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BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:20:54 PM   
moki1984


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Status: offline 		I have seen posts in the past hating on big girls and I know of submissives/Dominants who have felt some angst towards them due to their weight. So...to all the skinny size 2 girls you might want to stop reading this now, if not I did warn you. Bbw's, big girls, chubby girls, whatever you want to call it look like REAL WOMEN. a woman shouuld not be a size 2..that it not feminine, it looks like a lil boy. Women should be curvy and voluptuous...have an ass on them and a pair of tits. As a biesexual woman I will say that when I see a woman who is a size 2-4...I do not find them attractive, they look like lil boys or lil girls at best...but women who are a size 10, size 12, size 14..those are real women. They have curves and actually have the body of a woman and hell..they can bear babies! lol. Pretty much I just got sick of seeing all the hating going on. I am not what is considered a "bbw" but I most definitely have an ass on me and you know what, i hope my outfits make it look bigger.

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:24:26 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		Thank you for the nice message. I'm so tired of all the usual "rants" about people like myself who are considered bbw's. ^5

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:24:37 PM   
CalifChick


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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:25:07 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		My butt is kinda flat, does that mean I'm notAWealWoman?Is my femininity locked into the size of my butt or breasts?

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:25:27 PM   
sexyred1


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Checking expedia.com now...

Calif



You totally crack me up.

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:27:10 PM   
CalifChick


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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:29:43 PM   
Leatherist


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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:36:33 PM   
greenearth21


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Status: offline 		hmm...i dont approve of putting anyone down due to their weight/race etc....just plain shallow. but we are all entitled to our preferences which means wat works for me may not work for you.  a size 2 woman is just as much woman as a size 12...and can bear babies as well:) all this hate should just stop
Camille65's question are very legitimate

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:38:37 PM   
Kaiynasha


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Status: offline 		You know for a lifestyle that is suppose to be accepting of all. I so am tired of the same ole rants about BBWs or SBBW or BBBBWs. Although freedom of speech will prevail it is downright offensive to read the same questions about BBWs like Phat women cannot be happy, like they cannot be fulfilled, like they cannot be good Dommes or submissives. If you don't like a Phat woman, then don't but allow those who do the opportunity to explore just as you want the opportunity to explore.

To the OP, I have been here for a bit, and I read constant topics that are EXACTLY the same:

Do BBWs make good Dommes?
BBW women and men who don't smell good?
How can someone be satisifed with a BBW?
Is being with a BBW better than being with skinny woman?
Can a BBW climb Mount Everest?
Is a BBW capable of going outside and getting the mail?
Can a BBW drive?
Are BBW educated? Have they gone to school? Do they shop for steak or potatoes first? Are they capable of walking across the street?

You catch my drift.  Meaningless crap. Therefore...it is nice OP for someone to finally give a thumbs up to the BBW woman.

Girls keep being fabu....keep being real. I know I am. Oh taste and see how good I Am.


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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:39:00 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		At first glance this post seemed to be supportive of BBW's, then morphed into putting down thinner women, which was bad enough. Then I realized it was a personal ad for the OP.

With as much fat bashing as there is, it is equally as bad to bash thinner women. The whole thing is ridiculous.

Tsk, tsk.

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:43:33 PM   
Hergirl0824


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Status: offline 		i am definitely a BBW lol  but not in GA and already have a wonderful Mistress...but thanks for appreciating those of us on the higher end of the scale...its nice to know that we are found attractive too

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:48:27 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

At first glance this post seemed to be supportive of BBW's, then morphed into putting down thinner women, which was bad enough. Then I realized it was a personal ad for the OP.

With as much fat bashing as there is, it is equally as bad to bash thinner women. The whole thing is ridiculous.

Tsk, tsk.


Agreed.  People are going to like or dislike you for a variety of reasons in life they may include weight, hair color, skin color, spelling, personality or any other variety of factors and some that are totally out of our control.  That is life.  Saying people shouldn't hate us but we should hate others is just as equally ridiculous.  Accept who you are and what you can and cannot change and accept that others have limitations in seeing you correctly because of them, but don't spread the ridiculous message that you're somehow better in the guise of supporting others.

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:50:25 PM   
lronitulstahp


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Status: offline 		Not at all...although i have ample amounts of both(smile).
Seriously though, a dear loved one of mine died of breast cancer.  She started out with a lumpectomy, and perhaps did herself a disservice because she felt that being a "woman" was somehow directly related to her breasts.  Eventually, she had a double mastectomy, anyway.  That taught me at an early age, that tits, ass and wealth or lack of them don't define us as women.  It's who and what we are in our very essence.  (have to think some bitchy shallow thoughts to counteract all this PC stuff, and quick!)

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:54:02 PM   
lockmeupplease


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Status: offline 		**stays on the sidelines and imagines this catfight being held in a jello-wrestling ring**

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:55:09 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lockmeupplease

**stays on the sidelines and imagines this catfight being held in a jello-wrestling ring**



Hey calling for naked jello wrestling is my line you!

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 7:56:40 PM   
sexyred1


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ORIGINAL: lockmeupplease

**stays on the sidelines and imagines this catfight being held in a jello-wrestling ring**


Oops, sorry, did not realize he was asking laurell3 about jello wrestling. In that case....it's ok.

What catfight are you referring to, other than the one in your fantasy? We are simply discussing the thread like adults with differing opinions.

In the myriad of fat threads, there are not usually catfights, it is more like empty air.

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 8:00:43 PM   
lockmeupplease


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

quote:

ORIGINAL: lockmeupplease

**stays on the sidelines and imagines this catfight being held in a jello-wrestling ring**


What catfight are you referring to, other than the one in your fantasy? We are simply discussing the thread like adults with differing opinions.

In the myriad of fat threads, there are not usually catfights, it is more like empty air.


Red--no offense intended.  It is the "empty air" nature of the discussion that led to my snarky comment.  (If it was my fantasy however, I would certainly want be the jello).

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 8:00:56 PM   
KyttynTheMynx


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Status: offline 		As much as I am glad to see someone FINALLY appreciating us bigger women, I am kinda sad that in the same breath, it was kinda rude towards the skinny ones.  At any rate, thanks for appreciating us fluffy chicks! I did need a pick me up after the night ive had...

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 8:02:49 PM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: lockmeupplease

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

quote:

ORIGINAL: lockmeupplease

**stays on the sidelines and imagines this catfight being held in a jello-wrestling ring**


What catfight are you referring to, other than the one in your fantasy? We are simply discussing the thread like adults with differing opinions.

In the myriad of fat threads, there are not usually catfights, it is more like empty air.


Red--no offense intended.  It is the "empty air" nature of the discussion that led to my snarky comment.  (If it was my fantasy however, I would certainly want be the jello).


I was thinking you would be the naked part, that's how it usually goes when you volunteer to watch only

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RE: BBW'S - 12/29/2007 8:04:59 PM   
Hergirl0824


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Status: offline 		you know what would be really wonderful is a world where ALL women are appreciated for the individual beauty and not the number listed on the tag on their clothes...but then again i know i am just dreaming...


ahhhhhhhh ok  resume the naked jello wrestling...just one question though...what flavor is the jello?


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