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jakeskajira -> being objectified... (12/28/2007 10:58:02 AM)

I personally love being objectified by my Master. I am his property.
I think that everyone is different, no one is better than anyone else... but I like being his property, this doesn't mean I am abused, far from it, I am probably overly spoiled...  so taking me down a peg or two, or a few notches, helps remind me of my place and not allow me to take things for granted, as everything Master gives me is a precious gift, and I should remember that.
Objectification can happen in many forms, but not everyone likes to be objectified, and I don't think you should objectify a slave or sub just because she is one if you don't own her.
I think trust, communication, respect are important parts of the lifestyle as well... I don't have a safeword, or a way out, I don't need one. But this wouldn't be possible with out the 3 parts I just mentioned previously....

Honestly, there's no point to my post, I just wrote this to write, because I was thinking about it and supposed I'd share! *chuckles*

I hope you guys are having a wonderful holiday! and happy new years.

Regards,
slave emma







sweetstorm -> RE: being objectified... (12/28/2007 4:05:07 PM)

What is your favorite manner in which your Master objectifies you?




sexyred1 -> RE: being objectified... (12/28/2007 4:07:24 PM)

OP, glad you are so happy. Objectification can be very fun and very hot indeed.




christine1 -> RE: being objectified... (12/28/2007 4:12:50 PM)

emma, i share your love of objectification.  i'm not owned right now but i have many wonderful memories of being objectified.  to trust another enough to let him treat me as an object for whatever purpose he wants or needs is excrutiatingly sexy to me.




jakeskajira -> RE: being objectified... (12/28/2007 4:13:02 PM)

errr... he likes to pee on me int he shower LOL -- to mark his territory... *blushes*

He rarely uses my name. it actaully startles me when he does and I wonder why he's calling me that... LOL

He has made me act like a puppy, and even do tricks , like shake and roll over... (yeah I don't know, but as long as he's happy!)

He refers to me as property, as a possesion, even when refering to me as his wife, it is always known that I belong to him.

(Just off the top of my head. I could probably think of many other scenarios)




jakeskajira -> RE: being objectified... (12/28/2007 4:14:42 PM)

and he almost always wakes me up with sex, and I love when he objectifies me sexually... and uses any hole he wishes... I guess im just his slut like that LOL




sweetstorm -> RE: being objectified... (12/28/2007 4:22:31 PM)

Those all sound incredibly hot!
I used to have a Master that I trusted enough to do anything with me, I SO MISS HIM!!!!  [sm=river.gif]




goodgirl08 -> RE: being objectified... (12/28/2007 7:07:36 PM)

I like being a footrest [:)]




desertdancer -> RE: being objectified... (12/28/2007 7:43:44 PM)

Hmmm.. I've not ever seen bing a pet as objectification.  Maybe it is.  I'm a kitten..not a slave, or sub, I'm a pet.  I love being a pet. I've just never thought of it as being objectified.  Now I have food for thought.




sexyred1 -> RE: being objectified... (12/28/2007 7:47:03 PM)

Sometimes..after a very hard day at the office...having to to persuade people to spend lots of money on what I have to sell them....there is nothing better than coming home and being a sexual object, existing only for pleasure, to be used for whatever it is,  and feeling nothing but what he wants you to feel.

That is objectification at it's best...[;)]




Einzelganger -> RE: being objectified... (12/29/2007 5:58:21 AM)

I hope you're enjoying the holidays as well, slave emma...and thank you for posting this; I'm a little curious about objectification as well, so this is some great food for thought. *smiles*

-Einzelgänger




jakeskajira -> RE: being objectified... (12/29/2007 8:07:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: desertdancer

Hmmm.. I've not ever seen bing a pet as objectification.  Maybe it is.  I'm a kitten..not a slave, or sub, I'm a pet.  I love being a pet. I've just never thought of it as being objectified.  Now I have food for thought.


well it depends on how you use the word... a pet is a piece of property too...




laurell3 -> RE: being objectified... (12/29/2007 2:51:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: jakeskajira

quote:

ORIGINAL: desertdancer

Hmmm.. I've not ever seen bing a pet as objectification.  Maybe it is.  I'm a kitten..not a slave, or sub, I'm a pet.  I love being a pet. I've just never thought of it as being objectified.  Now I have food for thought.


well it depends on how you use the word... a pet is a piece of property too...



