LadyShoshin -> RE: Sub M Looking - Advice Appreciated (7/24/2004 9:37:00 AM)
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I don't know where you are located, but I suggest you check out http://www.soj.org/groups.html , find a group in your area and start going to munches and events, create real time friendships, network, have fun and put the need to find a Mistress on the back burner. A good picture of yourself and a well written and spell checked ad help. Please NO pics of your john thomas. When you contact a Domme, describe yourself (if she wants to know what your cock looks like she will ask), describe your experience, list some of your skills. Be sure to list your vanilla skills, like computer techician, handyman, electrician etc. Give a general idea of your limits. Ask about her, people like to talk about themselves, be genuinely interested and ask what she is looking for in a sub, how can you serve her. Ask how she wishes to be addressed. This will make you stand out from the "do me" subs who only talk about what they want & what turns them on.
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