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sweeTS86 -> interest in T-girls (12/27/2007 10:30:46 PM)
Hi, in case you haven't guessed, I am am a tgirl. I've been wondering, for most people, if you knew a certain girl was a tgirl, would that prevent you from being interested in her? What if she was very pretty, prettier than most genentic girl? And wold it make a difference in she was pre or post op?

BiteGirl -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/27/2007 10:39:25 PM)
I wouldn't care. But I'm interested in people for who they are not what they are (gender wise), a lot of people may have a problem with it thought, but if they do, hey, that's not your problem, it's theirs.

littlehumbledone -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/27/2007 10:42:05 PM)
Two of my bestest friends ever are Tgirls.... and I love them to pieces... its who they are that matters, not what they are or were or will be.

Rushemery -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/27/2007 10:47:40 PM)
it would depend on how well we meshed. Im pretty picky when it comes to general women, I dont tell everyoine that though so shhh

Rushemery -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/27/2007 11:02:59 PM)
I have re-thought it, a relationship pre op no and regardless what you looked like after I would still have to say no. for me it would be wrong for someone else it may not be. I would def. flirt though

DomDG -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 1:16:46 AM)
I would consider the person. I have an interest in subbie t girls, sissy maid, etc. We (princess, myself and a bunch from our local BDSM group) went to a gay bar last Saturday night to support one of our members who was participating in their Ho for the holiday drag show. There were only one or two passable tgirls in the bunch. but the show was fun. If the right tgirl were to approach me concerning submitting I would consider it. Just like I would consider a gender girl who I clicked with.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 1:41:33 AM)
When I'm in a relationship with a person, its for the person, not a part of their anatomy that do or don't have. I wouldn't send them away for being a T-girl...but I wouldn't choose them for being a T-girl either. It would just be something that "is". Master Fire

TheScrivener -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 2:07:20 AM)
Provided a person is attractive, I could care less what gender they are, be it male, female, or somewhere in between the two. Attractive does not just mean pretty. There's more to it, as always. Also, I honestly prefer "pre-op" to "post-op". I realize that some trans individuals feel awkward with the body they were born with, but I personally prefer a person that identifies as somewhere in between the two extremes of male and female. It's hard for me to explain how I feel about all this - it's one of those subjects I've never discussed before. Basically, you're a-okay with moi. [sm=hello.gif]

Guilty1974 -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 2:12:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweeTS86 I've been wondering, for most people, if you knew a certain girl was a tgirl, would that prevent you from being interested in her? I've played with three pre-op Tgirls so far, so no that single fact alone doesn't prevent me from being interested.

Prinsexx -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 2:42:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweeTS86 Hi, in case you haven't guessed, I am am a tgirl. I've been wondering, for most people, if you knew a certain girl was a tgirl, would that prevent you from being interested in her? What if she was very pretty, prettier than most genentic girl? And wold it make a difference in she was pre or post op? Hi This is not purely about t-girls but about gender. Two of my best freinds are gender queer. That is to say my bestest friends is a gay male. A hairdresser and a psychic medium (very good at both). A strikingly handsome male, his voice never broke and this he and his doctors think of as the effect of a traumatic relationship with his father who literally tried ti kick the homo out of him. Anyway we are bestest and swop make-up and clothing ideas. Another good friend is in the process of coming out and wanting to be a woman although he is a genetic male. He is at the beginning of the process, cannot much longer tolerate his male body or genitalia but has made a very good job of passing all his life and was an excellent rugby player and agressive salesman. He has been in life-time hell and has recently told his parents. He is over forty. He is adorable and would make someone who understood an amazing 'husband'/'wife' if he were to meet the right girl. He is attracted to women because he wants to 'be them' and attracted to men because he has submissive fantases about being 'taken' by them. It's a kind of limbo. Anyway they are two of the most beautufl 'men' I know. And in direct answer to your question yes I would have a relationship with a t-girl and as an alpha female queer/switch sort of girl myself if the t-girl was sub and intelligent and oh you know ...well it's surely about the person and not the gender??? ~There are two possible ways to approach phenomena. The first is to rule out the extraordinary and focus on the 'normal'. The second approach is to consider that in order to understand a phenomena, one needs first to consider the extremes........I don't particulalrly care about the usual.........~ from The Black Swan

bipolarber -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 5:20:04 AM)
To be brutally honest, how "pretty" they were would matter, but only for the initial attraction. If, after talking to them, I found out they were fairly shallow, I doubt if I'd continue to persue them. But, if the chemistry and personality were right, I wouldn't find the details of their body to be all that important. (But then, I'm bi. I'm not freaked out if someone's genitalia is an "outie" or an "innie.") Essentially, attraction, deepening interest, and sexual desire remains the same with me. No matter if you are genetic straight, TS, or outright queer-identified.