Try convincing my incredibly bossy cat that [8D]




Einzelganger -> RE: being objectified... (12/29/2007 3:53:00 PM)

I'd have to agree...my cat seems certain humans are a lower life form. *smiles*

-Einzelgänger




wisteriaV -> RE: being objectified... (12/29/2007 6:13:10 PM)

I personally think cats and any feline of the four legged variety are the original doms of life...lol




laurell3 -> RE: being objectified... (12/29/2007 7:35:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: wisteriaV

I personally think cats and any feline of the four legged variety are the original doms of life...lol


I agree. My incredibly opinionated, pushy himalayan has the name Sir Pudgy for a reason [8D].




eyesopened -> RE: being objectified... (12/30/2007 2:31:15 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: wisteriaV

I personally think cats and any feline of the four legged variety are the original doms of life...lol


And people question why i get up so early....How can they not know that my cats require that i serve food no later than 5am and if i do not immediately obey, the Alpha Domme will find inventive ways to punish me. 

Back to the subject.  my Master bought a hood just for me and next will be a hood without eyes.  The hood is a fabulous way for me to get into the midset of being an object.  Like other forms of bondage and confinement, it also is strangely liberating.




beeble -> RE: being objectified... (12/30/2007 4:28:33 AM)

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jakeskajira wrote: well it depends on how you use the word... a pet is a piece of property too...
laurell3 wrote: Try convincing my incredibly bossy cat that

You appear to be under the mistaken assumption that the cat is your pet.  It's the other way round.




hejira92 -> RE: being objectified... (12/30/2007 10:09:43 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

quote:

ORIGINAL: wisteriaV

I personally think cats and any feline of the four legged variety are the original doms of life...lol


And people question why i get up so early....How can they not know that my cats require that i serve food no later than 5am and if i do not immediately obey, the Alpha Domme will find inventive ways to punish me. 

Back to the subject.  my Master bought a hood just for me and next will be a hood without eyes.  The hood is a fabulous way for me to get into the midset of being an object.  Like other forms of bondage and confinement, it also is strangely liberating.



Brings to mind the truism- Dogs have owners; Cats have staff.
 
On the topic:
I am dreaming of a hood like that!
 
Also, just the other day, Master and I were discussing one of the hottest objectifying things Master has done to me. One time, He had me wearing thigh-high boots over thigh-high stockings and not much else (maybe a collar...), I was standing before Him while He was sitting on the sofa. He first had me stimulate myself for His amusment, but then moved me closer to Him so He could finger me. He proceeded to put His hand in me and on me, bringing me to the brink of orgasm, all the while not even looking at me. He was looking away, seemed totally bored, not even seeming to pay attention to what His hand was doing. I was panting and waiting permission to cum and He was hardly there. I don't know if I am describing this well, but I felt totally objectified- like I had no personhood at all. It was hot.
 
Another thing He does that makes me very small; sometimes when He is fucking me particularly roughly, He will pull out, throw me to the floor or stand over me on the bed and jerk off over me onto my body and/or face. So, I'm not even good enough to cum in- just a cum target. He'll then go clean Himself off and when's He's done, He'll throw the dirty towel at me for me to use.
 
Boy, when I write these things, I can't believe how contemptable they sound, but, boy, it is so hot when He does it!
 
<sigh> Is it any wonder why I love Him so?





AnimusRex -> RE: being objectified... (12/30/2007 10:52:28 AM)

From the viewpoint of the other side of the leash....
Having a girl serve so completely, to trust a Man enough to be His footrest, His pet, to kneel motionless while being examined carefully, fingers prodding and probing and having her most intimate places exposed to His view and inspection.....washing her, shaving her, and yes, marking her in the shower like the property she is is an exhilaration.
It is said the most independent and assertive women make the best slaves; its for this reason that having  agirl lovingly surrender her identity to become His beloved object and pet is so thrilling and deeply touching.




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