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I know I'm not the first, but,........... - 12/30/2007 7:27:40 AM

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I'm sure this has probably been asked before, many times I'm sure. Lately I have been allowing my sub to play with my ass. she has used fingers and little toys on me and I have enjoyed it (ok maybe ALOT) But last night she used a "regular" sized shaky thing and it drove me crazy. So my question....Although I have absolutly zero desire to ever be with a man,...does this mean that I may be bi or at least curious? I Know that logically it is a stupid question, I'm just curious about responses. Plus I want to lose the cone....lol :)

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RE: I know I'm not the first, but,........... - 12/30/2007 7:44:35 AM

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No it doesn't. You've stated you have no desire to be with a man. All it means, at least for now, is you enjoy anal play and insertion, neither of which requires a male.

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RE: I know I'm not the first, but,........... - 12/30/2007 7:46:29 AM

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I like that "at least for now" part. lol Thanks, Have a great new year! :)

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RE: I know I'm not the first, but,........... - 12/30/2007 7:53:01 AM

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Well that thread went no where fast.......lmao :)

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RE: I know I'm not the first, but,........... - 12/30/2007 10:34:08 AM

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The problem is that you are seeing certain activities as masculine or feminine. You perceive that enjoying anal sex means that you might be curious or open to having a man doing the same thing to you.

It doesn't mean that. But perhaps some examination of stereotypes and preconceived notions is in order? Not being snarky, just giving you some food for thought.

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RE: I know I'm not the first, but,........... - 12/30/2007 12:02:06 PM

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Could be Bi/curious or you could just like your ass played with.

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RE: I know I'm not the first, but,........... - 12/30/2007 12:27:59 PM

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Thanks for posting this question. I'm pretty sure it's a question often asked. Anal play is sensual just like as any other, I don't think sexuality is involved with anal play any more than discipline or nipple play. Just my two cents

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RE: I know I'm not the first, but,........... - 12/30/2007 12:45:21 PM

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This question often gets asked from the other veiwpoint. Alot of men are afraid that enjoying anal stimulation means they are gay. Enjoying the sensations themselves doesnt have anything at all to do with sexualk orientation. If you enjoy your girl doing it, it doesnt make you bi. Just like for a straight male who lets his girlfriend use a prostate stimulator on him..doesnt make him gay...makes him a straightmale who likes his prostate stimulated.

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