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robertolapiedra -> RE: A trend? (12/30/2007 7:20:33 AM)
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ORIGINAL: heartsemerge
I notice that younger Doms tend to think slaves are doormats and have no rights. While older Doms view submission as a gift, and view that the sub has the right to give her submission and to voice her feelings when things make her feel uncomfortable. I just want to get some opinions and feedback on why you may think this is happening, and if you too are noticing it. It seems that the younger the Dom, the less respect they have towards a slave.
Hello heartsemerge. In what context? Play? LTR? Casual sex?
If you are speaking about a lifestyle in which you have consenting adults, 50% of the equation (subs) seems to desire to be "objectified" when they are young (they actually want to be doormats and treated as if they had no rights)?
It seems the younger the sub, the less self respect? Unless their starting kink is to be objectified? If none of the newbie subs consented to be a doormat with no rights, there would not be ''younger Doms that tend to think slaves are doormats and have no rights.'' Get it? Older subs and doms do. Maybe that is what you are seeing in the respect department.
I think young ''vanillas'' have the same perceptions that you do, it is a question of self respect. When you set limits for yourself first, it is easier to attract ''respectful'' compatible partners. Right?
I think it is too easy for subs to blame doms for their own shortcomings. It is not a young dom issue, it is a responsibility issue. Many young dom are respectful and a lot of old doms not, just read the posts.RL.
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