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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I do not have a contridicatory nature, I am Dominant naturally. I prefer subsmissive men in my relationships and I always have. I look upon other dominants as equals regardless of gender. I feel attracted to submissives and protective towards them, its just how I am wired.  I am in control in the bedroom and out of it, that is how I prefer things and either the man agrees or he will be replaced.

In my relationships with Dominant males it was always a battle of the wills and I do not give in, so they were doomed. But I look at it this way I am what I am and I'm not about to change now at this age.

~Lashra

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ORIGINAL: Matt22

rrrr. Thanks for the responses. They're solid, and they say in very clear language that these sort of relationships do happen and are healthy. Still...I have had enough experience to see that it doesn't work for me if she is running the show.