malloves69 -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 5:36:11 AM)
some t girls are down right awesome looking ..others are just the opposite ...down right scary looking ..im more a bottom so they would have to be tops ...have i seen one before ? yes but she had alot of trouble staying hard ..too many hormones she told me she was taking ...alot of money to spend for a limp dick i thought ..so thats why i question about seeing another one ...ladys wearing strapons i find sexy as hell [:)] have fun ..mal ...oh never known a strapon to get soft on you -lol

Prinsexx -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 5:50:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bipolarber (But then, I'm bi. I'm not freaked out if someone's genitalia is an "outie" or an "innie.") Some of THE best looking girls are street girls (by night) in Italy. Fabulous. Gorgeous. Stunning. But in Army towns like Udine, many of the boys bought in to do their conscription year have been caught out by the street 'girls' outside the barracks whose genitalia have definitely been 'outies' rather than 'innies'. Anyway no genitalia are really totally innies as my outie is the most intelligebt thing I have (more so than my brain sometimes).........if there's a phrase 'he's driven by his dick'....then there should be 'she's driven by her clit'.......

sirguym -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 6:32:26 AM)
For me it makes little diference, and not always a negative one - a deep relationship with a 'real girl' may be more of a threat to existing loyalties than one with a tgirl. But it is the whole package, looks to an extent, availability, but mainly personality that decides whether I get further involved or not. But then I am not hung up on finding 'the one' I am just here to make more friends; and if something comes of it as it often does, that is a bonus.

LadyEllen -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 7:08:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweeTS86 Hi, in case you haven't guessed, I am am a tgirl. I've been wondering, for most people, if you knew a certain girl was a tgirl, would that prevent you from being interested in her? What if she was very pretty, prettier than most genentic girl? And wold it make a difference in she was pre or post op? Hi Here's the thing. Regardless of what a potential suitor might think in his/her own mind - there is the wider social context for him/her to consider, and it would be a rare person indeed who could truly and absolutely afford to disregard the influences of the wider social context, even if he/she on the face of it was prepared to do so. Whilst the suitor may have no issues whatsoever (and this would be rare in the first place), the suitor's friends, family, workplace, neighbours, insurance company etc may well have issues. The suitor would be in the position, alike with the "t-girl" when she came out, of having to risk all for the relationship. The rejection and suspicions faced by "t-girls" are unfortunately, rather contagious. E

chellekitty -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 7:30:37 AM)
would it be extremely crude of me to say that, for me, the favorite parts of a man's body is his penis and the favorite part of a woman's body is her breasts and so when there is a pre-op tgirl that has had some surgery and hormone treatments...umm...sex would be excellent...damn my ex for never letting me have sex with his tgirls... my 2 cents anyway chelle

destined2serve1 -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 7:30:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen quote: ORIGINAL: sweeTS86 Hi, in case you haven't guessed, I am am a tgirl. I've been wondering, for most people, if you knew a certain girl was a tgirl, would that prevent you from being interested in her? What if she was very pretty, prettier than most genentic girl? And wold it make a difference in she was pre or post op? Hi Here's the thing. Regardless of what a potential suitor might think in his/her own mind - there is the wider social context for him/her to consider, and it would be a rare person indeed who could truly and absolutely afford to disregard the influences of the wider social context, even if he/she on the face of it was prepared to do so. Whilst the suitor may have no issues whatsoever (and this would be rare in the first place), the suitor's friends, family, workplace, neighbours, insurance company etc may well have issues. The suitor would be in the position, alike with the "t-girl" when she came out, of having to risk all for the relationship. The rejection and suspicions faced by "t-girls" are unfortunately, rather contagious. E So true Lady Ellen; Even as a post-op my past cannot be wiped clean and my partner has to live with that reality as well. There are so many stigmas associated with transgenderism to overcome that anyone wanting to get involved with a tgirl that even in the best of circumstances, had better have the fortitude to ride out some rough or awkward events.

LadyEllen -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 8:50:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: destined2serve1 So true Lady Ellen; Even as a post-op my past cannot be wiped clean and my partner has to live with that reality as well. There are so many stigmas associated with transgenderism to overcome that anyone wanting to get involved with a tgirl that even in the best of circumstances, had better have the fortitude to ride out some rough or awkward events. I looked at your profile - youre one lucky gal to have found that rare someone! As someone in the same situation, my experience has been that I get a lot of interest - but its never for a relationship, and this is why I posted as I did. What the OP has to be careful of is assuming that any interest shown in her is anything more than casual. E

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 8:51:42 AM)
Good to see there is support for this because i am intersexed(not the same as t but same problems from society) and have had little to no respect from others. The only interest in me so far has been for fantasy sex and not for a real relationship. Maybe the world is changing.

kitttty -> RE: interest in T-girls (12/28/2007 8:55:51 AM)
quote: would it be extremely crude of me to say that, for me, the favorite parts of a man's body is his penis and the favorite part of a woman's body is her breasts and so when there is a pre-op tgirl that has had some surgery and hormone treatments...umm...sex would be excellent...damn my ex for never letting me have sex with his tgirls... Ditto. I have a major thing for pre-op T girls. Post op, meh. Then they are like any other girl.

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