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sweetstorm -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 6:41:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: whenstarscollide


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ORIGINAL: MistressMiracle

I personally love the looks of a ball gag on my male sluts.  HOWEVER,  I prefer to use a safety ballgag - one that has holes.  It still gives the "look" of a gag..and makes them feel inferior, but, it is very safe.


wow, i didn't even know they made those. that's a really good idea!


Ah yes! Is that the wiffle ball type one? It has holes to breathe through and also makes you drool like a rabid pup!!!  [:D]




Poppygirl -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 6:43:53 AM)

i agree with the whole drooling thing, i hate it but i have had Doms who like the humiliation. The ball gag with holes reminds me of a wiffle ball.  Though i do love being gagged for the vulnerability of it.




Lordandmaster -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 6:51:38 AM)

I love gags, but the one problem is that I can't put my dick in her mouth while she's wearing one.  And I don't like those dental devices.  They're ugly and unsafe.

Oh, for the droolers: Ask your dom/master to get a penis-shaped gag for you.  (Leather ones are good.)  When you start drooling, just suck on the penis in your mouth.  Works like magic.  I guess bit gags cut down on the drooling problem too, but sometimes you just want to stuff that mouth completely.

Lastly, a public-service announcement: Be VERY careful of gags that don't strap around the head.  Like the tennis-ball-and-duct-tape method.  Yeah, it's hot, but the risk of choking increases tremendously if whatever you stick inside the mouth isn't secured outside the mouth.

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ORIGINAL: sodsta

If you're a Domiant, either male or female, how do you feel about gagging a submissive, and gags in general?




sweetstorm -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 6:53:16 AM)

For some reason, being gagged with something that will make me drool makes me feel more accepted as I am. As in: "He loves me and wants me, though I drool all over Him and everything else in sight."  [:D]




sunshinemiss -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 7:47:44 AM)

ooo... i got one for xmas.  Made from practice golf balls (a lovely orange) with a simple rope running through it, little knots tied on either side so the ball doesn't move around or fall off the string.  voila!

peace




SirJohnMandevill -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 8:26:55 AM)

I prefer not to use a gag. I like my sub to be vocal, whether it's from pain or pleasure. And as another poster pointed out, it also facilitates two-way communication, e.g. safewords instead of safe "signals."

Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)




MasterSohun -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 8:27:35 AM)

as many observe gags are a peronal choice i like ball gags on my subs i like the look.one must be careful with gags however they tend to cause alot of saliva,i also like rings gags but they are not for beginner Doms or slaves!




Missokyst -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 8:32:21 AM)

I see gags as a wasted hole.  However, I recently joined one of those bdsm porn sites, thetrainingofO and I have reconsidered.  There was one "model" who was being played by both a male and female dominant.  SHHHHHHHHHHHIITTTT.. that girl was sobbing and screaming at the most basic things.  I wanted to beat her into unconsciousness.  She was starting to piss me off until I took off my headphones.  Ahh.. blessed silence.
Gags do have a place.  Or tape.
Kyst




SirEbonyPhoenix -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 8:50:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sodsta

This question is based on my own observation, so it is all, of course, very subjective. I've found, from looking at the various BDSM video sites I subscribe to, that male Dominants seem much more happy to use gags on their subs than female Dominants.

I don't know if this is a gender thing, or just a personal preference thing. Maybe it's just a coincidence that the sites I watch happen to follow this trend, but it's quite interesting, all the same. Do you guys think there is some truth in this? Is it a gender preference or just a personal one?

If you're a Domiant, either male or female, how do you feel about gagging a submissive, and gags in general?



For me, I see it as a preference as opposed to gender. And as long as gags are used safely and properly and depending on the submissive/slave, I have no qualms about using them. Interestingly, I have made my own type of gags (thank you Kinky Crafts) from practice golf balls, but have yet to sell any of them! Oh, well. *sigh*




MadRabbit -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 8:52:28 AM)

I am a dissenter on this one.

I really have no personal fetish around them, think there is too many safety controversies revolving around them, and do not like restricting vocal communication.

I don't own one and probably won't ever use one.




sodsta -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 3:33:36 PM)

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Could it have anything to do with different relative talkativeness of the genders?


That's definitely something I considered, lol. ;P




lighthearted -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 7:54:01 PM)

I really like the gag he made me from rope.  biting down on it is more intuitive than biting into a ball gag because my whole mouth isn't stuffed.  also, when I bite down, I get such a...frissance...yummy.




TMaster2 -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 8:20:34 PM)

I have never used one, but think I will in the very near future (meeting a new slave, at least scheduled to) and I'm thinking it will be a new thing to try with her.  I will use the wiffle ball ones, I'm sure, both for safety and because I think all the drooling will be more reinforcement of her role, and I'd kinda like that too ;)  I think the screams and moans through it will be a good thing to hear.




TMaster2 -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 8:22:40 PM)

oh yeah, the rope kind -- that sounds good too!  But what is frissance?




marieToo -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 8:26:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TMaster2

oh yeah, the rope kind -- that sounds good too!  But what is frissance?


I think she means frisson.




lighthearted -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 8:36:38 PM)

both I think??  it was the only word I could think of.

anyway, it's a shiver...the really yummy uncontrollable kind.




Lordandmaster -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 8:55:50 PM)

It's "frisson."




marieToo -> RE: Gags... (12/29/2007 10:02:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lighthearted


anyway, it's a shiver...the really yummy uncontrollable kind.


oh god, yes.  I know it well.




vegeta -> RE: Gags... (12/30/2007 12:15:22 AM)

You heard the olsd saying."It's not complete bondage without the gag" and i totolly agree. I love the sights and sounds of a gaggged woman.




angelslave77 -> RE: Gags... (12/30/2007 1:24:20 AM)

we have a ring gag I love it and Sir loves me drooling everywhere




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