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RavenOak -> RE: Who has the power? (1/18/2008 9:27:16 AM)
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My ex and I are both switches. I'm more Domme than sub with him. Even tho we have parted ways we still like to go out to clubs and freak people out. I've rarely wore the collar for him. Infact, I can count on one had that it happend in 5 yrs we were together.
He has more submissive desires and I just love a CD in a collar with a leash. I totally get my rocks off leading a CD around with a leash! Meow!
However, when he was in the mood to top I rather enjoyed his toy of choice....cuffs. Very erotic being restrained by someone you restrained the day before.
Sometimes we did struggle for the top position. Extremely erotic! Play fighting while naked is the utmost turn on....at least for me! And at times I'd top for awhile then he would take control and top. It all worked out in the end. We both were satisfied at the end of the night...that's all that really mattered.
Bottom line is, there's no real ryhm or reason...it just happens when it happens!
Kisses!
Raven
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