust is a huge part of a relationship. i just don't see how trust can be built if someone in the relationship has to worry about the other seeking revenge because they some how pissed them off. It seems very immature.




KarbonCopy -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 5:38:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaMspeach


quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

Really want to piss of your Master? In other words, what makes you angry and revenge sets in?

Not like you all are like that, but, curuous Doms want to know?


Why would anyone want to be in a D/s or M/s relationship if they felt the need to piss the one they belonged to off or seek revenge? that doesn't make sense to me.

I belong to my owner, my job is to make sure he is pleased. If i feel i need more attention or he has hurt me in some way, i communicate my feelings. He then decided what shall be done about it.

Communication and trust is a huge part of a relationship. i just don't see how trust can be built if someone in the relationship has to worry about the other seeking revenge because they some how pissed them off. It seems very immature.




I'm a bratty 19 year old kid. So. . . I dunno I cant help it.



perverseangelic -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 5:52:51 PM)

I don't know that I ever want to make my partner mad. I get angry at him, yes. I get angry when he forgets something that I really needed him to get done (like calling and canceling the newspaper so we dont have to keep paying) but I tell him, upfront, that I am angry and am trying not to be.

Getting angry doesn't mean I want to get -him- angry, nor does it mean I'd -ever- "get revenge."

That doesn't really seem appropriate, y'know? While it might be very frustrating that he forgot to do something, getting revenge won't do anything productive and kinda blurs the lines we've try to set up.

Basically--I get mad when things that I'd like to get done, don't get done, or when he forgets something important to me. I talk to him about it, tell him I'm got upset by that, that I'm sorry I was upset, and move on.



fastlane -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 6:52:43 PM)

I only get angry, if I feel I'm being Topped by the bottom, or a submissive, forgets her submissivness and begins to accuse and belittle me. It's only happened once....Bye, Bye, Subbie!



doubleLeo -> RE: what makes you (8/21/2005 8:38:41 PM)

being ignored hurts me- not angers me..

I would say that get angery when my limits are being pushed in terms of pain.

I find resentment can also set in when my energies are low, or I need some care and instead experience a push.

doesnt happen very often, but we are all human- including Him ;-)
dL



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