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Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 7:44:50 AM   
bbwsarah1980


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This is my first post
Anyway i recently did a group sex session with 5 guys
and the results where well poor
premature ejacultion was a big issues, are there any women with advcie on this or how to aviod it next time in a group situation please?

Peace

Sarah
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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 7:47:31 AM   
justheather


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Status: offline 		Maybe you could hold auditions stressing endurance?
Or you could just go a few more rounds. It usually takes longer after the first orgasm, yes?
Maybe they were just really really really excited and nervous. More foreplay? More time getting to know one another (and another and another...) first?
I wonder if a second try would make everyone involved more at ease and extend the playing time?

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 7:50:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Make them all jack off prior, that will tend to get rid of the nervousness and make them a bit calmer so they can handle the situation better.

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 7:58:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		Personally, I find the idea of the gangbangers being so worked up that they lose it quickly to be both pervy, hot, and in a way, rather degrading to both them and the person being banged. I've never set up a gangbang, but I have set up one-on-one things and I've always stressed that any kind of sexual dysfunction is fine. The idea is to get off, not to be some porno star.I keep the idea that I find it degrading to the man as well to myself for my personal enjoyment.


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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 8:00:13 AM   
unforegvn


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Status: offline 		I agree have them jerk off in the room before you begin.  Sit back and enjoy the show.  Have them wear condoms, cock rings and keep a strap on handy for those that get off to quick make them wear the strap-on to pleasure you... they will think it is hot.

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 8:03:46 AM   
MissSCD


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I hope you practiced safe sex.  I sure wouldn't be bragging about this even if I was poly.
I hope you did not refer to yourself as Mistress because, I may have to rethink that.
 
Regards, MissSCD

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 8:07:09 AM   
domahpet


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here, im a little sqicked. sorry

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 8:26:29 AM   
Lkg4MstrSacramen


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Status: offline 		I agree with tiger style. There needs to be less attention on performance and more on everyone having a pervy good time. Orgasm is not the goal in all kinky situations.

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 8:43:20 AM   
farglebargle


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Status: offline 		Was it spontaneous or planned? I think there are considerations for each scenario.

What, did they all run away, and no-one was up for a 2nd ride?




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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 8:44:15 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I don't agree with the idea of having them all jerk off beforehand.  How would that make them any less nervous?  Instead, I think you have to look at your recruitment methods.  Who were the guys?  How did you find them?  Was this the first time they had ever seen you naked?  Was it the first time they had ever seen you naked with another naked guy in the room?  Was it the first time they had ever been in a gang bang?  Those are some common dick-deflaters.

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 8:55:13 AM   
NorthernGent


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Status: offline 		Go to a swinging club, you'll find loads of blokes who are well versed in keeping it together.

Alternatively, have a camcorder at hand and set your stall out in advance - "any of you fuckers cum before me, and your Mother/s will be receiving an interesting work of art through the post".

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 11:58:38 AM   
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quote:

hope you practiced safe sex.  I sure wouldn't be bragging about this even if I was poly.

 
First question, why would you assume that she didn't practice safe sex? Secondly, do you think that there is something wrong with a gang bang, or enjoying consensual group sex so that a person shouldn't "brag" about it? And lastly, do you believe that gang bangs have anything to do with being poly?

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 12:30:08 PM   
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Maybe you could hold auditions stressing endurance?


I envision a 'full monty' jerkoff audition.

Disco is best served warm.

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 12:40:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissSCD

I hope you practiced safe sex.  I sure wouldn't be bragging about this even if I was poly.

I hope you did not refer to yourself as Mistress because, I may have to rethink that.
 


And your reason for being so judgmental is... what exactly?  And what does poly having to do with having group sex??  And what does calling yourself a Mistress have to do with having group sex??  (or in other words, what Julia said, which was not showing when I started typing this!)

Or are you trying to espouse a "One Twue Way" decalogue?

Cali

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 1:26:19 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		Have them ejaculate in one after another and that will add up to one regular one.

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 2:08:11 PM   
seeksfemslave


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Status: offline 		Sarah: take it as a complement. Your sexuality just overwhelmed them.

"Nerves" cant be the explanation because when "nevous" ole Percy just wont rise to the occasion.

Advice: get them to bring those flesh feel strapons as a back up.

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 2:13:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		How did we go from premature ejaculation to erectile dysfunction right at the outset????

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 3:20:03 PM   
cankles


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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 4:04:59 PM   
subfever


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ORIGINAL: bbwsarah1980

Hello

This is my first post
Anyway i recently did a group sex session with 5 guys
and the results where well poor
premature ejacultion was a big issues, are there any women with advcie on this or how to aviod it next time in a group situation please?

Peace

Sarah


Why would premature ejaculation be a problem if they all lined up for Round 2?

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RE: Gang bang was poor - 12/31/2007 5:52:43 PM   
NeedToUseYou


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subfever

quote:

ORIGINAL: bbwsarah1980

Hello

This is my first post
Anyway i recently did a group sex session with 5 guys
and the results where well poor
premature ejacultion was a big issues, are there any women with advcie on this or how to aviod it next time in a group situation please?

Peace

Sarah


Why would premature ejaculation be a problem if they all lined up for Round 2?



That is what I was wondering. 5 guys, at most 3 holes to fill, and I doubt all 3 were occupied at the same time. So, even if two were pumping at the same time, that leaves 3 to recoup. I'm not understanding the problem. And if it was vaginal only, that leaves 4 cocks to recoup to one pumping!!! That should be constant pumping for the whole day.



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